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Charles Kochan
February 20, 2025
Lisa I hope Lance is getting holes in one and that you are at peace.
Charles Kochan
February 20, 2024
Hi Lisa, this note from Legacy came up and I am shocked to see that Lance passed in 2011...13 years, where did time go? I hope you are continuing to heal with time. Charles
Beth Rotko
April 3, 2011
Lisa,
I am sad to hear of your husband's passing. I've been through this horror and still miss my husband 5 1/2 years later. Try to keep a positive outlook and involve yourself in many things to keep busy and not isolate yourself. Get out and golf...most peaceful place I know. God bless.
Roberta Shea (Papa)
March 11, 2011
Lisa, Phyllis and the Fressola Family:
We were certainly shocked to hear of Lance’s death. How sad. We want to let everybody know that he, as well as all of you will be in our thoughts and prayers.
The Papa Family
Your wife Lisa
March 10, 2011
(part 2)
I would like to share my church eulogy of Lance with you all:
(part 2)
I recited and altered poem by W.H.Auden titled "funeral blues". I altered the last line to read.
"For I lost my Lance who was so pure, so good."
It poetically states how I feel about losing Lance.
Use a simple internet search for the author & title and you can find the prose as it can not be copied here. Please consider viewing the U-tube version from the movie 4 weddings and a funeral.
Dave Ward
March 9, 2011
You are in our thoughts and prayers
TPC River Highland Member-Guest Champions
Kim Martin
March 8, 2011
Ann Malone
March 8, 2011
Dear Lisa,
I only got to know Lance recently and felt at home, appreciated and close when with him. I recall that time he cooked for us and used all that basil we picked - and the hours we spent talking about everything food and golf on the couch. This is just one of my memories; perhaps you can add it to yours. He filled your life with good things and will continue to do so. He will always be a part of you.
Thomas Skrutsky
March 7, 2011
Lisa, Phyllis and family,
I am so sorry to hear of Lance's passing. He and I were childhood friends on Porter St, at Stony Brook. Wooster and Bunnell. He was a good person, and I'm certain that God has embraced Lance to be at his side. I will remember him fondly. Please accept my deepest condolences.
Christmas 2010
Your wife Lisa
March 4, 2011
Your soul mate Lisa
March 4, 2011
I would like to share my church eulogy of Lance with you all:
(part 1)
I was in love with Lance before I even knew it -- I was 23 he was 27, almost 30 years ago.
He was my Lover, my best friend, my soul mate, and even my caddie. He was the chef whose food we all loved -- Our own ‘Baconator.” I always tried to get him to use a little less bacon and butter, but in hindsight I’m glad he enjoyed every strip, slab and Szalonna Roast that he did.
Fashion will never be the same at Highland Golf Club, his bright oranges, purples and yellows will always be our vivid memory of him. So will the many occasions when Lance was the life of the party, or would just light up the room when he entered it.
Lance loved everyone in this room, and everyone he met took an immediate shine to him. There are several here who considered Lance as their best friend, when most of us are lucky to have just one person who thinks of us like that.
Although Lance lost his parents at a very young age, there were many Aunts, Uncles and in-laws who treated him as if he was their own child. His relationship with his sister was a bond so strong words cannot describe it.
I rarely ask a favor from God, but with you all as my witnesses, I only ask God to welcome him and cradle him in his arms, as we would do now, if only we could.
Ethel Siksay
March 3, 2011
So sorry to hear of your Loss and always hold dear the memories Lance has brought to everyone. He will always be in the hearts of all who knew him ,God bless , Love, Ethel Siksay (Bridgeport,Ct)
Phil Rizzo
March 2, 2011
I am so very sorry for your loss. Lance will be greatly missed. He was a good friend and a helpful coworker.
Fred Ballantyne Jr.
March 1, 2011
Lance you will always be my dearest friend. We have had a life full of memories. I Love and miss you so much
Your buddy Fred!
Donna Di Mauro
March 1, 2011
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Alex Kirk
March 1, 2011
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! Makes you stop and think about what is important in life!! Many memories on the course, at the PGA Show and sharing some food/beverage together with Lance. We had alot of fun/laughs together. He will be missed!!!
