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Elaine Merchant Obituary

Elaine (Lillios) Merchant

Concord, NH - Elaine (Lillios) Merchant, 79, of Concord, passed away unexpectedly at home on June 19, 2025. She was born in Torrington, CT, on August 19, 1945, to her late parents, her father Spiro Lillios and her mother Amelia (Demas) Boches. Raised and educated in Concord, NH, Elaine graduated from Concord High School with the Class of 1964. After high school, she began her career that spanned fifty years of service at the New Hampshire Division of Motor Vehicles in Concord.

Elaine, known as a sweet and loving soul, would gladly help those who were less fortunate than herself. She enjoyed living a simple life of watching old programs, a movie buff for the classics, and taking care of her pet cat. When Elaine was younger, she spent time enjoying the ocean breeze at the beach and spending time in the sun. As a former member of Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church, where she sang in the choir in her youth. Elaine touched many lives in many different circles, where she will be fondly loved, cherished and missed by all.

Elaine is survived by her beloved son and only child, Christopher M. Merchant, of Concord, NH, her two sisters, Alexandra Lekkas & her husband James of Manchester, Vasiliki Collins & her husband Michael of Stratham, NH, and several nieces and nephews. In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her two sisters, Rita Bunten and Sofia Plentzas.

Visitation for Elaine will be held on Tuesday, July 1, 2025, from 12:00 – 1:00 PM at the Holy Trinity Greek Church, 68 North State Street, Concord, NH. Friends and family are cordially invited to attend. A funeral service will begin at 1:00 PM at the conclusion of calling hours at the church. Interment to follow at Blossom Hill Cemetery, 207 N State St, Concord. Directions, information, and condolences at https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/concord-nh/elaine-merchant-12428210. Arrangements under the direction of Bennett Funeral Home, 209 North Main Street, Concord, NH, 03301.

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Published by Concord Monitor on Jun. 27, 2025.

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George Locke Gorman

July 1, 2025

I can never understand why God always takes the good ones too soon. Elaine will leave a hole in many hearts. The family has my deepest sympathies and I pray God will give you only the best, most loved memories of her. She was a very special friend.

Deborah Cullen Brink

June 30, 2025

Elaine was a lovely person. I had the privilege of working with her for a time at the DMV. My condolences to the family.

Nancy Mahar

June 28, 2025

Sending my sympathy and love to Elaine's family. As a new student to Rundlett Middle school in 1960, Elaine welcomed me and became my friend. I have always remembered her for the kindness and friendship she gave me.

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