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Helene Bourque Obituary

Helene B. (Boucher) Bourque



Helene B. Bourque, 80, of Penacook died on Monday December 3rd at Hospice House in Concord with children and grandchildren at her side. She was Born in Penacook she was the daughter of Camille and Paulette (Moreau) Boucher. She was a resident of Penacook for most of her life.



Helene graduated from St. Johns High School class of 1955, Mt. St. Marys Sacred Heart School of Nursing class of 1958; she worked as a nurse at Mass. General Hospital in Boston, Concord Hospital and the Merrimack County Nursing Home. She, along with her brothers, owned and operated Thirty Pines General Store in Penacook. She then changed course and attended the New England Institute of Funeral Directing and Embalming where she graduated in 1984. She worked in Funeral Service ever since then as the owner of the former Boutwell and Hussey-Wiren Funeral Home in Concord and the current Wendell J. Butt Funeral Home in Penacook.



She leaves her daughter Marie Griffith of Penacook; her sons Dr. Daniel Bourque and his wife Karima of Bend, OR; Ronald Bourque and his wife Nancy of East Aurora, NY; Christopher Bourque of Incline Village, NV; and Michael Bourque of Penacook; her daughter in law Marianne Bourque of Myrtle Beach, SC; her grandchildren Kirby, Amanda, Zachary, Courtnay, Hannah, Jordan, Madison, Brennan, Kyra, Anneli, and Noah; her great-grandchildren Sienna, Connor and Parker; two brothers Paul Boucher of Dover and Lawrence Boucher and his wife Linda of Penacook; a sister Pauline Allen of Norwood, MA; and her sister in laws Elaine Boucher of Penacook, Mary Boucher of Concord and Connie Boucher of VA; and countless nieces, nephews, cousins and friends who will mis her dearly. She was predeceased by her son Lawrence Bourque in 2017 her brothers Pierre Boucher, Dr. Robert Boucher, George Boucher and Maurice Boucher.



Helene (Meme or Mem as she is fondly called) was involved in countless groups and activities that supported her community and her children's activities. She was very proud to have been a founding member of the ICB basketball program. She was a member of the Concord Kiwanis Club, TOPS and the NH Funeral Directors Association and was Voting Supervisor for Ward 1 of Concord for many years. Helene spent many years living on and enjoying the Contoocook River and had been a member of the Contoocook River Improvement Society. No day was complete until she had taken a "ride around the river." Mem always had a great stories to tell - she had a certain flair and directness and did not pull any punches. She was kind, empathic, loyal and loving. She opened her home to all and many never left.



In lieu of flowers please consider a donation in her name to CRVNA-Hospice Program 30 Pillsbury St, Concord NH 03301 or the Brain Injury Association of NH 52 Pleasant St, Concord NH 03301.



Visiting hours will be held on Sunday from noon to 6 pm at the Wendell J Butt Funeral Home, 42 Washington St. Penacook NH, funeral services will be on Monday at 1 PM in the Chapel of the Funeral Home.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Concord Montior on Dec. 6, 2018.

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Norman

June 7, 2023

We had many many conversations and countless hours together. Wonderful person, and great family.
God Bless.
Norman K

Steven Burris

November 30, 2020

So hard to believe it's been nearly a year since Helene left us. Normally, she would be preparing for the big family Christmas Eve party, which has been a blessing for all the family for years. Helene will always be with us through her everlasting spirit, personality and expressions of friendship & love.

December 12, 2018

Marie,

So sorry to hear of your mom's passing. Please know that I am thinking of you during this difficult time.

Ann Garrett

December 11, 2018

Dear Special Bourque family ..My deepest sympathy in the loss of your wonderful mother...she was a great classmate always thinking of others... May you know my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time...Most sincerely with Love...Kathleen Plodzik Ordway

Darlene Tilton

December 11, 2018

Dear Mike & Family, So sorry for your loss. You've been like family to us here @ MCNH. Keep your memories close to treasure always. Bonnie, Darlene & Mary.

Gayle Sweeney

December 10, 2018

I'm so sorry to hear of Helen's passing. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Gayle

December 10, 2018

Dear Bourque Family:

We send our most sincere condolences upon the death of Helene. Kevin has known her since NEI days at Kenmore Square in Boston and Christine has had the pleasure of knowing her as a fellow female funeral director and friend at NHFDA seminars and events and also knowing Michael through our FD fellowship. Her obituary certainly describes the life of the wonderful woman you know and love. May your memories support you in the days ahead. Thinking of You and Remembering our friend Helene.

Kevin M. Radcliffe
Christine E. Peaslee-Radcliffe
Carl E. Peaslee
Peaslee Funeral Home
Farmington, NH

Kathleen Preve

December 9, 2018

So sorry to hear of Helene's passing. May she rest in peace.

Michael Lacoy

December 8, 2018

From childhood I remember how kind and warm Aunt Helene was to all us kids, and how generous and welcoming she was when we went to the Bourque home on River Road. Those are special memories. My deepest condolences to the entire Bourque & Boucher clan, especially Marie, Dan, Ron, Chris, and Mike.

Jon & Melody Steenbergen

December 8, 2018

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your whole family

Mary Jane Holmes Leathers

December 8, 2018

Sorry Larry and family in the loss of Helene. Blessings. Mary Jane

Mark LaRoche

December 7, 2018

Warm thoughts and prayers to the entire Bourque family, may she rest in comfort and peace in the glow of our Maker.

Virginia Field

December 7, 2018

To the whole Bourque family, my sympathy and prayers are with you all.

December 7, 2018

My condolences to the entire Bourque family.
Laura Steenbeke, Concord, NH

Peter Charron Sr

December 7, 2018

My sincere condolences to Helene's family.

The Fitzpatrick Family

December 7, 2018

So sorry for your loss our deepest sympathies.

Helen Steenbeke

December 7, 2018

Sending thoughts and prayers to the Bourque family with this great loss. Helen was a best friend to my sister growing up. May she rest in peace now.

Kristen Pinard-Kenney (Senior Program Director)

December 7, 2018

Helen was a friendly and kind woman whom we enjoyed having as a member of the Penacook Community Center Senior Program. I had the pleasure of spending time with her on a senior trip to the Ogunquit Playhouse.
Our thoughts and love go out to her family.

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Robin Hoyt

December 7, 2018

Helene's family are in our thoughts. She will be a guardian angel looking over all of you.

Steve Burris

December 6, 2018

Such a warm and engaging person, who enriched the lives of so many. Helene has always been very kind to our family and a wonderful role model for what it means to be a Mother & Grandmother, mentor and a positive force in the community. A personality never to be forgotten and an engaging smile and demeanor. We have all been fortunate to have known Helene. She will surely occupy a special space in the Lord's Kingdom..

Dick Cimikoski

December 6, 2018

So sorry for your loss. Your mom was so very kind to us during our time of loss.

Dave Breault

December 6, 2018

Many warm thoughts to the Bourque Clan. Lots of great memories from our childhood. Your mom was truly a wonderful person. You all are!

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