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Robert Shackleton Obituary
Robert T. Shackleton passed away on April 20, 2020. He was born in Bridgeport on April 18, 1950 to Robert W. and Patricia Shackleton. Rob just celebrated his 70th birthday enjoying Facetime with his grandchildren Lucas Nicholson, Alexa Caffrey and Colin Caffrey. Rob is survived by his wife Linda; daughter Erin Nicholson and her husband Kris; and daughter Dawn Caffrey and her husband Dan. He is also survived by sisters Gail Lechowicz (Ed) of Coventry and Lynn Connelly (Brian) of Santa Rosa California; and several nieces and nephews. He was a longtime resident of Fairfield before moving to Shelton several years ago. Rob retired from SNET as an engineer and enjoyed a second career at Golf Day where he was able to share his passion for golf with his customers. We have spent the last few days recalling fond memories of our time together. I was reminded that while living in our first house in Stratford we would ride our bikes around town and even riding over to Uncle Buck's and Aunt Pat's for a dip in their pool. In spite of his health issues Erin and Dawn were blessed to have him walk them down the isle on their wedding days and to meet their children. Our son-in-law Kris Nicholson has been a loved member of our family for 20 years and recalls the time Rob went with him and Erin to Lucas' first Yankees game at Yankee Stadium; a fun day for all of them. Six years ago Dan Caffrey became our second much loved son-in-law and Rob had another golf buddy. Here's to that Hole-in-One in Heaven as we raise a Coors Lite to the heavens thinking of you! The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to the wonderful staff, including nurses and administration at Middlebrook Farms in Trumbull for their extraordinary care. The family suggests that if anyone is so inclined, a donation to Malignant Hyperthermia Association of the United States (MHAUS) would be appropriate ([email protected]) or to The Council of Churches of Greater Bridgeport (https://ccgb.org/CCGB/index.php/DonateToday). A Celebration of Rob's life will take place on a future date to be announced. For information or to sign an online register, please visit www.SpearFuneralHome.com.
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Ed Lavernoich
April 30, 2020
Erin, Linda and family: As you know, I met Rob on the golf course more than 15 years ago, truly in his element. We spent so many Sunday mornings together they seem countless. I was inspired by the way he continued to pursue his passion even after physical misfortune- I think every person we encountered at Woodhaven felt the same way. I'm honored to have spent the time with him that I did and will always remember fondly his perseverance, competitiveness, and the sharp banter we exchanged when competing for a cup of coffee. I'm better for knowing him. God bless him, and you.
Jeff Zeleny
April 29, 2020
Rob and I graduated Ludlowe together and we crossed paths many times in Fairfield and later in Shelton over the years. He always had a smile and a positive take on things.
May he rest in peace
Stan Nadolny
April 27, 2020
Sorry to hear about his passing, he was a very nice person .
Janet Hogarth
April 27, 2020
Dear Linda and family. So sorry to hear of the loss of Rob. May the wonderful memories you shared, comfort you at this time. Love and prayers, Janet
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April 27, 2020
Linda, Erin and Dawn.
Jim and I have such fond memories of our friend and neighbor.
May he rest in peace.
Fondly,
Deb Savacool Hanrahan
Lynn Bodges-Craska
April 27, 2020
To Linda, Erin, Dawn, and family: Sending deepest condolences from the Bodges family. So sorry to hear about Rob's passing.
Maggie Salamon
April 26, 2020
To Linda and family sorry for your loss
Kay Bowersox
April 25, 2020
Linda and family, I am so sorry to read
about Rob's passing. I remember the times
Jim and I spent at the Fricker's playing
Trivia Pursuit with you and Rob. May God
Bless and Keep You at this sad, difficult
time.
Kay and Jim Bowersox
The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home
April 25, 2020
Offering our deepest condolences during this time.
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