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Alexander Pinto Obituary

Alexander F. Pinto
Alexander Frank Pinto, 84, passed away peacefully on February 18, 2022 with his loving family by his side. Al was born in Bridgeport on March 14, 1937 to Frank and Olympia (LaConte) Pinto. Al was the beloved husband of Mary Ellen (Skene) Pinto, whom he married in 1959. Al and Mary Ellen met at Stratford High on the very first day of high school. Al has been a Lordship resident for over 55 years where neighbors happily called out, "Hey, Al" anytime they saw him doing yard work, getting his coffee and newspaper at the corner market, or attending Mass at Our Lady of Peace Church.
Al was the most loving and devoted father to six children: Ellen, Danny, Jerry, Chris, Michael and Catherine. Al genuinely celebrated his kids' successes and guided them through any setback with grace and love. Al also had a deep love and relationship with each of his children's spouses, John, Indah, Melissa, Lauren and Butch.
One of Al's greatest joys in life was being a grandfather to 11 grandchildren: Natalie, Aaron, Alex, Elizabeth, Cathlyn, Quinn, Lucia, Tate, Marina, Lane and Mac. Even sweeter, was the chance to see his entire family gathered around his pool on summer Sundays and holidays or around his dining room table on a Sunday because Mary Ellen had made "gravy." (Italians know…) Al was extremely proud of the meeting place his home became to his family, immediate and extended. December 24th was an especially awaited event at the Pinto home where children of family and friends looked forward to a special visit with Santa every Christmas Eve. Al believed in building a strong family and spending time together. He instilled that ritual in his children and grandchildren and they are better for it. Professionally, Al spent many happy and dedicated years working for and managing LA Barnaby & Sons. It was not uncommon to drive through town and hear him say, "I put that roof on." He loved being a salesman, interacting with people and making connections that lasted him a lifetime. He prided himself on getting to work rain or shine, always dressed impeccably.
For a few years on Sunday evenings, "Big Al" was a volunteer driver for the Stratford EMS on Able 1. After hosting Labor Day each September, Al and Mary Ellen enjoyed time on the Cape for well deserved rest and relaxation and to spoil their grandkids with ice cream and beach time. Al also loved watching a good sporting event on TV or in person. Seeing his own kids and grandkids play sports brought him immense joy. His children's friends, teammates and coaches held "Mr. Pinto" in the highest regard.
In addition to his parents, Al is predeceased by his younger brother Frankie, whom he loved immensely and missed dearly. He is survived by his sister, Catherine, sisters in law Peggy and Lois (Ed), brother in law Jim, and many wonderful nieces and nephews who adored their "Uncle Al."
The family would like to thank Al's very kind and dedicated caregivers, Veronique and Nellie, hospice nurse Angela, and longtime physician and friend, Dr. Yousuf Ali. In 2010, Al spoke about living with Wiskott Aldrich Syndrome at the New Horizons New Hope Conference in Chicago. Al is revered by this community as being one of the oldest patients with this very rare blood disorder.
Friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial on Monday, February 28th at 11:30 a.m. DIRECTLY at Our Lady of Peace Church, 651 Stratford Road, Stratford. Friends may call on Sunday from 4-7 p.m. at Pistey Funeral Home, 2155 Main Street, Stratford. The family requests that masks be worn. To promote social distancing, please follow the directions of attendants and signage. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Wiskott Aldrich Foundation at PO Box 156 Austell, GA 30168 in an effort to fund ongoing research and treatment. You may also use this link:
https://interland3.donorperfect.net/weblink/weblink.aspx?name=E340959&id=5
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Published by Connecticut Post on Feb. 24, 2022.

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Marilynn M Forbes (Marsh)

February 28, 2022

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Sandy Kaeser McFarland

February 26, 2022

Mary Ellen: So grateful for all the reunions you and Al took the time to help plan for SHS'55 through the years. In our yearbook Al wished me the best in life ahead, and I've had that. I'm so glad to read that he did, too, with you at his side and a large loving family. My sympathy to you all.

Orpha Bonnell Platt

February 26, 2022

Sorry to hear of Al´s passing. Hope all of your good memories get you through this tough time in your life. Take care of yourselves and each other.

Leon Barnaby

February 26, 2022

The entire Barnaby Family sends our Deepest Condolences to the entire Pinto Family. Al was such a Dedicated & Loyal L.A Barnaby Team member that you were always able to count on. His Love for his Family was extremely obvious because he spoke of all of you regularly & about all the Good Times.

Donald Simson

February 26, 2022

I believe Al was a class mate at Stoneybrook school. What a great guy. I believe he and Mary Ellen were both in Mr. Wordell's home room with me in High School?

Susan Koperwhats

February 25, 2022

Michael and family: so sorry for your loss
Mrs. K

Margo Nalewajk

February 25, 2022

Jerry I am sorry for your loss and express my condolences to all of the family. Your dad did put our house together he was a wonderful man.

Gail Glynn Conners

February 25, 2022

Al and I were classmates at Stratford High. He was a popular guy. I remember Al brought one of the prettiest Stratford girls to the high school dances and not surprised to learn that he married that girl and had a wonderful family. The Pintos contributed to the success of the class reunions too. I hope the family can find comfort in knowing how much Al contributed to others in his lifetime.

Alan Kelley

February 24, 2022

To The Extended Pinto Family,
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Alan and Sharolyn Kelley

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