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Richard Fidler Obituary
Richard A. Fidler, 76, of West Haven, devoted husband of Diane Dailing Fidler, died at CT Hospice on Monday, May 1, 2023 after a brief illness. May 14th would have been their 35th wedding anniversary. Mr. Fidler was born in New Haven, Sept. 1, 1946, a son of the late Bernard N. and Ida (Goldstein) Fidler. He was an Army veteran of the Vietnam era serving in Germany. Richard served as a computer operator for 27 years at General Electric in Bridgeport and Shelton, and for 10 years at Macy's in Cheshire. He resided for several years in New Haven and West Haven and 8 years in Bridgeport.
Besides his widow he is survived by a son, Brian N. Fidler of West Haven; a daughter, Valerie Solli of Milford; a granddaughter, Rhianna Solli of Milford. Besides his parents, Richard was also predeceased by his brother, Mark R. Fidler Richard was a kind, loving, and generous husband, father, grandfather, cousin, and friend. He attended all his children's and granddaughter's sports and theatrical activities. He was a subscriber to UCONN'S Men's Basketball for about 40 years. He and his brother went to 5 Final Fours. He and his wife were volunteer ushers at the Shubert Theater from 1991-2020. He and his son not only shared their love for running, but they were regulars at West Haven High School sport's events. He, his wife, and son attended all the local community theatrical shows of their daughter and granddaughter. Richard was particularly fond of children and animals.
Funeral Services at Robert E. Shure & Son Funeral Home, 543 George St., New Haven on WEDNESDAY, May 3rd at 12:00 NOON with Interment Services to follow at the Beaverdale Memorial Park, Fitch St. corner of Pine Rock Ave., New Haven. Memorial Contributions may be sent to the charity of one's choice. To sign an online registry book or to leave a message of condolence, please visit: www.shurefuneralhome.com
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Destynee Gill
May 4, 2023
Hearing this news is so sad. I work for the chiropractor that the whole Fidler family attended. Richard was such a kind soul and seeing him would always make my day. You will be so missed.
Harold fidler
May 3, 2023
So sad. He will be missed. Shirley and harold fidler sorry we cant be there but will be in spirit and thought. .
Mark Zikaras
May 3, 2023
Rich & I met at a Red Cross Blood bank 1988 at General Electric in Bridgeport. The technician was rechecking my plus because it registered lower than the norm. Rich asked if I was a runner. Yes, we were both runners. With this we became friends. Rich introduced me to the world of road racing & his son Brian. Brian and I quickly became friends, training partners and racing partners.
We ran many races side by side. Rich encouraged & trained Brian and myself to train together for marathons. In 1990 we ran Stamford & NYC marathons.
Great memories
Life changing.
I am forever grateful for Rich´s friendship & guidance. Such an amazing friend / coach !
Rest peacefully & run easily Rich
Condolences
Mark Zikaras
Marji Watkins
May 2, 2023
Our wonderful friend, Richard. What does one say? We are so glad we had time for a nice visit in December 2021. What a fun day that was! Richard, you were the most generous person we know and adored your precious Diane beyond measure. We will surely miss you and can't imagine life without you. -- Marji & Bob Watkins
Bonnie Lees and Vin Bartolini
May 2, 2023
I am so sorry for your loss . Your Dad was a kind man and proud of his family . I would see him at Brian running races . He always had a big smile of pride when he watch his son accomplishment . He would talk about his family with much joy . Sending love, strength and peace .
Robert Kravitz
May 2, 2023
I´ll miss you Cousin Richard. Thank you for your support and encouragement. If not for you I would have never even thought of running the NY Marathon let alone finishing it. Thank you so much. You were an awesome person. Rest in the peace you richly deserve.
Robbie Kravitz
Kathy King
May 2, 2023
To the family of the Fidler
I am sending my condolences to your family and expecially Brian I now you will miss your dad but now he is in heaven watching over you
Samantha Marron
May 1, 2023
So very for your loss. He was a fine gentleman. He will love on in you and your family
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