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Stanley “Gordon” Wetmore, of Signal Mountain TN formerly of Memphis, an interna- tionally renowned Portrait Artist and founding chairman of The Portrait Society of America passed away August 26, 2011 at the Hospice of Chattanooga, TN. He was born on July 9, 1938 in Memphis to Stanley and Clara Wetmore, who predeceased him. Recently he became critically ill after contracting a very rare condition called Prion Disease. He attended Germantown Junior High School, and graduated from Memphis’ Messick High School. While serving in the Air Force, he studied at Valdosta (GA) State University and later attended University of Memphis. He received an Art degree from University of Tennessee/Chattanooga and continued studies at The Art Students League, New York. Throughout his legendary career Wetmore studied with many well known, accomplished Portrait Artists. He was a member of the Artists Fellowship of New York, Oil Painters of America and board member of Overseers of Opera Boston. During his lifetime, Wetmore created more than 800 portraits of many distinguished and well-known subjects including President Richard M. Nixon, Jack Nicklaus, Fred Couples, Dr. and Mrs. Norman Vincent Peale, Leon Uris, Princess Grace and others including Stephen Reynolds, CEO Baptist Healthcare, Memphis. Wetmore enjoyed recalling his first ‘commissioned’ portrait of a fellow Air Force Airman’s girlfriend which he sold for $25! His works are in the collections of The White House, The Royal Palace of Monaco, Harvard University, Duke University, the University of North Carolina, Chapel Hill, Northwestern University, Presbyterian Hospital, New York, Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, the Harvard Medical Center and countless other remarkable collections spanning the globe. In 1978 and 1998, a collection of Wetmore’s paintings was published in the best-selling art book, Promised Land, with text by noted author Leon Uris and Israeli statesman Abba Eban. Irelend-Portrayed by Gordon Wetmore, with text by the artist and foreword by Princess Grace of Monaco appeared in 1980. Gordon Wetmore’s Prayers for Boys and Girls was published in 1986. In 2004, Vanishing Kingdoms, with twenty portraits by Wetmore and text by Ambassador Walter J.P. Curley was published in Ireland by Lilliput Press. He is survived by his wife, Connie; daughters, Amy, Alexandra and Abigal Wetmore of Signal Mountain; sisters, Jane Hester, Kim Stubblefield (Keith), and Virginia Vaughan (Robert), all of Collierville TN, Carolyn Burkett of Mountain View, AR; brothers, Louis Wetmore (Julia) of Hickory, NC, Jimmy Street (Debbie), of Southaven MS and Art Street (Melana) of Oakland TN; 22 nieces and nephews; and 32 grandnieces and nephews. Funeral arrangements are incomplete and being handled by Chattanooga Funeral Home, East Chapel.

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Published by The Commercial Appeal on Aug. 30, 2011.

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Charlotte McClain

September 25, 2011

Gordon was such a kind and gentle man in every sense of the word, it is very hard to believe that he is no longer with us. It was always a pleasure to have him here and the time that Connie came with him was so special. I am thrilled that I have 2 beautiful portraits by him which I will forever cherish. All of his paintings have such warmth combined with reality.They truly let you know the subject.There is no one better!I feel honored and lucky to have found him and gotten to know him as a friend.
Thank you Gordon and thank you Connie. My heart and sympathy go out to you all.

shannon wetmore

September 9, 2011

i only had the pleasure of meeting him face to face on one or two occasions, but he always struck me as a kind, wonderful, gentle soul. i've only met one of his lovely daughters, but if she's any indication of how he lived his life, then he was indeed the best of men. my thoughts and prayers are with connie and the girls. love to you all.

Dr. jonathan Christianson

September 7, 2011

gordon, as a friend, loving husband to Connie and father to Amy, Alexander & Abigale, your smile and whit to me was second only to your infectous hardy laughter and transparent kindness. You could capture on canvas the core substance of your subject beyond what a mere image could convey. In person, always cordial, kind and compassionate. AS a true perfectionist of your art the imperfections of your subjects were seemlessly joined with the perfections of that credited to god and painted so beautifully by you. That like your friendship remain as a reminder of my true and now eternal friend.

