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Robert Nilan Obituary

Nilan, Robert E.
Robert E. Nilan, age 89, of Shelton, beloved husband of Joan Sirotnak Nilan, passed away Saturday, January 14, 2017 in Bridgeport Hospital. He was born in Bridgeport son of the late Patrick and Anna Cody Nilan, and was a graduate and played football for Central High School. Bob was a veteran of the United States Navy, serving during World War II. He was a pumper engineer on the Bridgeport Fire Department for more than thirty years and was a member of B.A.R.F. When he retired Bob enjoyed playing golf and reading his Civil War books. Another pleasure was watching his grandchildren play soccer, basketball and baseball. He looked forward to having his grandchildren stop over and also when the family got together. In addition to his wife of sixty-five years he leaves behind his devoted sons Jack Nilan and wife Michele and Gregory Nilan and wife Diana, both of Monroe, a daughter-in-law Margaret Nilan of Trumbull, a brother Thomas Nilan and wife Shirley of Trumbull, seven granddaughters Shannon, Meghan Doyle and husband Mike, Kelly Curry and husband Mike, Kira, Betsy, Mary, and Avery, five grandsons Chris, Sean, Michael, Robby and Eddy, two great grandchildren Logan and Declan and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by two sons Terence and Michael Nilan, his much loved granddaughter Colleen Nilan, two brothers John and James Nilan and two sisters Nora Bergen and Anne Tartaro. Funeral services will be held Wednesday at 10:00a.m., from Redgate – Hennessy Funeral Home, Main Street and Gorham Place, Trumbull, and at 11:00a.m., in St. Lawrence Church, 505 Shelton Avenue, Shelton, with a Mass of Christian Burial. Interment will follow in Gate of Heaven Cemetery, Trumbull. Friends may call Wednesday morning from 9:00a.m. to 10:00a.m., in the funeral home. In lieu of flowers contributions may be made in Bob's memory to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place Memphis, TN 38105 (www.stjude.org). To send online condolences please visit www.redgatehennessy.com

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Published by Connecticut Post from Jan. 16 to Jan. 17, 2017.

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January 19, 2017

Dearest Joan and family,
We are very sad to hear of the loss of Bob.
Praying for you during this terrible time.
Love and Hugs.
Kevin & Meg(Kulhay)Conlon.

Kimball &Cindi SVEC

January 18, 2017

Our deepest sympathy to
All of the Nilan Family,
Please find comfort with all the great memories &the many lives he touched along the way. May he guide all of you frm aboveEach day. God Bless .Rip

Mary Ellen Graham

January 17, 2017

My Mom and Dad, Helen and Ed Otremba, were very good friends of the Nilans. I'm glad that my dad and Mr. Nilan got a chance to see each other again a few years ago. I know they laughed and enjoyed sharing stories about the "old gang" in Bridgeport. Unfortunately, we won't be able to attend the services, but all of the Otrembas send our condolences to Mrs. Nilan and her family.

Chris Watcke

January 17, 2017

We are so sorry to learn about your Dad's passing. My family will be keeping you and yours in our thoughts and prayers

Christine (Brady) Schumacher

January 16, 2017

Mr. Nilan meant a lot to my parents, Bob and Pat Brady. I remember him as being a very kind, family-oriented man. I'm very sorry for your loss.

Kate Farrell Berarducci

January 16, 2017

Jack..Michelle and the entire Nilan family...you all have endured such heartache .... my thoughts..prayers...and love r being sent your way.... may u all look above to the dear lord for strength...and it will be there....

Love

Kate Farrell Berarducci

Debby Dinan

January 16, 2017

I am so grateful to have known such a wonderful man and his entire family! He always had a smile for you! He will be missed, but I'm sure he'll keep busy with everyone in Heaven! Bless your soul Mr. Nilan! My prayers are with your family.

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