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Shawn Miller Obituary

MILLER Shawn Miller, age 30, entered into eternal rest on Monday, October 13, 2003. A lifetime resident of the Bridgeport area, he was born on May 6, 1973, to Robert Miller Sr. of Georgia, and Sonia Smallwood Miller of Bridgeport. He resided the majority of his adult life in Bridgeport. He remained a constant presence in the life of his family and friends, and was a loving son, father and devoted friend. In addition to his parents, left to cherish his memories are his grandmother, Gertrude Allen of Bridgeport; his children, sons, Jalen, Robbie and Amir; and special companion, Valita Green of Stratford; son, Cass of Stratford; daughters, Tajeona of Maryland, and Ayanna of Bridgeport; sisters, Rachelle Hetzel (Ronald) of Washington State, and Nicole Miller (Carey) of Bridgeport; brother, Troy Henderson (Mary) of Stratford; special aunts, Willamae and Gwen Bath of Bridgeport; and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. A funeral will be held on Friday, October 17, 2003, at noon, at Mount Aery Baptist Church, 73 Frank Street, Bridgeport, with the Rev. Anthony L. Bennett officiating. Friends may greet the family from 11 a.m. until time of service at the church. Interment immediately following in Lakeview Cemetery, 885 Boston Avenue, Bridgeport. Arrangements entrusted to the George J. Peterson Funeral Home, 1041 Noble Avenue, Bridgeport.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Oct. 15 to Oct. 16, 2003.

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Tomika Belton

October 21, 2005

A poem from me to you!





If I knew it was the last

time I was going to hold

you, I would have held

you a longer



If I knew it was the last

time I was going to kiss

you, I would have kissed

you a longer



If I knew it was the last

time I was going to look

in your eyes, I would have

stared deeply in your eyes



If I knew it was the last

time I was going to touch

you, I would have touched

you all over



If I knew it was the last

time I was going to feel

your love, I would have

gave you all of mines



If I knew it was the last

time to see you smile and

laugh, I would have made

you smile and laugh that

whole time



If I knew it was the last

time I was going to feel

your world, I would have

made it last forever

Tomika Belton

October 21, 2005

It's been two years now, and the days are getting a little easier. I still can't believe your gone. Sometimes I think it was all just a bad dream, but then reality hits. Those are the toughest days of all. Our little boy is getting so big, he looks and acts just like you. But I'm sure you can see that.

You are still the greatest love I ever had and I will always hold you close to my heart.I love you today as I have from the start,

and I'll love you forever with all of my heart.

Stick

April 20, 2004

6 mos have gone by and yet it still seems like yesterday. Trying to get through the days is still hard. Denial works best for me. I try to imagine that you went to Detroit for a minute and I will see you soon. That is how I cope. No one will ever call me "Stick" again and I will never say "Bono". I actually find myself saying " what up Stick" like I was you. I know crazy right?I pray all the time that mommy finds some peace but I see the sadness in her eyes and she still can't talk about you without breaking down. Life is hard and then it gets harder. Today Wendy sent me an article about this particular day 4/20 being a holiday for those that "smoke out" I laughed and thought of you, then I get an E-mail telling me there has been a new entry into this book. After 6 mos. Talk about co winky dink. It has been hard on all of us that loves you. All I have left from our immediate family is mommy and Troy and we promise to take care of each other. Not a day will go by that we will not think of you. I know you are watching over us and I will see you one day soon. Meet me in my in my dreams.





Love always

Tomika Belton

April 19, 2004

My Dearest Shawn,

The man of my life, I will miss you forever. You brought me nothing but joy. You mean the world to me. I will never understand why you were taken from me. I will never understand why our kids are growing up without thier father. Cass will never have met you, but he will always know you. I will keep you alive for him, and the rest of our babies.I hope I can raise him to be the man, you and I hoped to raise him to be. Please watch over Cass, Jalen, Robbie, Amir, Taji, and Ayanna. Please make sure they are okay always. I love now and I always will.

WILLAMAE ALLEN

November 14, 2003

SHAWN...EVERYTIME I LOOK AT THE SKY I SEE YOUR SMILE AND YOU ARE SAYING

"AUNTIE....LET ME GET A CIGARETTE!3 OF MY BABIES ARE GONE...BUT I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE 1ST DAY OF SCHOOL,RUNNY NOSES,FEVER,FIGHTS...(OTHERS & AMONG YOURSELVES) YOU GUYS WERE THEIR SONS....BUT MY BABIES!!