Elliott Wall

September 5, 2011

I only met Gordon by phone a few years ago even though we were distantly related, but we talked for at least an hour that first time. He was encouraging to me about my art at a time of frustration, and had some very interesting insights!

*You will be missed, my friend*

Jean Scanlin Wright

September 2, 2011

Gordon will always hold a special place in my heart. My first painting was juried by him and accepted into a Portrait Society of Atlanta's exhibition six years ago. Please know how much he has positively influenced me and so many other artists. He gave a great deal of his time and talent to help us become better artists. I will keep your family in my prayers.

Sharon Cole

August 31, 2011

Gordon Wetmore was first my teacher 5th grade teacher at McBrian Elem. He did a chalk picture of my brother and I at my Daddy's bank in East Ridge. He was dear friends with my parents. As an adult I contacted him a year or so ago and he remembered me fondly and talked of my parents Bill and Shirley Powell and how he missed them. I have a few of his prints besides the picture he did of me and my brother as well as his book. He was a great teacher, friend and man. I know he and my parents are talking in heaven of times past. I was shocked to hear of his death. He will be missed by many. God bless the family that is hurting from the loss of this great man.

Ernest and Jacqueline Varner

August 31, 2011

Gordon’s love of God was demonstrated in the way he loved and related to all of us. I was so blessed to have had an opportunity to visit with him, his daughter, and “Noah” before he went to be with the Lord. While also representing the Portrait Society of Atlanta, I wanted him to know that we appreciated his years of devotion and continued to pray for him in sickness as well as in health.
Thanks for being my friend and mentor. We’ll paint together again someday. Please save me an easel nearby. Love you, Ernest and Jacqueline Varner.

Ernest and Jacqueline Varner

August 31, 2011

Gordon’s love of God was demonstrated in the way he loved and related to all of us. I was so blessed to have had an opportunity to visit with him, his daughter, and “Noah” before he went to be with the Lord. While also representing the Portrait Society of Atlanta, I wanted him to know that we appreciated his years of devotion and continued to pray for him in sickness as well as in health.
Thanks for being my friend and mentor. We’ll paint together again someday. Please save me an easel nearby. Love you, Ernest and Jacqueline Varner.

Steve Smith

August 31, 2011

In the early 90s I had the opportunity to do some work for Gordon as his home on Signal Mountain. I only got to speak with him briefly that day but a few weeks later he called me up to invite me to join a local business organization he was a member of. I have been self-employed for more that 25 years and Gordon is the only customer I ever had who had invited me to join in any group they were a part of. I did accept the invite and over several visits with him both at the meetings and at his home, I got to know the warm, generous and talented man that he was. To this day I still remember his smile and especially his laugh. Both were infectious. Amazed by his talent. Absolutely! Amazed that he was so down to earth, so humble. Amazed EVEN MORE. I remember Amy had completed some paintings before I visited their home, and he could hardly wait to show me her work. He was SO PROUD! He was proud of all of his family and intimated to me once that one of the hardest parts about his work was being away from them when he was completing a portrait in some distant place.

Just before moving away from the area to Washington, DC (to be with my future wife), I was going to be meeting my future in-laws for Christmas in New York City and I wanted to give them a special gift. They were both of Jewish heritage and immediately I thought of Gordon's "Promised Land". But, as I tried to find one of the copies of the book, it was just not available. I called Gordon and asked him if he knew where I could get a copy but alas, he did not have any and this was 1993 and the book had been out of print for a few years. I was resigned to look for another gift. But, Gordon took it upon himself to find me a copy and as fate would have it he located a small used bookstore on Signal Mountain that had a copy. He called me back and told me they had it and I hurried to purchase it. He asked me to bring it by the house so he could sign it and I gladly did. The paper jacket of the book was a bit tattered and Gordon insisted on repairing it as best as was possible. I was so happy with the book as were my future in-laws. Did I forget to mention that this was just two days before Christmas. I know Gordon had to be very busy. Who ISN'T busy right before Christmas? But, I think that was the way Gordon always was. Always taking time out to care.

