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James DePalo Obituary

James J. DePalo

Epsom, NH - James J. DePalo, 78, of Epsom, NH, passed away surrounded by family on Thursday, October 16, 2025; at the Merrimack Community Hospice House.

He was born in Framingham, MA on April 6, 1947, son of the late Dr. Thomas DePalo and Caroline (Aggasiz) DePalo. James grew up in Milford, MA, was educated in the local schools and went on to earn his associate's degree in business from Fisher Jr. College in Worcester, MA.

He proudly served his country in the United States Marine Corps. He fought in Vietnam and was later assigned to presidential guard duty at Camp David under President Nixon. James worked for several years as a sales manager for Auto Zone and later for Quest Service Group performing fixture and display installations at box retail stores. He was an avid motorcyclist and took several tours to Lake George with his kids in his side car. He enjoyed both waterskiing and snow skiing. He was an all-around handyman, and you could always find him tinkering and fixing things. He also enjoyed reading and loved his family.

He is survived by his wife Kathleen (Dudley) DePalo with whom he shared 48 years of marriage, son, Raymond DePalo and daughter, Marybeth DePalo, sister, Connie (DePalo) Hourihan and her husband Richard, grandchildren, Isabella and David McSweeney, many nieces and nephews, as well as his beloved dog, "Sirus."

Calling hours will be held on Monday, October 27th from 10Am-11:30AM at the Roan Family Funeral Home – Still Oaks Chapel, 1217 Suncook Valley, Epsom. A brief service will be held in the funeral home beginning at 11:30AM. Interment will follow with military honors at 1PM in the New Hampshire State Veterans Cemetery in Boscawen. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to either the Merrimack Community Hospice House, 210 Naticook Road, Merrimack, NH 03054 or to Tunnels to Towers, 2361 Hylan Blvd, Staten Island, NY 10306. To share a memory or offer a condolence please visit www.roanfamilyfuneral.com

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Published by Concord Monitor on Oct. 20, 2025.

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Oct

27

Calling hours

10:00 a.m. - 11:30 a.m.

Roan Family Funeral Home of Epsom - Still Oaks Chapel

1217 Suncook Valley Hwy, Epsom, NH

Oct

27

Service

11:30 a.m.

Roan Family Funeral Home of Epsom - Still Oaks Chapel

1217 Suncook Valley Hwy, Epsom, NH

Oct

27

Interment

1:00 p.m.

New Hampshire State Veterans Cemetery

Boscawen, NH

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Roan Family Funeral Home of Epsom - Still Oaks Chapel

1217 Suncook Valley Hwy, Epsom, NH 03234

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