LOVE ALWAYS

&

FOREVER.....AUNTIE MAE

GWEN ALDRIDGE

November 12, 2003

I PICKED UP THE PHONE TODAY TO CALL YOU.

THEN I REMEMBER...YOU ARE NOT HERE ANYMORE.

THEN I LOOKED AROUND AND I SAW SIX OF YOU.

YOUR EYES WITH THE TWINKLE IN IT. YOUR SMILE WITH THE LITTLE LINES ON EACH CONNER OF YOUR MOUTH.

THE WAY YOU HOLD HOLD YOUR HEAD TO TO ONE SIDE.

THEN I REALIZE I WILL ALWAYS SEE YOU IN THEM.

I CAN TEACH THEM LIKE YOU..LAUGH WITH THEM LIKE YOU..CRY WITH THEM LIKE YOU..PLAY WITH THEM LIKE YOU ALL OVER AGAIN.

THANK YOU SHAWN FOR THEM, THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL LIKE YOU.



LOVING YOU ALWAYS

YOUR NANNA

Jalen Miller

November 11, 2003

Daddy



Where are you? I've been waiting to see that silly smile of yours every time you came home. What happened to my daddy, who took him from me and my brothers!!! Did they know us and how much we loved him. did they know how MUCH my daddy LOVED his BOYS. I miss my daddy and my brothers do too. Mommie cries herself to sleep everynight. This is my nightmare forever and I'm only 9. Now I have to a big boy to teach my little brothers to grow up to be fine young men, they way Daddy would want us to be and to make my DADDY proud of us. As if he was not already. Daddy I love you, Robbie loves you, and Ahmir loves you. And I pray to GOD that one day we will see each other again. OUR ONE BIG HAPPY FAMILY!!



Love you Daddy

JALEN MILZ

Maria Pergely

November 10, 2003

I am so very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy to his entire family. Nicole and I worked together at Scholastic. My sincere condolences to the Miller family.

Valita Green

November 10, 2003

My Dearest Shawn

There isn’t enough paper to

Write how I feel. There isn’t a bucket big enough

To hold the tears I have cried and will continue to cry

For 14 years we have seen some sunny days and some rainy days

And although it seemed our lives were taking different directions

We knew what we meant to each other and that we had not had our last dance

Thank you for our beautiful son’s. They will never forget you. We will celebrate your

Life everyday. I prayed to GOD that they inherit that beautiful smile and your undying humor. I want them to challenge the world with the same spirit you had and never forget who they come from. We love you and always will.

Portia To My Sister & Niece

November 8, 2003

This is to my sister and my niece:

Life has so many questions and sometimes no answers. We as we are; strong, giving, gentle, have to keep it real as always. I love you both more than you can ever imagine. I just wanted to let you know that we will endure this and I love you both always no matter what, we are down for the count forever! PEACE

Infiniti Henderson

November 7, 2003

To my uncle Shawn:

I really didnt get to know you well, but I'm sad to hear your gone home. I need to send my love to you and the rest of my family of yours. Especially my Nanna Sonia. I'm sorry for her lost again. I hope to see them soon. GOD bless the rest.



Love TT

chellemel

October 30, 2003

To my Heavenly Father

Where is my brother?

Can someone tell me where he's gone?

did you know him?

did you tell him?

did you love him like I did?

He's supposed to be here

Close enough to touch

but somehow I can't feel his him

will he meet me when I get there?

will he smile and hold me close?

this is my dream

my hope

my prayer.

Please, God, let him be there when it's time

Let him meet me at the gate.

I miss his smile

his laugh

his tears.

My hope is in you, Lord.

Who knows what you worked in my brother's heart in those last moments. I pray you revealed yourself to him and called him to your side to be with you.

And please, Lord, I pray he said "yes", and is with you even now.

Please let it be but a little while before I am with him again.

Please, Lord, I miss him so.

Maranatha, come Lord Jesus.

My heart is broken in pieces.

Come soon, please come soon.

Lashonda Smith

October 23, 2003

To the family of Shawn 'Mills'.I have been a friend of Mills for years and years.I will never forget the laughter we had and the smile that the kept on his face.Ms.Sonia you are in my prayers as well as the children.Tameka you aslo have my prayers and the baby,stay strong.



GOD BLESS YOU ALL

Nicole Miller

October 21, 2003

My family would like to thank all of you for your kind words and prayers. Shawn will be missed dearly. My brother had a way about him that would make anyone love him. I always looked after my little brother and now he will look after me. Again thank you all for the love. If you see us on the street please continue to give us the love. Keep my brother's memory alive for the sake of his children and for the sake of us.



