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HUGHES John (Jack) J. Hughes, age 75, of Stratford, beloved partner of 38 years of Richard (Rick) Myers, died suddenly at his home on Thursday, June 14, 2012. Jack is also survived by one brother, Carroll Hughes and his wife, Jean, of Old Saybrook; one sister, Donna Schrieber and her husband, Charles; six nephews, Sean Hughes, CJ Hughes, Chris Hughes, Josh Hughes, Chuck Hughes and Jim Schreiber; and two nieces, Jessica Hughes and Beth Schreiber. He was born on May 15, 1937 in Bridgeport to the late John and Elizabeth Carroll Hughes. He was a lifelong Stratford resident and had attended Nichols Elementary School and graduated from Stratford High School. He furthered his education by attending and graduating from the University of Connecticut, Rutgers University, the Connecticut Chiefs of Police Academy and the Connecticut State Police Academy. Jack was a member of the United States Army under the Reserve Forces Act of 1955 attaining the rank of Warrant Officer. He was a police officer for the Town of Stratford and moved on to become a Connecticut State Trooper working at Troop F in Westbrook, Troop G in Westport and the State of Connecticut Fire Marshall's office as an inspector. After his career in law enforcement, Jack went on to become the construction manager for Neighborhood Housing Services of Bridgeport, Bridgeport Neighborhood Trust ,construction manager for New Britain Neighborhood Housing Services, director of facilities and property manager for the Milford Housing Authority and the director of facilities for the City of Norwalk. He also worked as a self-employed, licensed general contractor in both residential and commercial construction, working throughout Fairfield and Westchester counties. Jack loved woodworking and was a woodcarver, carving many weathervanes and figural pieces. He collected folk art and antiques all his life and had a passion for gardening and landscaping. He was a member of the Remington Gun Club and would compete in the 12 and 16 gauge trap and skeet competitions at the Lordship site in Stratford. An avid dog lover from the time he was a child, he took in strays Nuby, Sandy, Henry, Max, Molly, Bo, Zeldah, Buddy and Chucky. He always said he never met a dog he didn't like. From his Mother, he inherited a generosity of spirit and Irish humor, a quick wit and a gift of gab. He could speak to anyone of any age on any subject. He loved socializing, dining out, cocktail hour and summers at the family home on Block Island. Calling hours will be on Wednesday from 4 to 7 pm at the Pistey Funeral Home, 2155 Main Street, Stratford. A funeral service will be held on Thursday, June 21, 2012 at 10:00 am DIRECTLY at Christ Episcopal Church, 2000 Main Street, Stratford with Rev. Lee Forshaw, Deacon officiating. Interment will follow at St. Michael Cemetery. Jack had requested that in lieu of flowers, contributions be made in his memory to the Stratford Animal Shelter, 225 Beacon Point Rd., Stratford, CT 06615.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Jun. 17 to Jun. 19, 2012.

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Cousin Carol & Daniel Del Vecchio

June 29, 2012

Donna and Carroll, so sorry to hear of Jack's passing. Unfortunately, I couldn't get to the services as I was having surgery that day, but want you to know that you and your families have been in our thoughts and prayers. We were in Stratford High School with Jack and remember him with such fond memories. Love to all,

Lowell Stuck

June 23, 2012

Dear Rick -- Larry and I send our best wishes and deepest sympathy to you. May the memories of all those years together be a comfort to you over time as your sorrow is replaced with memories that bring you a smile and great warmth.

Kathy Lindgren

June 19, 2012

Dear Donna,
It is amazing how something sad like this can trigger so many happy memories.Perhaps you remember me, Kathy Hornyak, SHS '63. Bubbdy, I remember you well. Most recently I thought of Jack when I visited Danny's Drive In and pointed out the photo of him on the motorcycle, to my husband who did not grow up here. I hope all your memories and the army of friends thinking of you will bring you comfort.

Kathy Bozzi

June 19, 2012

Dear Family of Jack,

I worked with Jack at the Milford Housing Authority. I loved working with him and we had the best arguments - we always ended up laughing. We lost touch over the years but I thought of him often and how lucky I was to have made his aquaintence. May he rest in peace.

