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Thomas Csizmadia Obituary

Csizmadia, Thomas Sr.
Thomas E. Csizmadia, Sr., age 74 of Fairfield , loving and devoted husband of 53 years of Joan Holden Csizmadia, passed away peacefully Sunday, January 22, 2017 at St. Vincent's Medical Center. Although Tom passed away of a heart attack, the Csizmadia family was blessed to get three additional years after his son Tim donated a kidney to him on January 16, 2014. Born in Bridgeport, the son of the late Anthony and Charlotte Csizmadia, he had been a lifelong Fairfield resident. A graduate of Andrew Warde High School, Thomas served in the United States Navy. Immediately after his honorable discharge from the Navy, Tom married his high school sweetheart, Joan, as soon as he could after her high school graduation. Tom joined the Fairfield Fire Department in 1964 and retired in 1984. During those years, Tom always worked hard to support his growing family and also worked part-time as a butcher at Fairway Beef in Fairfield, which allowed Joan to stay home with their children. He then became General Manager for the Sisters of Notre Dame buildings and grounds which later became part of Fairfield University. He then worked as head custodian at Helen Keller Middle School in Easton. He was an avid fisherman and also loved bow-hunting. He loved spending time on Long Island Sound with his family and time spent at his beloved South Benson Boat Marina where he and Joan would spend many enjoyable days. He will be fondly remembered as a loving and devoted husband, father and grandfather who would do anything for the benefit of his family and friends. He will be dearly missed by his wife Joan as their love story began in the summer of 1959. In addition to his wife Joan, he will be sadly missed by his four sons, Thomas E. Csizmadia, Jr. and his wife Kathleen of Fairfield, Timothy M. Csizmadia and his wife Laura of Newtown, Scott H. Csizmadia and his wife Terri of Shelton and Brian A. Csizmadia and his wife Kelly of Trumbull. In addition "Papa" will be missed by his cherished seven grandchildren, of whom he was so proud, Anthony, Kati, Brandon, Colin, Scott, Jr., Summer and Colton. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Thursday, January 26, 2017 at 10:00 a.m. meeting directly at St. Emery Church, 838 Kings Highway East, Fairfield. Interment with military honors will follow in Lawncroft Cemetery, Fairfield. Friends may call Wednesday from 4-8 PM in the Spear-Miller Funeral Home, 39 South Benson Road, Fairfield. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to the American Heart Association, 5 Brookside Drive, Wallingford, CT 06492 or the National Kidney Foundation, 1463 Highland Ave., Cheshire, CT 06410. For information or to sign an online guest register please visit www.SpearMillerFuneralHome.com



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Published by Connecticut Post from Jan. 23 to Jan. 25, 2017.

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Judi Back

January 17, 2024

Tom was a kind, compassionate, gentle man who loved his beautiful wife and family. He was very witty, articulate and generous. Thinking of you all today and sending prayers . Love, Judi Back

Jim & Betsy Entwisle

January 28, 2017

Dear Joanie,

We're so sorry to hear about Tommy... please know that you and your family are in our hearts and prayers...

Don Ciardullo

January 27, 2017

Dear Csizmadia Family. We are so sorry for your loss. All though its has been a long time I still have fond memories of Mr Csizmadia and family. I spent a lot of time hanging out with Tom jr at the Csizmadia family home and Fire Department during summer breaks from grammar school. My mom Shirley always had nice things to say about Tom as they were classmates at Andrew Ward. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Our sincerest condolences. Don Ciardullo and family.

Kay Pensiero

January 25, 2017

So sorry to read the news of the passing of your beloved husband Tom. Joan you were my roommate many years ago at St.Vincents Hospital,as you had just given birth to your 3rd son. We knew then,What a special family you all were. Our sympathy and prayers.

