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Elizabeth Schalk Obituary
Merrimack, NH — Elizabeth "Betsy" Schalk, 51, of Merrimack passed away unexpectedly at her home on Tuesday, February 1st, 2022.
She was born in Harrisburg, PA on October 9th, 1970 to Virginia (Schultz) and the late David Schartner. Betsy will be forever loved and remembered by her mother; Ginnie, her husband of 20 years, Brian Schalk; two children, Samantha and Ethan Schalk; three siblings, Bruce Schartner & his wife Weng; sons Alec, Jarret & Ryan Schartner, Dee-Ann (Schartner) Decker and her husband John; daughter Morgan Decker, Steven Schartner; son Rob Schartner, two step brothers Matthew & Thomas Combs; along with the entire Schalk family, as well as many other aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and cousins of the Schultz and Schartner families.
She was raised in Weare & Concord, NH, graduated from Concord High School and received her associates degree from NHTI. She worked at NH Hospital while in college, and later Geac, Scribe Software, and Fidelity.
She moved to Weare as a small child where she made many favorite memories and collected stories of growing up on a farm, skiing at Pat's Peak, and road tripping and camping with her family.
Betsy enjoyed photography, skiing, spending time with her family and had a deep love for animals (especially her dogs Boog and Grace). She particularly loved spending time at her family camp on Bear Island, Lake Winnipesaukee. She loved going to school and sporting events for all the kids.
Betsy was the glue that kept her family connected. She loved keeping up with her far reaching family and friends. Betsy had a gift of remembering everyone and the ability to recall stories others had forgotten that she graciously shared at family gatherings and reunions.
A memorial service for Betsy will be held on Saturday, February 12th, 2022 at 3 pm at St. Paul's church in Concord, NH. A celebration of life, to connect as Betsy would, will be scheduled for the spring.
Betsy fought a long hard battle with her mental health and requested that we continue to advocate for better mental health care, especially around education and management of the dangers and dependencies of prescription benzodiazepines and depression medications.
For those who wish, memorial contributions can be made to The Alliance for Benzodiazepine Best Practices, 3221 NE 30th Ave, Portland, OR 97212 https://benzoreform.org or NAMI NH,85 N State St, Concord, NH 03301
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Memories and Condolences
for Elizabeth Schalk
Kirsten Rattunde
February 15, 2022
Dear Brian, Sam and Eathon, we are very sorry for your loss. We’re heartbroken. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May Betsy Rest In Peace.
Brenda Perkins
February 12, 2022
I may have know you in high school, but I was glad to call you friend as adults. My thoughts and prayers are with all who are missing you.
Laurie Tzannos
February 12, 2022
My sweet friend, a piece of me is broken without the possibility of repair. My hope now is that you are at peace. I will miss our long talks and shared laughs! I love you, Bets, and I will miss you always!
Monica Small
February 11, 2022
So very sad to hear of Betsy's passing. Deepest condolences to all of her family.
Carole Milliken
February 11, 2022
Ginny and family, so very sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers to you all.
Erica Druke
February 11, 2022
Betsy: It saddens me that you left us all so soon but I'm comforted knowing that you are with loved ones, family and friends in heaven. See you again one day.
Linda Sullivan
February 10, 2022
Deepest sympathies to the Schalk family! Rest in peace Betsy! I use to work with Betsy at Reeds Ferry school. I remember her kids in elementary school when they were small! My thoughts are with her family!
Linda Gilbert
February 10, 2022
I am so very sorry to hear about Betsy's passing. I will always remember her bright, infectious smile and her great enthusiasm as a student in my second grade class in Weare. One of my fondest memories of Betsy is skiing at Pat's Peak after school onTuesdays and Friday night skiing. She will be deeply missed by all. Memory Eternal.
February 10, 2022
i love you mom. forever and always- sweet pea
Beverly & David Dunning
February 10, 2022
We have such fond memories of Betsy growing up as our neighbor in Weare. We are having two Gideon Bibles placed in her memory.
Bev & Dave Dunning
Joyce Coburn
February 9, 2022
My thoughts and prayers are with all of Betsy's family.
We were shocked and saddened by the news of her passing.
My family and I have known Betsy since she was in high school. She was at our house many times.
She was always special to me and was so thoughtful and caring. She will be sadly missed.
Heaven has gained precious special angel.
Test in sweet peace, sweet girl.
Christine Brandel
February 9, 2022
Deepest sympathies for your incredible loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
February 9, 2022
Have known the Schartner family for many years. My sympathy to all. Great to reconnect last summer on Bear island. Norma Keeler
Donald & Donna Gerow/Constant-Haley
February 8, 2022
Dear Brian,
Please know that we have you in our thoughts and prayers. Accept our deepest sympathy at this sad time. Our heart aches for you, Samantha, Ethan and your extended family. Betsy always found us at any gathering and took the time to talk to the both of us and share a story. She was sweet and kind. She will be missed. Love
Joyce Adams
February 8, 2022
My thoughts and prayers are with your family, Brian.
Laurie DiCenso
February 7, 2022
Oh Bets,
My heart aches My deepest hope is that you have found peaceful rest.
Kristine Sawdey
February 7, 2022
Rest in Peace Betsy, I'll miss seeing you on your walks and I'm glad we met years ago at Jasper Valley. Deepest condolences to the family. The Sawdey Family, Nathan Hale Lane
Jennifer Delisle
February 7, 2022
Brian I’m so sorry for your family’s loss. My heart breaks for you. Betsy was always the friendliest person, and so wonderful to talk to. She always helped with my charity events, and helping with the clothing drives for foster children. She will be greatly missed by all.
Maranda Twombley
February 7, 2022
We miss you beyond words. It is difficult to navigate this time and life is just not the same without you in it. I will cherish every memory, and hope you have found everlasting peace. Love you so very much.
Jean's Auto vaillancourt
February 7, 2022
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Darlene LaFosse
February 6, 2022
We will miss seeing you in the neighborhood. Rest easy sweet Betsy
Peter & Darlene LaFosse
Nancy and Cameron Hoyt
February 6, 2022
May the love of friends and family be a comfort in this sad time. Very sorry for the loss of such a beautiful person.
Deb (Murray) Hart
February 6, 2022
I have many fond memories of Betsy growing up, including a winter trip to Bear Island. We grew up and along the way lost touch. But after the death of my husband, Betsy she reached out with a note that was so true and heartfelt I have never forgotten it. My deepest condolences to all who loved her.
Mrs. Bavaro
February 6, 2022
Betsy, you are remembered so fondly at Reeds Ferry School. The love for your children and the pride that always showed. You dedicated so much of your time to make Reeds Ferry a wonderful place for staff and children. Our school is grateful for your presence all those years. We love you & send heartfelt sympathy to Brian, Sammy & Ethan and keep them lifted in prayer. Rest peacefully sweet Betsy.
Larry & Bernadette Carpenter
February 6, 2022
Betsy we will remember you fondly and our neighborly chats during these past several years. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Marissa Twombley
February 6, 2022
I’m going to miss you so much Auntie Betsy. You are such a light and I know you are watching over everyone here.
The Staff of George R. Rivet Funeral Home
February 8, 2022
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