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Eleanor M. LaValla

1930 - 2020

Eleanor M. LaValla obituary, 1930-2020, Fairfield, CT

BORN

1930

DIED

2020

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Shaughnessey Banks Funeral Home - Fairfield

50 Reef Road

Fairfield, Connecticut

Eleanor LaValla Obituary

Eleanor M. LaValla
Eleanor M. LaValla was born on May 17, 1930 in New Rochelle, NY to Madeline and Angelo Acocella. She was the beloved wife of Joseph LaValla, who died on May 8, 1983. She was the loving mother of Victor (Dee), Joseph (Kathy), and Michelle Cardentey (Manny) and grandmother to Jeanette, Marc, Keith & Yunet Cardentey; Joe, Chris, Tori, Jason & Adam LaValla; Rey Gonzalez, Heather Saienni & Brittany Fischer. Eleanor had 22 great-grandchildren and 6 great-great-grandchildren.
Eleanor, known by all as Mom or Nanny, touched thousands of lives and was very loved by many. She had a big heart for all of her kids, whether they were her own, her nieces and nephews, the neighborhood kids or the thousands of kids she served lunch to at Tomlinson Middle School for 35 years. She loved to travel and read, was an avid Yankee and Lady Husky Fan and lived her life to the fullest with no regrets. She was larger than life and to say she will be missed by all who knew her, is an understatement.
In lieu of flowers, please consider providing a Thanksgiving meal to a family in need. Feeding others was her greatest joy, just ask the 2000 people she made fresh gravy for in Canton, Ohio!
Services were private under the direction of the Shaughnessey Banks Funeral Home. A Memorial Service to celebrate her beautiful life will be held next spring. To sign her online guestbook, please visit www.shaughnesseybanks.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Connecticut Post on Nov. 5, 2020.

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Ray Mannion

November 6, 2020

Hey joe sorry to read about your mom

Kathy Cavanaugh Bacon

November 6, 2020

Michelle and family,
My condolences on the passing of your beloved mother.
Kathy

Paulette Obertz

November 5, 2020

My prayer to all.. Much ❤ love.

Paulette Obertz

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