Love always "Stick"

NANNA

October 21, 2003

SHAWN `A' POO



RMEMBER WHEN...AND WE LAUGH

REMEMBER WHEN...AND WE CELEBRATED

REMEMBER WHEN...AND WE CRIED



I DO...AND ALWAYS WILL

ALWAYS IN MY HEART

ALWAYS IN MY MIND

LOVE ALWAYS NANNA

LaKiksha (Ki) Bryan

October 20, 2003

R.I.P.

Shawn, you are gone but never will be forgotten. Not only will your picture remain on my wall, but will forever be in my heart.

xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox oxoxoxoxo

Kisha

Daisette

October 19, 2003

To the Miller family and dearest friends. I send my deepest sympathy! Although there aren't enough words that can be said in this dreadful time, just know that GOD is with you "family" every step of the way. AND when you feel the burden heavier than before, lift your hands up and praise the lord for he answer prayers.

Shawn, you will be sadly missed but never forgotten!

Your childhood friend.

From the family of Kevmark and Kentrel. GOD bless!

Nicole Nelson

October 17, 2003

I am a friend of Nicole Miller's, from (Park City Hospital) I am sorry to hear about your loss my prayers go out to you and your family in this time of sorrow.

A loving Mother

October 17, 2003

TO THE MILLER CHILDREN AND FAMILY:



Matthew 11:28-30

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."



We will all miss Shawn! That goes without question, but he still lives on through his children. May God bless you and keep you and as each day arise, you will gain a little more strength. To the mother of the Shawn's children. Today was a difficult day, I could never imagine what it is like to lose my child's father, but know that in your loss you possess something special and unique and that is the seeds of Shawn's fruit. Each one of them have some awesome charactersic of their father. They have been endured enough pain. As they continue to grow, they will have many questions. They will want to know about their dad. Just know that God is with you and let your memory of what God blessed you with manifest through your children to ease yours and your children's pain of losing Shawn.



Written by a mother!

Bertha Chisolm

October 17, 2003

Rev Chisolm and Bertha is praying for you and your family.

LeRoy Lawson

October 17, 2003

To A REAL TRUE Father, God Bless

Tina Rawls

October 17, 2003

Valita, I don't know exactly what to say to make you feel better, really I don't think there are any words I can say to you right now to make you feel better. But I can tell you that I know this is a very hard time and within due time it starts to get easier. Just continue to handle your business like you have been doing and be strong for Jalen, Robbie and Amir. God is not going put more on you than you can bear. It feels that way right now but after a while it gets easier. I am not going to say you will get over it but it will just get easier as time goes by. I love you and that goes without saying. Keep your head up.



Your cousin

Tina

deva c.

October 16, 2003

the heartache that i am feeling cannot be put into words. shawn mill's touched my life, the life of my family, and so many others lives - to say that he will be missed is an understatement.

i will miss the joke sessions, the serenades, and the love of your s. dots.

my prayers are extended to your family: ms. sonia, nikki, troy, valita, trudy, and your babies.

love your girl d-nice

NIKKI DANIELS

October 16, 2003

To this place you must go it's a restng place where things are slow. Rest now Shawn Rest. REST IN PEACE. Heartful of prayers,Thougths of love to the family.Always Thinking Of You (mom) Love Nikki,Jean&The Daniels Family

Chanel Reed

October 16, 2003

Shawn...

Its a crazy world. I cannot believe that you are gone. The family will miss you so much. We will miss your visits to Maryland. We will surely miss your smiling face. Prayers go out to the family and friends of Shawn. To Shawn's children know that your daddy kept a smile on his face when you were present and when he was arpund his family. Shawn we LOVE YOU and you will NEVER be forgetten Baby Boy! -(-@ Untill we meet again

-Tulip, Burger, Vonya, Lena, Chanel, Mona, Dot, Fella, Vicky, Ali, Nijah

SHELBY EBRON

October 16, 2003

OUR SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO THE MILLER FAMILY STAY STRONG. GOD BLESS



SHELBY EBRON AND CATHY REED

Linda Johnson

October 16, 2003

Sonia,

My deepest sympathy to you and your family, May God Bless you all.

LySandra Sajous

October 16, 2003

i'm sorry to hear what happened. All you need to know he's in our hearts and his spirit will always be around.John 3:6- Living the everlasting life... he's up in heaven somewhere living it... and i would like to say god bless to the Miller...i knew Shawn for years...

ERIC A-K-A 'E' THOMPSON

October 16, 2003

TO THE FAMILY OF SHAWN MILLER

God looked around his garden,

And he found an empty place.

He then looked down on earth,

and saw your face.

