David Fesette

David Fesette, 83, died at home on September 4, 2024, surrounded by his loving family.

David was born to Raelene and Raymond Fesette on July 14, 1941. His father left David, his mother, and younger brother at a young age, an act which formed David's deep-rooted sense of justice and empathy, focused especially on women and people facing struggles in life. His father's actions created a boy, and then a man-unusual for his generation-who was a fierce feminist and liberal; a quiet, deeply moral, and generous man.

David's grandparents, Sadie (Currier) and John Pepler, were important in the lives of David and his brother, Jack, who had an intellectual disability. From a young age, David took on extra responsibility to make sure that his brother would never go to a care facility, and, in fact, Jack lived the entirety of his life in the care of his family.

Early in his marriage, David worked as a barber alongside his father-in-law, George Kalajian, before moving into sales. His customers responded to his quiet, unpretentious manner so positively that his boss called him the best salesperson in the company. He served in the Army National Guard during the Vietnam era.

David worked tirelessly to support his family, maintaining two houses, one for his wife and kids, and another for his mother and brother.

In retirement, David and Patty did a significant amount of traveling, both foreign and domestic. He enjoyed planning the trips almost as much as the trips themselves.

His interests included stock trading, astronomy, history, music, movies, science, and sports.

David and his wife enjoyed many wonderful meals, as well as the company of the staff, at the Red Blazer. He also loved his weekly hot dog from Gretchen at Puppy Love.

David's greatest pride and joy was his only grandchild, Olivia. David and his wife helped their daughter provide Olivia with the education they believed would provide her with the best foundation in life, from kindergarten through grad school. His life ended knowing that she had found a worthy man in Dylan Cassidy.

David was predeceased by his awesome son, Mark Fesette, his mother, brother, and grandparents.

His presence is mourned by his high school sweetheart, perfect match, and beloved wife of 62 years, Patricia (Kalajian) Fesette, grateful daughter, Karrie Fesette, adored granddaughter, Olivia Harding, her partner, Dylan Cassidy, cousin Bill Welcome and wife, Pam, and sister-in-law Brenda Henley and her family.

Thank you to the many kind neighbors on Harvard Street who were always willing to help out, and to the healthcare providers who cared for him in the last years of his life, especially Dr. Patrick Fox, massage therapist Suzanne Plante, and the team at Bayada Hospice, who made sure he was comfortable in his final days..

There will be no services, per David's wishes. In his memory, take good care of your loved ones. Always recognize where someone is coming from before making judgment. In lieu of flowers, donations to a charity of your choice would be appreciated.