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Roger Capobianco Obituary
Roger Capobianco, 79, formerly of Monroe, passed away peacefully on April 23. Roger graduated from Fairfield University and continued his education at the school to earn a Masters Degree and a 6th Year in Education. Through his joy of teaching he met the love of his life, Kathy, with whom he is reunited in Heaven. Roger dedicated 37 years of teaching in the Trumbull Public School System, where he garnered accolades from parents, students and colleagues and was recognized as Teacher of the Year. Roger considered the roles of father and grandfather to be the greatest achievements of his life. He was always there to support them, sharing in their joys and helping to lift their spirits in their disappointments. Roger had a giving heart and was generous in many volunteer activities such as the Fresh Air Fund and reading to students at inner city schools. Roger is predeceased by his father Henry, mother Margaret, and loving wife Kathy. He is survived by daughter Kate Gaumer and her husband Chris, son Chris Capobianco and his wife Elizabeth, daughter Sarah Williams and her husband Mike, and several nieces and nephews. With loving hearts, his grandchildren, Matt, Mike, Kaitlin and Lindsay Capobianco, Hannah, Jack and Will Gaumer, and Emma and Elliott Williams, will keep his memory alive. Calling hours will be held on Wednesday, April 26, 2017 from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m, followed by a service, at Spadaccino and Leo P. Gallagher & Son Community Funeral Home, 315 Monroe Turnpike, Monroe. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the ALS Association of CT (www.alsact.org) on 4 Oxford Road, Milford, CT 06460. Online condolences may be made at www.spadaccinofuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Roger Capobianco
Michael Rebaczonok-Padulo
September 27, 2017
When I was growing up in the USA, I had the great good fortune to be a student of Mr Capobianco's way back in 1964-65 as a student at the Middlebrook Junior High School. He will forever stand out in my mind as a truly great teacher, full of enthusiasm and dynamism, vivaciousness and commitment, who made history come alive and instilled in us a lifelong passion for current events. He clearly enjoyed tremendous popularity with the student body on the whole for all that he stood for, coupled to the fact that he was always approachable, ready to listen, to comfort, to counsel. As I live on the other side of the globe, I have only just learnt of his passing, and would like to extend my condolences to his family members who must miss him sorely. I shall continue to remember him with the greatest respect and fondness.
Sandy Caspole
June 11, 2017
Mr Capobianco was the best teacher I ever had, He made history interesting, fun and gave me my first taste of what politics was about. We loved his stories and his special interest. He took me to opening day Yankee Staduim 1965. A very special man and teacher to anyone who had time with him. He is sorely missed. God blessed all of you to have such a wonderful father and grandfather.
Cindy (Corbesato) Dachenhausen
May 1, 2017
I have fond memories of both Mr. and Mrs. Capobianco growing up. I was so sorry to hear of his passing after the services had occurred. Please accept our deepest sympathy at the loss of your dad, and grandfather. I am sure there was quite a reunion in heaven that day. Our prayers are with your family. -The Corbesato's
Renard Strautman
April 30, 2017
Mr. Capobianco was the greatest teacher/mentor/friend for me and a group of about half a dozen other boys at Hillcrest Junior High in the mid-70s. We not only took his wonderful US history class, but regularly wandered into his office during lunchtime to shoot the breeze, played basketball with him at open rec, and went to Yankee games with him courtesy of his VW Beetle. Mr. C was hands-down our favorite grown-up. We all are saddened to hear of his passing, but are grateful to have experienced his warmth, guidance and friendship. Mr. C was a huge part of our lives, may he rest in peace.
Ed & Sheila Farrell
April 28, 2017
With our sympathy at this sad time. There are many hearts that go out to you at this time of your loss. Though no one can take away your sorrow know that there are those of us with loving concern and pray for your strength day to day.
Vinny DeCesare
April 28, 2017
I'll always remember Roger's great sense of humor and all the teasing he took from all of us who worked with him at Madison. It was a pleasure being on the same academic team with him for so many years. You will be greatly missed, Rog.
April 27, 2017
To the entire Capobianco family; it deeply saddened me to read about Mr C's passing. He was absolutely my favorite teacher at Middlebrook jr high...way back when. I do believe it was his first year teaching! He had a huge impact on my life...many years after, two of my children also had him as a teacher at Madison...he inspired my daughter to love history, and to become a teacher. We will always keep him in our hearts and memories. Thank you Mr Capobianco. With love, Ginger Caserta Mullin, Rob Mullin and Paisley Mullin Bennett ❤❤
Joe Pifko
April 27, 2017
My condolences on the loss of Mr. Capobianco. My three children had him at Madison Middle School. He was one of their favorite teachers. As Vice Chairman of the Trumbull Town Council I arranged that Mr. Capobianco was remembered during our moment of silence at this past Tuesday's meeting. May he rest in peace.
Joe Pifko
Candy Pelton
April 26, 2017
Dear Chris, Kate and Sarah,
I'm so sorry to hear of your dad's passing...he was a wonderful guy, always full of fun, and I will remember him fondly...sending my love and prayers to all of you.
Lorraine Wojchik
April 26, 2017
Mr. Capobianco was a wonderful teacher. I am so sorry for his family's loss.
Phil Anctil
April 26, 2017
Our prayers are with all of you and your families - Roger was a great friend and colleague - we shared a multitude of great times at Hillcrest and MMS - Phil and Marge Anctil
Barbara Furze Johnson
April 26, 2017
Roger and Kathy were my favorite teachers in 7th grade at Middlebrook JH. It was Kathy's first year teaching and I adored her. Roger was just hands down a terrific teacher. I spent hours after school with them. The next year i was thrilled to be one of the first to know of their engagement and was invited to their wedding. I pray that your faith and your memories sustain you in your loss. Roger and Kathy were the best.
