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Tommy Grisham Obituary
Tommy was born on February 23, 1949 in Houston, Texas, the second of four boys born to Patsy Joyce and Jack Thomas Grisham. Tommy grew up in Conroe, Texas and was part of the Conroe High School Class of 1967. He always joked that he never "met" his beloved wife, Kathy Russell Grisham, because in small towns like Conroe was back then, you just "knew" everyone. After high school, Tommy attended Sam Houston State University where he earned a degree in Business Administration and served as chapter president of the Kappa Alpha fraternity where he made many life-long friends.
Tommy and Kathy married in 1978 and raised two daughters in the Humble, Texas area. He worked tirelessly in the steel industry for over forty years to provide for "his girls." In 2008, Tommy and Kathy moved back home to Conroe in order to be closer to both their mothers as well as many friends. Living in Conroe also made it an easy drive north to visit his daughters and grandchildren in the Dallas area. Tommy was famous for "up and backs," a term he coined for day trips to see little league baseball games with a pit stop in Fairfield, Texas for peach ice cream. This arrangement kept him from having to spend the night outside of Montgomery County unless absolutely necessary.
Tommy was an active member at Frist Baptist Conroe where he greatly appreciated the teaching and friendship of many.
Tommy is survived by his devoted wife of forty-four years, Kathy; his daughter and husband, Hailey and Josh Loinette; his daughter, Angela Grisham; his grandchildren, Jack Loinette and Annie Loinette; and three brothers, Stanley Grisham, Bobby Grisham, and Kelly Grisham. He is preceded in death by his father, Jack Thomas Grisham, his mother and step-father, Patsy Joyce and Howard Lester and his beloved in-laws, Betty and Turner Russell.
A memorial service celebrating Tommy's life will be held at First Baptist Church Conroe, 600 N. Main St., Conroe, TX 77301 on Wednesday, December 28, 2022 at 11 am and will be available via live stream at www.fbcconroe.org/livestream for those unable to attend in person.
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Memories and Condolences
for Tommy Grisham
Thomas Beaird
January 6, 2023
Kathy, I just heard today about Tommy. He was a fine man and his love for you and the girls will be his greatest legacy. From days at SHSU to Inwood North, through our years in the steel business I am proud to say he was my friend. Praying for you and the family to find peace and comfort.
Buddy and Swanette Smith
December 27, 2022
When a life is reviewed, as Tommy's is here, it is hoped that certain qualities immediately stand out. One would aspire to being recognized as a good family man whose love, dedication, devotion and sacrifice to his wife and children would be beyond question. One would wish for the respect of those he worked with, went to school with, grew up with and shared common interests and community with. It would also be satisfying to have those just mentioned to remember the mutual experiences as honest, pleasant and enjoyable. It would be nice to be thought of as a hard worker and also one that loved life. It would be hoped to be thought of as a good citizen, a good friend and a positive addition to society. In all of these categories, Tommy was truly a champion. Tommy was a valued member of the Conroe High Class of 1967. He was a good and loyal classmate, linchpin and leader. Our condolences to Kathy, his daughters, his grandchildren, his family and friends.
Chris Barry
December 27, 2022
we'll Miss you Buddy. I know the past few months have been hard on your family. I hope Kathy and the girls take solace that you are not suffering anymore. Your friend Chris Barry
Belinda and Johnnie Hamilton
December 27, 2022
I have many cherished memories of Tommy and you, Kathy, raising our kids together. One of my favorites was the time my boys, with the help of some of their friends, (and me) decorating y´all´s lawn with the living room furniture we had just replaced at our house.
I hoped Tommy would be good natured about it and maybe even get a laugh or two out of it.
But when we heard that he had actually sat outside on it to greet neighbors that stopped by find out if y´all were moving or having a yard sale, it made the "midnight scare" perfect for me.
Tommy would do anything for his girls, including participating in our crazy cheerleading skits where Tommy, along with us other cheerleading parents, "willing" donned costumes from cheerleading outfits to 70´s garb just to entertain (embarrass) our kids. He was just that kind of fun guy.
