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Henry Kelly Obituary

KELLY Henry Arthur Kelly, Jr., age 81, of Fairfield, beloved hus band, father and grandfather, died on October 25 at St. Vincent's Hospital. Born in Brooklyn New York, he was the son of Henry and Margaret King Zimmermann Kelly. He was a graduate of Allen- Stevenson School, in New York, The Choate School in Wallingford, and Yale University. Following his graduation from Yale in 1953 he was called to active duty by the Reserves, serving as a First Lieutenant in the 4th Armored Division. Upon his return from service, he attended the University of Chicago School of Business. For almost 40 years he worked in New York and Chicago for R.R. Donnelley & Sons Company where he was a Senior Vice President and for many years headed the Eastern Book Sales Division. On the occasion of his 25th anniversary they said, "Henry made a significant contribution to R.R. Donnelley. His efforts in the early years in New York helped put the Company on the map there. As a Manager and Officer, his ability to develop sales people and help them grow is especially unique." Following his retirement Henry was happily busy playing daily tennis, fishing, boating, learning to use the latest electronic equipment, taking courses at Yale Divinity School and tinkering endlessly at his Shelter Island home that he loved. Among his greatest pleasures were gathering the family on Shelter Island, heading to the "big wave beach" and going to Nantucket for Thanksgiving which was a 32 year tradition. Married in 1952 at Assumption Church in Fairfield to Jill O'Connor, they lived in New Haven during his senior year at Yale. They have 4 children: Ellen Ginsberg (William) of New Haven, Lucy of Shelter Island, Deirdre Moore (Michael) of Fairfield, and Brian (Stephanie) of Southport. He is survived by his 8 grandchildren: Emily and Connor Ginsberg, Caitlin and John Moore, and Maeve, Ellen, Abby and Henry Kelly. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at St. Anthony of Padua Church on 149 South Pine Creek Road, Fairfield, on Saturday, October 29 at 10:00. a.m. Interment will follow in Oak Lawn Cemetery, Fairfield. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Yale Divinity School, Office of Development, 409 Prospect Street, New Haven, CT 06511, or The Shelter Island Public Library P.O. Box 2016 C, Shelter Island, New York, 11964. Arrangements are under the direction of the Spear-Miller Funeral Home, 39 South Benson Road, Fairfield. For information or to sign an online guest register please visit www.SpearMillerFuneralHome.com

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Published by Connecticut Post from Oct. 26 to Oct. 28, 2011.

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Amy Desel

October 30, 2011

Dear Jill- My deepest sympathies on your loss. God Bless you and your family. Love, Amy Desel

Rita Lombardi

October 27, 2011

Dear Brian, We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts. Bill Freitag & Rita Lombardi(Edward Jones, Cheshire)

Allen Dunahoo

October 27, 2011

Brian, My sincere condolences to you and your family at the passing of your father. Respectfully, Allen Dunahoo

Larry Carroll

October 27, 2011

Dear Jill, My most sincere sympathy to you and your family on Henry's passsing. I always remember him at our events with a smile a kind word for everyone. Larry Carroll

dan mastroianni

October 27, 2011

though i only new henry for a short time (thru tennis), his enthusiasm for both the game and for life was an inspiration...his fascination and understanding of technologies was also quite impressive....he will be missed by all.... my deepest sympathy to his family and friends....dan

John Phelan Sr.

October 27, 2011

Dear Jill, my deepest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your great husband and "pal" Henry. Having experienced a similar loss a couple years ago I have some understanding of the pain of this loss Sorry that I will not be able to attend the funeral as I will be out of the area

Cynthia French

October 27, 2011

please accept our sympathy and condolensces.you are in our thoughts Cyndy and Rob Schoen

The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home

October 27, 2011

Offering our deepest condolences during this time.

Jim Gallagher

October 27, 2011

Joy and I are deeply saddened by Henry's passing. Jill, you are special to us and in our prayers.

October 27, 2011

Our family knew Henry over the years through our deep and important friendship with the family of his daughter, Ellen (and Will], and their very wonderful children, Emily and Conner. We were graciously entertained by Henry and Jill in their lovely home in Shelter Island on more than one occasion .

Henry and I played tennis at the same club where I often watched him play with avidity, skill, and sportsmanship. He was a kind and engaged man, who valued his family and lived a life worth living.

Laurence Nadel (Susan, Sara, Sophia and Gabe)

Nina Smith

October 27, 2011

I send my condolences and loving best wishes to the entire family.

Sandy Booth

October 26, 2011

Our deepest sympathy to the family of Henry Kelly. Mr. Kelly was a pleasure and a joy to service.
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