He put his arms around you

And lifted you to rest.

God's garden must be beautiful,

He always takes the best.

It broke our hearts to lose you,

But you didn't go alone.

For part of us went with you

The day God called you home.

You left us beautiful memories,

Your love is stillour guide'

And though we cannot see you,

You are always by our side.

Your family chain is broken,

And nothing seems the same,

But as God call you one by one,

The chain will link again .



- 'E' ERIC THOMPSON -

Nancy Domond

October 16, 2003

My sincere condolences to the family and friends of Shawn.

Linda Schoening

October 16, 2003

My deepest sympathy to your family. I am a former co-worker/Friend of Nicole's from the Book Company. Linda S.

Andrea Summerville

October 15, 2003

In your time of sorrow and sadness, may God's Spirit comfort you through the ones who will encourage you through a hug,a kind word, a thoughtful gesture or holding your hands, that you are not alone.



May God comfort you and your family during your time of grief. Think on those things that reflect Shawn's personality, style and his beautiful smile.



May your heart know God's peace that passes all understanding.



In Memory to Shawn, he will be forever missed.



Love Andrea Summerville & Family

samantha

October 15, 2003

I would like to send out my thoughts and prayers to Shawn's family.I Knew Shawn for a while then i found out that he was related to my step-father.Shawn was a very easy going person,we will all miss dearly.

samantha

October 15, 2003

i would like to send out my thoughts and prays to Shawn's family.I Knew Shawn for a while then i found out that he was related to my step-father.Shawn was a very easy going person,we will all miss dearly.

Sonia Henderson-Cromartie

October 15, 2003

To The Family of Shawn Miller: Our deepest sympathy truly go out to you. We will keep you in our prayers, always remember seek in God for your comfort, and relief is in HIM (GOD). May ALLAH's blessings be with each and every one of you. Brother Derick & Sister Sonia X (Cromartie) and Family

Bridget Hall

October 15, 2003

To the family of Shawn Miller:

We are so sorry. We wish there were words we could write to ease this time and provide you with comfort. But of course there are no such words. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May GOD continue to keep you.

The Wilson, Hall & Freeman families

Kelly Alleyne

October 15, 2003

AND GOD SAID



I said, "God, I hurt."

And God said, I know."

I said, "God, I cry a lot."

And God said, "That is why I gave you tears."

I said, "God, I am so depressed."

And God said, "That is why I gave you Sunshine."

I said, "God, life is so hard."

And God said, "That is why I gave you loved ones."

I said, "God, my loved one died."

And God said, "So did mine."

I said, "God, it is such a loss."

And God said, I saw mine nailed to a cross."

I said, "God, but your loved one lives."

And God said, "So does yours."

I said, "God, where are they now?"

And God said,

"Mine is on My right and yours is in theLight."

I said, "God, it hurts."

And God said, I know."







Try To Understand



Last night while I was trying to sleep,

My son's voice I did hear

I opened my eyes and looked around,

But he did not appear.

He said: "Mom you've got to listen,

You've got to understand

God didn't take me from you, mom

He only took my hand.

When I called out in pain that night,

The instant that I died,

He reached down and took my hand,

And pulled me to His side.

He pulled me up and saved me, mom

From the misery and pain.

My body was hurt so badly inside,

You know, I would never be the same.

My search is really over now,

From my aimless wandering,

I've found happiness within,

All the answers to my empty dreams

And all that might have been.

Tell my children I love and miss them so,

And I'll always be nearby,

My body's gone forever,

But my spirit will never die!

And so, mom, you must go on now,

Live one day at a time.

Just understand

God did not take me from you, mom,

He only took my hand.

pia davis

October 15, 2003

I cannot fathom the thought of never seeing you again,you have been apart of my family for so many years,words cannot express the amount of pain we are all feeling. God bless you and may he keep you under his wing and may you reunite with your brother Robbie,God bless you. My heart and prayers are extended to your family,children,Sonia,Nicky,and troy--Nini sends her love.



Love always

The Davis family

Shanisha Reed

October 15, 2003

I just wanted to send out my sympathy to Taji(Daughter) and the family.I didn't know Shawn very well but much love to those whom he's left behind.Taji I Love You!!Just know that you can talk to your older cousin anytime because what your going to experience I may have experienced because my father is deceased also..Much respect and sympathy.



~R.I.P Shawn~



Love Always,

Nisha

Mr. & Mrs. Patrice Blackwell

October 15, 2003

We are sorry about your loss.



With heartfelt sympathy,



Patrice (Juice) and Jackie Blackwell

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