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Lillian Jessmer Obituary

JESSMER Lillian Carol Jessmer, age 60 of Bridgeport, passed away October 27, 2009 at CT Hospice in Branford, surrounded by her loving family. Lillian was born in Bridgeport and was a lifelong resident. She was a manager for Quest Diagnostics in Wallingford. Her favorite pastime was spending time with her grandchildren. She was predeceased by her husband, Donald Norman Jessmer. Survivors include her children, Mark McGeehan and his wife, Iris of Milford, Laura Miska and her husband, Michael of Shelton, Cheryl McDermott and her husband, Raymond of Sebastian, Fla., Mary Jessmer and her husband, James Gallagi of West Haven; her brothers, William J. Hesbach and his wife, Elizabeth Ciarlelli of Cheshire, Joseph Boni-tatebus and his wife, Dolores, Frank Bonitatebus and his wife, Delores, all of Stratford, Elizabeth Evans and her husband, and Robert of Bridgeport and Barbara Bonitate-bus of California; eleven grandchildren, Christopher, Mark, Nicholas, Amanda, Matthew, Elizabeth, John, Rason, Donald, Deanna and Sierra; and many nieces and nephews. Friends are invited to attend her funeral service on Saturday at 9:15 a.m. in the Cyril F. Mullins Trumbull Funeral Home 399 White Plains Rd. and at 10 a.m. at Our Lady of Grace Church, 497 Second Hill Lane, Stratford. Interment in Gate of Heaven Cemetery. Friends may call on Friday from 4 to 8 p.m. Memorial contributions may be made CT Hospice 100 Double Beach Rd. Branford, CT 06405 or Smilowcancer.org (Pancreatic Cancer Wing). For online condolences please visit mullinsfh.com .

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Published by Connecticut Post from Oct. 29 to Oct. 30, 2009.

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Charles Kochan

October 31, 2009

To all of Lillian's extended family, I just wanted to say how much of a figher she was, even up against such tough odds...and I know she is so grateful for the support of her children throughout her toughest days. It has been an honor to have been a part of her medical team. Dr. Kochan and Staff.

October 30, 2009

Dear Laura, Mark and Families. I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. Lil was such a good person. Her children and grandchildren were her life. I would occasionaly run into her every now and then and she would be so excited about her grandchildren. I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers.

Cathy Argonese

October 30, 2009

Dear Laura,Michael,Cheryl,Mary,James and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Lil was a delightful person - always with a smile and happy greeting. She will be sorely missed.-Marge Wilson,Quest Phleb/tech
She will truly be missed..Danielle Menskey

October 29, 2009

Dear Laura,Mark and Family. We are saddened to hear of the loss of your Mom Lillian. She was loved by all and will be missed. Jim and Pat Iancale, Port Charlotte, FL.

October 29, 2009

Laura,
I know this is a hard time but please know that I am here if you need me. -Nancy J

Melody Taylor-Oliveira

October 29, 2009

I worked at Quest Diagnostics with Lillian Jessmer for many years,she was a very nice person and will be truly missed...sorry for you loss..

Sheryl Rosen

October 29, 2009

Laura,
My heartfelt sympathies to you and your entire family on the loss of your Mom. I know how close you were and how lovingly you spoke of her. Please know I'm here for you if you need to talk, yell, cry, throw things, etc. She's at peace now... be strong for your kids, but when you need someone to be strong for YOU, call me. Much Love, Sheryl Rosen (Nancy J's friend).

Mary Ann Scioscia

October 29, 2009

Mark, Laura and Family, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. She was a very strong lady her whole life. My prayers are with her and her family at this very sad time.

Gurrier Jean

October 29, 2009

To our first accepting neighbor, we love you and appreciate your kindness towards our family You are truly missed and loved! The Jean Family

Donald Willis

October 29, 2009

Dear Mark and Laura,
Your Mom was a special person and will always be remembered. She will be in my prayers. Peace to you both and all your family.

Don Willis

Melissa Casey

October 29, 2009

Laura, Michael, Christopher, Nicholas and Elizabeth,
We are so sorry for your loss. We will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers. With love & friendship, Jerry, Melissa, Riley Nolan and Keegan

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