It was an honor and privilige to know Gordon. My thoughts and prayers to Connie and his entire family.

Winsley Bates

August 30, 2011

I feel I have lost a true friend. I met Gordon when he was helping the youth at First Presbyterian in Chattanooga in the early 1960's. Although he was very busy then going to UC, working at channel 9 as a comercial artist and serving in the church, he somehow had time for a teenage boy who needed a friend. We went camping together many times, he helped me earn my boy scout cycling badge by accompaiying many times on 25 mile bike trips. All of this while being very busy. Ruby and I had the privilidge of meeting his dear wife Connie a couple of years ago and heard about his beloved children. He will be missed more than words can say. See you on the other side Gordon.

August 29, 2011

My love and prayers go out to Connie and the girls. I am deeply sorry for your great loss. Gordon was a wonderful person who was admired and respected by all. He was always proud of his family. His art is a treasure for many years to come.
Love,
Cam Busch and Family

August 29, 2011

Gordon was our friend, as we his family. We are so shocked and saddened that he will not be here with us anymore, and at the same time we are thrilled that He is with the Lord he loved and served so well. Our love to all of his family at this time - we will be praying for you all. Gordon is in a wonderful place, Heaven, and for that you can be thankful. Those of us who know the Lord will be with him again, and that is our comfort. This parting is just for a short time. Our love to you Connie, Amy, Alexandra and Abigail - you have been blessed by having such a wonderful husband and father. Ike and Carolyn Keay - we remember every summer going to the playhouse on Signal Mt. with you, we remember times when you came to Bethel and the interest you took in our children there - God is blessing you for those times right now!! Thanks for reaching out to those who had no father or mother to love them.

Steve Doherty

August 29, 2011

Gordon had the extraordinary ability to bring out the best in people whether he was painting their portrait or organizing them into a convention. I often told him he should have been a diplomat because his Southern charms and respectful attitude allowed him to bring together people who hadn't gotten along in years. I will miss our long conversations, our many laughs, and a deep friendship of 30 years.

Carl Eberhart

August 29, 2011

My family was very saddened to hear of Gordon's passing. He was a wonderful friend to us all, and to my father, Joseph Eberhart. In the early 1960's, they briefly lived together before my parents got married. They also taught school together at McBrien Elementary. They kept in touch over the years, and last year, we all were extremely honored and touched to have Gordon eulogize my father when he passed away. In recent years, I had the pleasure of visiting with Gordon and Connie, and also with Amy. From my own artistic background, I was awestruck by the unique hand of the artist in Gordon's work. Looking into the eyes of the children he painted, it was as if the beauty of their souls was laid bare. Also amazing is the sheer size of Gordon's body of work. My own personal favorite memory, was when I asked Gordon to tell me what it was like to meet Grace Kelly. Gordon was a magnificent artist and human being. His life and his work touched many people. His art and legacy will thankfully live on, and he will be sorely missed. Heaven can now have its own portrait done.

Wendy Mears

August 29, 2011

Gordon was such an asset to the Talmage, Perkin family. It was our privilage to know and love Gordon. We always loved having you stop by Va when we lived there. Sorry you never got to NC. Wendy

Dana Spiva

August 29, 2011

We know you are standing with Jesus our Lord and Savior now, along with Grandmother Street. That, even with the pain and sadness, is such a salve to this family you meant so much to! Thank you for being a part of all of our lives...we love you, Uncle Gordon. May you rest in eternal Peace.

August 29, 2011

May his memory always be for a blessing........
The Charyn family

Eric Clarke

August 29, 2011

I had the distinct privilege of knowing Mr Wetmore over several years and later as Gordon when he did our children's portrait a couple of years ago. All of our children enjoyed getting to know him and his kind and calm demeanor and genuine friendliness is a lasting impression on our whole family. Our prayers are with the Wetmore family and our memories of Gordon are shared by many.