Dan & Julie Grosner
April 26, 2017
To Kate, Chris & Sarah: Sorry for your loss. We remember all the celebrations we had with your Dad and the good memories that we will not forget. Our prayers are with you.
Patrick Laros
April 26, 2017
Kate, Chris, Sarah, and family.
I am very sorry to hear about your father. I have extremely fond memories of getting together, watching our parents play bridge, and simply being at your house through my childhood. You are in our prayers.
Sincerely, Patrick and Marisa Laros
April 26, 2017
Dear Kate, Chris and Sarah Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for the loss of your father...our thoughts are with you and your families during this difficult time.
Lee and Lorraine Harrison
April 25, 2017
To Kate, Chris and Sara,
There are no words to describe the emotions that I feel from a memory that I have had from over 30 years ago, but I will try. As a kid, your father was one of my parents best friends. There wasn't a year that went by back then when we didn't see the Caps at least once every two months, I could be wrong. And I remember how compassionate your parents were in taking in us for sleep overs and wish I could remember the name of the girl they took in every summer to spend time in the country, to get out of the city for awhile. All good stuff. Your father will always be a part of my memories from my past and childhood, which is why I needed to say all of this. My prayers are with you and I am so sorry for your loss. I can only hope you will all be ok to move forward and know that your dad is with your mom again and in peace . That is what I am hoping and pray for. Again so sorry George
Mary-Beth Landy
April 25, 2017
Dear Kate, Chris, and Sarah,
Please accept my deepest sympathy for the tremendous loss of your dad. I have always thought of Kathy and pray for her often and know that your dad is blessed to with her again! I will never forget what their friendship meant to my mom and to me. I will pray for you all as you travel through this difficult time. Peace, Mary-Beth
Melissa Hallstrom- White
April 25, 2017
Mr. Capobianco was a great Teacher! His legacy is the smile that spreads on the face of everyone of his former students, at the mention of his name. I remember how fun his class was, with his stories. We were learning from him even when we were having such fun with him.
My condolences to the family.
Melissa Hallstrom-White
Glenn Stevens
April 25, 2017
He was a mentor of mine when he taught at Hillcrest. He actually came to meet my family and came to my court of honor when I became and Eagle Scout.
I love history today and I owe it all to Mr. C.
Donna Fermo
April 25, 2017
Very sorry for your loss. I was Roger's barber at Watermark for the past several years. A kind warm compassionate man, we had many good conversations and laughs he had a great sense of humor, he will be missed.
Jacquey Tynan
April 25, 2017
Sitting here with tears in my eyes after reading this sad news. Mr. Capobianco was absolutely my favorite teacher ever. I was very shy and quiet and he put me on the debate team for a class project and gave me a role in our mock murder trial. Although I wasn't happy about either role, even then I understood why he had given them to me. He truly made learning a joy and he was a true gift to Hillcrest and those of us who were lucky to have him as a teacher. My deepest condolences to his family.
Judy Schuchman
April 25, 2017
Dear Kate, Chris and Sarah,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this very sad time.
Len and Judy Schuchman
Fernandina Beach,FL
Lisa Cascio
April 25, 2017
Chris and Elizabeth,
Prayers and love to the entire Capobianco family on your loss. Your friends in Boston are sending love and prayers, and will keep you in our thoughts."
With much love,
Lisa and Shawna
Newtown Lions Duck Race Committee 2009
Bob Schmidt
April 25, 2017
Roger was a great teacher and a great friend. After I retired, I asked him to join the Lions Club and we worked together on the Duck Race committee. We shared a lot of great times together and I will miss him.
Bob Schmidt
Dennis and Kathy Bonetti
April 25, 2017
Dear Chris, Kate and Sarah,
So very sorry to have read about the loss of your dad. I know how much he loved his family and will be missed by all. Our prayers and thoughts will be with you all during this very sad time.
Our deepest sympathy, Dennis and Kathy Bonetti.
Ray Pistey
April 25, 2017
My sympathy to the family. Roger was my classmate and a great person.
April 25, 2017
Sending love and prayers to the whole family. We have many fond memories of Roger from Trumbull Pisces and teaching with him and your mom at Madison. May your memories give you strength and peace.
Blessings,
Fred and Sharon Callahan
John Erdmann
April 25, 2017
Chris, Kate, and Sarah - Some of the best memories of my childhood were playing Pinochle at your house with your parents. Truly two of the best people I've ever known and what an incredible legacy they have in you and your children. You and your families remain in my heart and in my prayers.
April 25, 2017
To the family of Roger Capobianco. I am so sorry for your loss. Although I didn't have him as a teacher at Hillcrest, I remember that he was always available if I needed to talk to him about anything. He was a wonderful person. Lori Ganattosio
Douglas Musante
April 25, 2017
I had the good fortune of having Roger Capobianco as a teacher in 8th and 9th grade at Hillcrest Middle School, Trumbull. I have many fond memories of him 48 years later. I know that he had a huge impact on the lives of many of his students, and was highly respected by his students and peers. To Roger's family, please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. Please know that he was a wonderful person and a great teacher, and he made a difference in my life.
Bill Faller
April 25, 2017
Sorry for your loss - we so enjoyed Roger's visits - he will be missed - Bobbie and Bill Faller
April 25, 2017
Dear Chris and Elizabeth - I am very sorry for your loss. Wishing your whole family peace.
The Staff of Spadaccino Funeral Home
April 25, 2017
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
April 24, 2017
May God's loving kindness and comfort help you and your family through this very sad time Psalms 29:11
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