He may be gone, but never forgotten, and I know we will one day see him again. So blessed to know he is now in the arms of Jesus.
David Simpson
December 27, 2022
I worked with Tommy in the early 80's at Triple J Steel. He certainly taught me allot about the business and life in general. I needed quite a bit of tutoring at that point. Just a solid guy who was a great businessman. Always talked about Kathy and his 2 girls. Rest in peace Tommy and Thank you. David
Debbie Neville
December 26, 2022
Kathy, I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved Tommy. I only knew him the last few years, but he was a great person to get to know and such a sweetheart. He was a wonderful husband to you and an awesome father to Hailey and Angela and grandfather to Jack and Annie. Praying for God to surround you and the girls with His loving arms to bring you peace and comfort.
Toma Sue Thomas
December 26, 2022
Darling Kathy, I´m so deeply sorry about your beloved Tommy. He was always the nicest guy and had the sweetest smile. Praying for The Lord to comfort & strengthen you, your precious daughters, his brothers and entire family as you each grieve his absence. It is such a tremendous loss & know your pain is heartrending. I hope you all rejoice in the promises of God´s Word that Tommy´s Savior, Jesus Christ has prepared a glorious eternal home for him & he is in the loving arms of Jesus waiting for his greatest reunion with each of you, never to be separated again.
Susie Trant Cour-Palais
December 26, 2022
Kathy, I was shocked to hear of Tommy's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Nothing prepares you for this. Love you.
Stab & Kathy Charnetski
December 26, 2022
Stan & I have fond memories with Tommy & Kathy going to many cheer events for the girls. He was a special man who touched many lives. Please except our deepest condolences. Much love
Ken and Melinda Cavanaugh
December 25, 2022
Tommy was a fixture in our extended family in Atascocita as we raised our two girls. We loved Tommy's sense of humor and quick wit. Ken and I hope the memories of a wonderful husband and father will bring peace and comfort in the days ahead.
Cindy Stanfield
December 24, 2022
I´m so very sorry for your loss, especially at this time of year. While we rejoice that our loved ones are in heaven with Jesus, our human hearts ache for our loss. I am praying for God´s peace that surpasses all understanding give you strength and comfort in the days and weeks to come.
John Reaves
December 24, 2022
Great friend, deepest sympathy to family
George and Mazie Williams
December 24, 2022
Deepest condolences to Kathy and the family. We first met them here in Atascocita while attending Atascocita Presbyterian Church.
Connie and Mike Singleton
December 24, 2022
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Kathy, and with the entire family.
Jeanette Pearson
December 24, 2022
Tommy and Kathy have been dear friends for many years. Steve and I are so sorry to hear of Tommy´s passing. Our love and sympathy to Kathy, Hailey, Angela and the entire family. Tommy was a great softball coach for the girls and they loved him dearly. Rest In Peace our dear friend Tommy.
Bob and Connie Parker
December 24, 2022
An old friend and a great person. Glad we got to visit the last couple of years. Always remember the good times with Tommy...Best to Kathy and the children.
Darlene Tate Flores
December 24, 2022
God bless the family and friends during this time of difficult transition. Knowing he’s in Heaven should bring comfort and peace. His first Christmas in Heaven will be wonderful for him.
Libby Boyce
December 23, 2022
We are deeply heartbroken to hear of Tommy´s passing. What an amazing guy! We have great memories spending time with Tommy. He will be sorely missed.
Bill and Libby Boyce
BJ and Felton Dengler
December 23, 2022
Tommy is gone from our sight, but never from our hearts. Our thoughts and prayers are with Kathy and her Family. BJ and I wish you healing and peace.
Craig and Dolly Smith
December 23, 2022
It broke our hearts when we heard about Tommy. I´m so glad we meet just a short while back for lunch. We will keep Kathy and the girls on our prayers. I´m truly going to miss my "old buddy"!!!
John Robinson
December 23, 2022
Our prayers and condolences to Tommy´s family and friends!! We only knew Tommy a short time but his friendship was a blessing to us!!
Irene Davis
December 23, 2022
I was very sad to learn of Tommy´s passing. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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