Cindy Hager
March 1, 2011
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I met Lance five years ago at Sikorsky. He made me feel at home right from the very beginning. Lance was a wonderful person with a big heart. Whenever I was having a bad day I could always count on Lance to be there to cheer me up. I am so very sorry for your loss. He will be greatly missed.
Sue Arjeski
March 1, 2011
With greatest sympathy
Kim & Steve Martin
February 28, 2011
To Lisa and Lance's family, We are truely saddened by the news of your loss. Lance was an absolutely wonderful person, who loved and lived his life to the fullest! He was always smiling, happy and great for a joke or one liner. He will be missed greatly.
Over the past four years or so the four of us have had such a fantasic time in the TPC Couples member guest. Lisa you will always be invited, and we will raise a glass to toast Lance's joy for life.
He will always be in your heart and memories! Keep all those memories close and think of them often.
katie Ballantyne Sarkozy
February 28, 2011
Lisa ,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of need....my dad (Fred Ballantyne) loved him so much and sends his deepest sympathy. We will always cherish all the memories we made together!
Love to you always Katie Ballantyne Sarkozy and Family
Vanessa Rock
February 28, 2011
Lance always made us laugh and kept us smiling with his kindness and generosity. He will be missed by everyone at Sikorsky. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
Ginnie Preuss
February 28, 2011
Words cannot express how you must feel and the entire family - My prayers are with everyone -
Leo Hodges
February 28, 2011
Lisa my thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of need. Lance was a good friend and he will be missed !
Daphne Robinson
February 28, 2011
I knew Lance for a short time, but his sense of humor, positive attitude, humility, and genuine kindness made him stand out from the rest. I will miss him so much, and work will not be the same without him. He brought smiles and laughter to all of our faces. Blessings and peace to your familiy.
February 28, 2011
Lisa:
It's 11 o'clock Sunday night and i just saw the paper. What can I say! I can't believe it. I had to look twice before I realized It was real. It makes you think twice about how to live your life. They say you should live everyday like it's your last. I think that's the way to go. If you need anything you know where to find me. I'll keep you in my prayers.
Gus Betso
February 27, 2011
Lisa
Pat and I want to express our sincere sympathy for your loss. We enjoyed Lance and playing golf with him. We are presently in Florida and we are sorry that we wern't able to be there to support you in your time of year. We will miss him.
Pat and George Hames
Joe Woronka
February 27, 2011
Lance, you were a great friend and brought humor to a challenging work environment. You always kept us smilling and will be greatly missed. See you on the other side.
Margaret Kimmer
February 27, 2011
My Grandmother Regina Kimmer was Julius's cousin. I guess that makes me related somehow. My father was John Kimmer. I just wanted to give my condolenses for the loss of your husband Lance. I didn't know him but I'm sure he was a great man and will be missed by all.
Bless you and your family.
Joe Gorel
February 27, 2011
Dear Lisa, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I would stop by occasionally when Lance was outside in the yard and talk to him. I will miss Lance especially when I drive by the house.
February 27, 2011
Dear Lisa, Patty and I will miss Lance greatly. He played and enjoyed golf the way we all should. Wether he shot 72 or 92 he always had fun..God bless him...Russ and Patty
Donna Barbar-Halpin
February 27, 2011
Dear Lisa & Famiy,
I was very saddened to hear of Lance's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May he rest in peace and his memory be eternal +
Sue Jones Janet Kalas
February 27, 2011
Lisa, we were so very saddened to hear the news of Lance's passing. What a wonderful, gracious host he was for our informal tournaments at Highland. Our hearts go out to you.
John Markette
February 27, 2011
Always a gentleman with a great smile and a great respected man at the club. A true friend that will be surely missed.
February 27, 2011
Dearest Lisa, My heart is full of sorry for you and your family. You both opened your home to my brother Fred and myself and I thank you. We had some good super bowl get togethers as well as a few picnics at my brothers house. You my dear are in my thoughts. Love Janet Ballantyne Field
John Paesani
February 27, 2011
Lisa,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I only knew Lance from the Challenge Cup event, but it was always fun to see you two there. Please be assured that he will be remembered and missed.
Nick Pisani
February 27, 2011
I am saddened to hear of Lances passing.We worked at Avco,and played golf quite a bit together.Rest in peace friend.
