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Robert Felner Obituary

FELNER Robert Thomas Felner, age 71, of Fairfield, the beloved husband for forty-nine years of Barbara Nastu Felner, passed away suddenly on Tuesday, July 14, 2009. Born on July 24, 1937 to the late Alex and Bess Felner, Robert was a graduate of Bassick High School where he was on the varsity baseball team. He was subsequently drafted by the Pittsburgh Pirates and played for them for over seven years. Robert was a member of the Army Reserves and attended the University of Bridgeport and the Warren Institute. He and his son, Rob, have owned and operated Sentry Fire Protection for the past 20 years. Robert will always be remembered for his strong and generous spirit, wonderful sense of humor, and the love for his family. In addition to his beloved wife, Barbara, he is survived by his two sons and their wives, Thomas and Kelly of San Jose, CA and Robert and Jennifer of Milford. He was a loving grandfather to his adored granddaughters, Emily and Abby. He is also survived by his mother-in-law, Thoma Nastu of Bridgeport; his brother-in-law, Michael Nastu and his wife, Mary of Fairfield; his sisters-in-law, Terri Trinkley and her husband, Ray, of Fairfield, Sophie Pittu of Fairfield and Nell O'Neill and her husband, Gene of Bridgeport; and several nieces, nephews and cousins. Friends are invited to attend the Mass of Christian Burial on Friday, July 17, 2009 at 10:30 a.m. directly at St. Ann's Church in Black Rock. Interment is private. Friends may greet his family on Thursday, July 16, 2009 from 4-8 p.m. at the Shaughnessey-Banks Funeral Home, 50 Reef Road, Fairfield. Donations may be made in his memory to St. Jude Childrens Research Hospital, Tribute Program, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-1942 or The Thomas Merton House, 43 Madison Avenue, Bridgeport, CT 06606 To send an online condolence, please visit www.shaughnesseybanksfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Jul. 15 to Jul. 16, 2009.

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Sharon (Swanbery) Forrest

July 21, 2009

Tom, Kelley and Felner Family,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with y'all. Our hearts go out to you in your time of sorrow.

July 18, 2009

Felner family, our deepest sympathy on your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. The Hiatt-Maurizio family.

Andy Skroly

July 16, 2009

Mrs. Felner, Tom and Rob,

Tom Larsen called me and told me the very sad news about Mr. Felners passing. I will always remember the fun times we had in you home and the ribbing that Mr. Felner gave us as teenagers. My deepest sympathy's to you all.

Andy Skroly

July 16, 2009

Tom, Kelly & Family:

I am truly sorry to hear of the loss of your dad. I remember him well from our days living next to you in Seymour. He was a really nice guy and I know you had a very close relationship. May his good life be his gift to all of you.

Theresa

Mary Jo and Matt Nichols

July 16, 2009

Barbara, Rob, Jenny, Emily & Abby,
We are so sorry about the loss of your dad. He was a wonderful,sweet man and will truly be missed.

richard zeisler

July 16, 2009

Bob was a god friend of mine through high school.He was voted friendliest in our senior class.Please accept my sincerest sympathy. Richard Zeisler

Kym Bender-Schmidt

July 15, 2009

Dear Rob and Felner Family, I was so sorry to read of your Father's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time.

July 15, 2009

Mrs. Felner, Tommy and Robbie,

I will never forget dancing with Mr. Felner at Kelley and Tommy's wedding. He was one of the kindest, warmest people I have ever known. He had a wonderful smile that will be greatly missed by all who knew him. Take comfort in knowing that his legacy will live on in his sons. Just like his dad, Tommy is an amazingly loyal and devoted son, brother-in-law and husband. Please know that your family is in our prayers. Our love and thoughts are with you. Kathy (Freeman) & Dennis Zellner, Christopher and Kellie

July 15, 2009

Rob & The Felner Family:

We are so sorry to hear of your loss and hope that the memories you have will help you through this difficult time. It was a life well lived and a man well loved. Our prayers are with you.

Corkie & Jeff

July 15, 2009

Dear Barb,Rob and Tom:

Memories of Bob cannot be expressed without mentioning his love for baseball. His devotion to the youth of Little League and Babe Ruth was inspiring. We will always remember the great evenings filled with laughter.

Al and Joan Arison
Punta gorda, Fl.

Becky Ostrofsky O'Connell

July 15, 2009

Barbara, Rob & Tom
Our prayers are with you and your families at this time. Now is the time to reflect on all the happy & special times you had and shared with Bob.

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