Sandra Toth

June 19, 2012

Dear Rick and to all Jack's family, I am very sorry to hear of Jack's passing. He was a very good man. I met and worked with Jack at the Milford Housing Authority. It was an honor to work with him. I always enjoyed his stories, humor and lots of wit! My thoughts and prayers are with you all through this very difficult time. Jack will be missed by many people.

george roberge, jr

June 19, 2012

To All My Friends In Stratford, espescially the living police who remember Jack Hughes,

It has been generations since I last saw Jack Hughes. He like many other men of the forties, fifties and early sixties gave Stratford the finest Police Force I have ever known.

They were honest, respected and liked by all, young and old, and part of our community. They kept us safe, to the point where we didn't have to lock our doors, and kids could ride their bikes anywhere in Town. Many were Veterans of WW II and the Korean Conflict.

Jack always dreamed of being in law enforcement all his life. I can remember him pulling into the outdoor dairy bars, and ball fields at night and being a special friend to all the kids in Town. So was Horky, Clyde, the McNamara's, Andy Havan, Bill Troland,Tony, Roy Chief Geary..........all of this highly distinguished group. They formed the PAL for us and were active. Many taught us to drive (and slowed us down as well).

Jack ......we all liked and respected you and all your peers.

10,000 Thankyous to you and your buddies for being there for us in our youth.

George E. Roberge, Jr.
Southington, CT

Lynn Hallstrom Shepard

June 19, 2012

Donna, I'm so sorry to hear about your brother Jack passing. I was friends with you in Stratford High. My husband Norman Shepard was a State Trooper with Jack back in the day at Troop G in Westport. Our prayers go out to you,your family and Rick.

Norm Shepard

June 19, 2012

Rick
I first met Jack when we both were Troopers at the old Troop "G' in Westport. Jack was a good man to work with always there if you needed help. Jack always kept things interesting, he will be missed by a lot of people.

June 18, 2012

Dear Rick and all of Jack's family~ I am so saddened to hear of his loss. I had the honor of working with Jack at the Milford Housing Authority. I shall remember fondly his quick wit and humor and most of all his infectious smile! Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you as you walk the difficult days ahead, and may happy memories sustain you. Blessings~ Julie Ramia

Frank & Anne Kennedy

June 18, 2012

Rick,
What does one say at a time like this? "Uncle Jack" will be missed by all who knew him. So many, many memories. Our hearts go out to you, you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Natalie Siavrakas

June 18, 2012

The Stratford High School Class of 1958 extends sincere condolences to Rick and Jack's family. He was well known and well liked by everyone. "What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others." Pericles

Natalie Glowatsky Siavrakas
Officer, SHS Class of 1958

Richard McKenna

June 18, 2012

I am a few years younger than Jack and was a friend of his bother. Our father's worked together, and I have only fond memories of this wonderful guy. He will be missed.
My sympathy to all.
Richard McKenna,
Formerly of Stratford

Joyce

June 18, 2012

Dear Rick,

So sorry to hear of Jacks passing. We shared many laughs and good times. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mike Cronin

June 18, 2012

Rick - It's hard not to smile when I think of Jack. A wry sense of humor, a sharp needle, a twinkle in his eyes behind a cloud of cigar smoke. Hold onto those memories of him.

Darcy Stuck

June 17, 2012

Dear Rick,

I am so sorry to hear of Jack's passing. I know he was your best friend and soul-mate. A wonderful, loving partner in your life. As you mourn his loss, please know that my thoughts and prayers are with during this most difficult time.

Love,
Darcy

Anne Cronin

June 17, 2012

Jack was so full of life, it's hard to believe that he's gone!

george delibro

June 17, 2012

Dear Rick;
So sorry to hear of Jacks passing. I was a friend of Jacks for many years,shared my laughs and good times at Cedarbrook,and Short beach. I remember how proud he was of his collection of cars and antique furniture,and clock collection. My prayers to you and family.
George DeLibro.

June 17, 2012

Dear Rick,

I just read with saddness the passing of John. I am so very sorry. He was a wonderful man. I was proud to know him and be joined in the work of making our world a better place with he and you for many years. I hope you find solace during this difficult time. Please accept my condolences and know that many people are thinking of you and John and wishing you well.

Bill Finch

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