Gil Patton

August 29, 2011

I first new Gordon Wetmore as a student at McBrien Elementay School in East Ridge.He was a great role model and wanted to paint all of our pictures. We miss you "Mr. Wetmore".

"The Artists' Colony" Gatlinburg Tenn 1971

Thomas V. Nash

August 28, 2011

Gordon and I became friends while we were both creating pastel portraits for tourists at “The Artists’ Colony” in Gatlinburg Tenn. in 1971. That summer he and Connie were married. Years later we would serve together on the board of the American Society of Portrait Artists, before Gordon went on to co found and become the Chairman of the Portrait Society of America, the largest such organization in the world. I have very few colleagues alive today that go back 40 years with me. This kind, jovial and loving man was taken from us way too soon. He will be missed. I still find it very hard to believe he is gone. My love to Connie and the girls, his sisters and brothers and everyone in Gordon’s’ large family.

Bill McClay

August 28, 2011

It's hard to find words to express how deeply I and my family feel the loss of Gordon. He was indeed a wonderful man, and I've never known anyone like him, not only in his kindness and generosity, but in his unusual combination of immense talent and immense and genuine modesty. Many of the people around him in his day to day life had no idea of how eminent he was in his field, and he was never one to bring it up. Yet this reticence was somehow right, because his artistic gifts, great as they were, were surpassed by his profounder gifts of soul and spirit, a fact that all who knew him understood and could see plainly. He was truly an exemplary man, whose exemplary family provides even more powerful testimony to that fact than do his many wondrous works of art. I join with them in celebrating his life, and grieving our loss.

Chris (née Holland) Giblin

August 28, 2011

My family and I had the good fortune to meet Gordon as he and I were studying at the University of Chattanooga. Gordon embraced my whole family (mother, sisters and brother) with his infectious humor and affection, as if we were his own family. My sister Peg and I reconnected with him recently on Facebook and caught up on the many events occurring in the intervening years. His graciousness was evident when Peg participated in a recent Portrait Clinic. After asking her to sit for him during the demonstration, he graciously gave her her portrait he had just composed. His accomplishments were amazing, except they weren't surprising in light of his talent. Condolences to Connie of
whom he spoke so lovingly, and his daughters who were the light
of his life.

Rick McCashin

August 28, 2011

A very talented and kind person that others are judged by. I am glad that a chance meeting at a local restaurant allowed me to reignite a friendship of many years ago. You will be missed....

Sherrie Cooley Graham

August 28, 2011

Gordon Wetmore, was not only my jr. high school teacher, but my facebook friend. He was such a wonderful man and I regret seeing that he passed away. My prayers are with his family who he thought so much of. His children we talked about and his loving wife on our chats with facebook.
He will be sadly missed.
"God only takes the best"

Chaz Hester

August 27, 2011

Uncle Gordon was such a good man. He was always smiling, always happy, always laughing. Even now, I can hear his booming baritone laugh dancing off the rafters or echoing through the halls. He could light up a room with his presence. He could make a stranger feel special. He made the world a better place with his art, with his smile, with his wisdom, with his joy and with his spirit. His body is gone, but his spirit will live forever as well as his many beautiful portraits. It was so awesome to watch him transform a blank sheet of paper into a breath taking, life like master piece with what appeared to be little effort but was actually genius in action. We will miss you dearly Uncle G, Chuckie Boy.

Linda McSwain

August 27, 2011

Rest in peace Gordon Wetmore. You were one of a kind and will be deeply missed by all who had the honor to know you. God Bless Your Family.

Suzi James

August 27, 2011

I had the pleasure of growing up next door to the Wetmores on Signal Mountain until I moved away in 1980. Many times a week, I would find myself over at their house playing with Amy and Alexandra, visiting with Connie in the kitchen and perching up in Gordon's studio chatting his ear off while he painted. He was a busy man but always had time for this little 8 or 10 year old girl from next door.

His friends and and family are so fortunate to have had such a good and kind man in their lives. He will certainly be missed by all of us.

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