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John Frederick Stohrer

1927 - 2015

John Frederick Stohrer obituary, 1927-2015, Concord, NH

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1927

DIED

2015

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John Stohrer Obituary

John Frederick Stohrer, 87, passed away peacefully Saturday, Jan. 31, 2015, at the Merrimack County Nursing Home after a period of declining health.

Born on Aug. 9, 1927, to John Philip and Mabel (Birtwell) Stohrer in Concord, he attended Concord schools until joining the U.S. Navy in 1945. He proudly served in the U.S. Navy aboard the USS Midway on her maiden voyage, which awarded him the honor of "plank owner."

Upon leaving the Navy in 1946, he joined the Army and was assigned to the Army Intelligence unit stationed in Germany. After his military service, he began what would become much of his life's work and passion - education. He attended Plymouth Teacher's College, graduating with a Bachelor's degree in 1950. He taught high school English at Woodsville High School, then at New London Central School, where he always reminded his students to "push in your chairs."

In 1955, on the urging of his mother, he met the woman who would be the love of his life, Josephine Schmidt of Canterbury. They married two years later. He worked a number of different jobs to support his growing family, and attended the University of New Hampshire, graduating with a Master's Degree in Education in 1967. In addition to education, John was also dedicated to improving care of the developmentally disabled.

His employment included work for the State of New Hampshire as Chief of the Office of Mental Retardation, and co-creator of Guardianship Trust, a groundbreaking group home system for the developmentally disabled. He also chaired a number of national committees benefitting the developmentally disabled and closed head trauma. He was proud to have worked with his friend, ex-Congressman James Cleveland, to draft legislation that would improve the lives of those with mental challenges. That work resulted in the de-institutionalization of thousands of people, and that legacy continues today.

John eventually merged his two areas of interest and went back to work for the State of New Hampshire as a special education investigator and consultant at the NH State Department of Education, where he remained until his retirement at the age of 73.

In addition to his work, John volunteered his time and talents to his home city of Concord. He spent many years coaching Concord's youth in Little League baseball. Win or lose, he was always very proud and supportive of his players. He also served the Concord Board of Education for an impressive 22 years. ("Let's hear it for civic duty!" he often cheered as he headed out to attend board meetings.) One of his favorite pastimes was making his voice heard for education by way of the Editorial section of the Concord Monitor.

As dedicated as he was to his country, state, and city, his family meant everything to him. Visiting family and friends was always of great importance to him. His quick wit and dry sense of humor, along with his wry smile, will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

John was predeceased by Josephine, his wife of 47 years; and sisters, Phyllis Smith, Martha "Gina" Andrews and Ann Dwinnells.

He is survived by his five children and their spouses, Johanna and Bill Houman, John P. and Pamela Stohrer, Jennifer and Bradford Warriner, James and Fely Stohrer and Jason and Claudia Stohrer. He is also survived by his brother, James Stohrer and wife, Virginia; brother-in-law, Walter Dwinnells; and many beloved nieces and nephews. He adored his grandchildren, Eric Duntley, Heidi Sargent, Shawn Stohrer, Amanda and Samuel Diaz, Alex Balsamo, Kate and Tristan Warriner and Jack Stohrer; and great-grandchildren, Kaden, Shawn, Samantha and Seth Duntley, and Deandra Sargent.

A memorial gathering will be held Saturday, Feb. 21, from 2 to 4 p.m. in Ordway Hall at St. Paul's Church in Concord.

He will be interred at Maple Grove Cemetery in Canterbury next to his beloved wife in the spring.

Memorial donations may be made in John's name to the veterans' or children's charitable organization of your choice.

Arrangements are being made by the Cremation Society of New Hampshire.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Concord Monitor on Feb. 4, 2015.

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Chris Haskell

March 31, 2024

It's poignant to recall this fine English teacher at New London High School, 1960-'64 on several levels. Just one is easy to remember the exact dates--we had a play directed by him scheduled for on or right after November 22, 1963. The postponement required us to hustle to get the play put on some weeks later which also coincided with acceptance letter time; at least one actor, in that ennui of national sadness plus senioritis (?) hesitated to do it because of this combination of things; Mr. Stoher said wait a minute; made a phone call and locked in my college acceptance. Thus, 'tho' half a century has passed, his solid, straight-ahead, clarity as a teacher is recalled--with respect and some awe how the state of humanity presents such good influences into our lives however long ago those years may have been. With warmest wishes for family members and friends who may look in on this.
Our navy in which he served has the time honored wish for the departed, "Fair winds and following seas"--for John Stohrer, U.S. Navy Veteran, who got underway on a journey as inevitable as the tides;
but as pain-free, peaceful and beautiful as the sight from shore of a ship under sail,
helped mysteriously along to the next port by a following sea.
--CH, NLHS, '64; USN, USNR (Ret.)

Judy Stohrer-Roberge

February 25, 2015

Dear Family,
I just found out about your dad passing. I am so sorry for your loss.He and my dad his cousin George can be together again and tell jokes. Your dad was a great man and will be missed by all who knew him. God bless him and may his memory be eternal. Love, cousin Judy

Craig Montgomery

February 11, 2015

My condolences to Mr.Stohrer family. I'll always remember him as a great Little League coach.I now realize he had a great many more accomplishments in life. May you rest in peace sir.

Dan Van Keuren

February 9, 2015

I worked in my first job for John in Twitchell Bldg at 105 Pleasant St in Concord for the N.H. OMR and he was truly a leader, a fine gentleman, and a visionary who laid the groundwork for people with developmental disabilities and their families to have the best services possible. People in N.H. who have special needs are receiving the services they are today due to the vision that John Stohrer laid out in the 70's. John truly made a positive difference for thousands of persons and he was always humble and never calling attention to himself for his achievements. John had a great sense of humor and humility and he knew all the right people and he was an inspiration to many. My best wishes to John's family as he was a remarkable man, a civic leader, and a valuable member of the Concord School Board who always stood for what he thought was right, and he was. RIP John and thanks for inspiring everyone who you touched.

Martha Young

February 8, 2015

I have known John for many years, and he was always one of my favorite people. I worked with him for about eight years in the seventies, and we always kept in touch after that. He was my first FT boss and my favorite. He was a very caring person whose family was so important to him. He had a wonderful laugh, and I will miss hearing it. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

Deb Marston

February 5, 2015

I'm privileged to have grown up knowing John Stohrer. A very quick wit and fine person.

You're already missed, Mr Stohrer. Rest in peace.

Kirk Ramsey

February 4, 2015

I'm sorry to hear of his passing - he was a wonderful, dedicated teacher. In New London, he worked at Cricentis during his summer vacation (to make ends meet), and during the school year taught English and Writing at the High School level. He knew his craft, had a wry sense of humor "Well . . . that's a deep subject", and gave of his time to help students perform to the best of their ability. My sincere condolences to his family

Dawn Nelson

February 4, 2015

Jo, Ms. Shadow & Family, My best recollection of Jo's dad was when he came to the OAG to take measurements and build shelving units for Anne and Suzanne and how funny and comical he was during the process! May the memories you shared with him help you as you go through the grieving process.

Joe Burke

February 4, 2015

Mr. Stohrer was a great man and will be missed by all. Prayers to the Stohrer family.

Bert Mills

February 4, 2015

John was a creative and imaginative and humorous guy- he was my "critic teacher" when I was student teaching at old Penacook High School.Way back when!

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