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Thomas Clayton "Tom" Tobey

1939 - 2017

Thomas Clayton "Tom" Tobey obituary, 1939-2017, Gilford, NH

BORN

1939

DIED

2017

FUNERAL HOME

Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home

164 Pleasant Street

Laconia, New Hampshire

Thomas Tobey Obituary

GILFORD – Thomas "Tom" Clayton Tobey, 78, died Saturday, Oct. 7, 2017, at his home in Ft. Lauderdale, Fla.

Tom was born on July 10, 1939, in Manchester. He graduated from Manchester Central High School in 1957 and MIT in 1961.  He served in the U.S. Marine Corp. from 1956 through 1964.  Following active duty, he and a partner ran a residential and commercial construction company in Concord, before taking a position as VP in lending at New Hampshire Savings Bank from 1967 until 1977. Moving to the Lakes Region in 1977, Tom joined Laconia Savings Bank where he was Senior Loan Officer until 1990.  From 1990 until retiring in 2016, he was one of the Lakes Regions top real estate agents, working at Roche Realty Group.

He was past president of Laconia Rotary, United Way and the Governors Island Club and belonged to the Winter Harbor Yacht Club.

Tom was an avid fisherman and enjoyed boating and skiing.

Survivors include his companion, Jean Aberg, of Gilford; brother, Milton Tobey and his wife, Rita of Manchester; nieces, Patricia Newton and husband, Keith of Hooksett, Diana Glennnon and husband, Richard of Manchester and Sandra Schmerder and husband, Kenneth of Manchester; nephew, Milton Tobey Jr. and wife, Cheryl of Hooksett; several great nieces and nephews.  For the past 15 years, Tom very much enjoyed being part of Jean's family, especially grandchildren, Samuel Peirson and Addie and Clara Locke. In addition to his parents he is predeceased by a sister, Jane Craigen of Manchester.

There will be no calling hours.

A mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Thursday, Oct. 26, at 11 a.m. at St. Andre Bessette Parish-Sacred Heart Church, 291 Union Avenue, Laconia.

Burial will be held at a later date.

For those who wish the family suggests memorial donations may be made to the NH Humane Society, PO Box 572, Laconia NH 03247.

Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home & Cremation Services, 164 Pleasant St., Laconia is assisting the family with the arrangements. For more information and to view an online memorial go to wilkinsonbeane.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Concord Monitor on Oct. 24, 2017.

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Jim English

October 18, 2020

Tom was not just a good friend, he was a good person. I knew him best through my real estate business done with him. He was a great real estate professional and as I said a good and trustworthy friend.

Jim English

October 28, 2017

So sorry to hear of the passing of this great guy!

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