Jeanine Marcucci
February 27, 2011
Dear Lisa: what a lovely man Lance was - a privilege to know him. His passing creates a void that will never be filled but please know that we are all here for you, friends and family when you are ready. You are so deserving of all that we can give.
Jim Vitko
February 26, 2011
Lisa,
Although I had not seen Lance in many years, we knew each other back to High School and I have many fond memories of him. I was very sad to hear of his passing and I offer my deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Kim Deluca lesko
February 26, 2011
Although I havent seen lance in many years I'm so sorry to hear he has passed. My heart felt condolences go out to his family
February 26, 2011
Dear Lisa,
We are away now but did learn of Lances passing.
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. We pray that memories of happier times will bring some comfort to you during this time of sorrow.
Fondly,
Ronni and Jordan Lustig
Judy Cox
February 26, 2011
too young, too soon, too hard to bear. I am so sorry, my heart goes out to Lisa, Phyllis, Dave and all who had the joy of knowing Lance. Just this week I was thinking back to our 1984 vacation in Scotland. Lance was always so full of life and humor. I can hear his great laugh now. You are all in my prayers. love, Judy
Carlyle Nelson
February 26, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. I enjoyed working with Lance at Sikorsky and will miss him greatly.
February 26, 2011
Dear Lisa I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.It is I'm sure compounded by the suddenness. My prayers are with you in this sad time. Love Jackie Cocco
Patricia Girdner
February 26, 2011
Lisa,
Our condolences on the sudden loss of your loving husband, Lance. Though we did not know Lance well personally, we know of the many kindnesses he extended to my sister for which we are very grateful. She spoke so highly of both of you. Our prayers are with you and the entire family at this time. Pat and Ted Girdner
Frank Buccieri
February 26, 2011
Lance was a pleasure to work with. He always had a smile and was willing to assist anyone when they needed help. He will truly be missed.
Myra Macmillan
February 26, 2011
Lisa:
Words cannot begin to convey the depth of our sorrow at Lance's passing. What a wonderful man he was. He will be missed and remembered fondly by the many people he touched during his life. Our hearts go out to you and you are in our prayers.
Myra and Angela
Penny Kellogg,Peck
February 26, 2011
Lance will be missed by all who knew him. Not only did he go to school with my brother Lee but he also worked with my late husband William Peck at Sikorsky's. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time sorrow.
Joe & Kathy Brown
February 26, 2011
Lisa: My deepest condolences to you on the sudden loss of your loving husband and my friend Lance. I will miss him dearly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Phyllis, Dave and the rest of your family in this difficult time.
February 26, 2011
Lisa,
So shocked to get your call this morning. You are both special friends. The Challenge Cup won't be the same. My best to you and also Phyliss and all your family. Sincerely, Fran Marrello.
Lee Kellogg
February 26, 2011
Lisa,
So sad for your loss. Lance was a great guy. We went to Bunnell together class of '75. Lots of fun in drafting class. Such a shock to see friends' names in the obits. We will be praying for you and the rest of the family. Lee Kellogg and family
Tom Duffy
February 26, 2011
Lance made it very easy to think of him as a friend, so there are so many people now who will grieve his loss. My deepest sympathy to his family and all of us that looked upon Lance as a friend.
Robbin Zella
February 26, 2011
Dearest Phyllis,
My deepest sympathy for your loss. Your memories, in time, will provide much comfort. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Love, Robbin
Sandra Thompson
February 26, 2011
Dear Lisa,
Wally and I were so sad to hear of your loss. Wally has talked many times about the fun they had on the golf course and he will miss Lance, as will all of his golf buddies.
Our prayers are with you now and we pray that God will give you comfort and help you through this difficult time.
Love, Sandy (Lance's cousin) and Wally
February 26, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. Lance was a great guy to work with.
Charles Kochan Jr MD
February 26, 2011
Lisa,
Lance's passing hit us all as a huge shock. Life throws so many curves at us. Just know that we are all here to help you in any way we can. You have tons of good friends and family to lean on. We all hope Lance is right now on his favorite fairway, going for a hole in one!
Your friends at Dr. Kochan's office.
With love, your friends from D.F.W.W.G.C.
February 26, 2011
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Ned Rydzy
February 26, 2011
Lance will be sadly missed by the Membership of Highland Golf Club!!!
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