Chet Garrison

January 25, 2017

Dear Joan & Family,
I had the honor of working with Tom in the late 60's early 70's as we both were firefighters. We were at twos on the same shift. The memories just flood my mind of what we did on the job. he was always a gentleman to my family and a friend while on the job. There was one thing I knew and he never kept it a secret , and that was how much he loved you and his family. His memory will always be apart of me and I am will always remember the fine man,husband,father and friend he was to us all. Please except my sincere condolences, and my prayers are with you and your family.

Golino Family

January 24, 2017

Dear Csizmadia Family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Tom was a great man who was so good to me, my son and family. You welcomed us like family. I will forever remember his smile and a few trips on the boat w him w me ending up seasick over the edge of the boat. I know he was welcomed into heaven by loved ones arms wide open. Sending you our love and strength. And our family will always be there for you. Rest In Peace and forever in our hearts.

Wendy Andreoli

January 24, 2017

Dearest Joan, Tom, Tim, Scott & Brian,
We are so saddened to hear about Tom's passing. To all of you and your extended families, we hope you find peace and know that we are praying for all of you during this most difficult time. Love - The Fell Family

Ben Faria

January 24, 2017

Dear Csizmadia Family,
I'm so sorry to hear about Tom's passing. It was a pleasure to have gotten to know him over the last few years at Fairfield Boat Owners. We shared many laughs at the meetings. I will miss him dearly. Unfortunately I won't be able to attend the services because I'm away at school.

January 24, 2017

Scott and family,
Sending you love and deepest sympathy on the passing of your dad,
Allison Zarrelli

The Mastronardi Family

January 24, 2017

Dear Joan & Family,
We are deeply sorry to hear about the passing of Tom. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very sad time.

January 24, 2017

Dear Joan and family,
Tom was a good man who was very dedicated to his family who gave him tremendous joy.
We are very sorry for your loss and may he rest in peace.
Marion and Bob Carlson

Jennifer Robinson

January 24, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. Laura always spoke so fondly of him and the love he had for his family.

Mae Myers

January 24, 2017

My Sympathy goes out to the Csizmadia Family. Psalm 30:5 "weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning." My prayer are with you all. May God Bless each and everyone of you.

Sandy Robinson

January 24, 2017

My deepest sympathy to you Joan, and to all your wonderful family. Tom was such a great person, always with a smile on his face. Remembering all of you in my prayers.

Adrian Dafcik

January 24, 2017

On behalf of Dr. Adrian Dafcik and his staff, we send our deepest condolences to the Csizmadia family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Jodi Csontos Smith

January 24, 2017

So sorry for your loss.

Rich Mccarthy

January 24, 2017

Tom,Tim, Scott and the entire Csizmadia family please accept my deepest condolences on the passing of Tom.

A Fellow US Navy Sailor

January 24, 2017

Fair Winds and Following Seas, Shipmate. We have the watch, rest in peace.

January 24, 2017

The country is in mourning for a veteran has passed away. RIP

GARY SIMONE

January 24, 2017

So sorry to hear, we had some great memories and will always remember him as a true friend

Wayne Zaleta

January 23, 2017

Dear Joan and sons, we will all miss seeing Tom at the marina or out on the water fishing with the boys.

Bill Buedinger

January 23, 2017

Tom, Tim and to all the Csizmadia family I am sorry to hear of your loss.

January 23, 2017

I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. Please find peace and comfort in Psalms 119:76.

Gerry Stopa

January 23, 2017

I am sorry to hear that Tom has passed my thoughts and prayers are with the family

The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home

January 24, 2017

Offering our deepest condolences during this time.

Janet Wallace

January 23, 2017

Joan & Family,
I am so very sorry for Tom's passing. He really was a great friend to me and it was such a pleasure to work with him.
My thoughts are with you all.

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Sent Flowers

January 23, 2017

Dear Joan & Family,
I thoughts and prayers are with you all, there are no words to say how sorry we are for your loss. Linda & Dan DiPietro & Family

betty godlewski

January 23, 2017

My dearest Joanie and family...
Believe me, no one understands more than I do...
Love you all,
Aunt Betty

Judi Back

January 23, 2017

Dear Joan,

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Tom was a gentle, kind, amazing man ~~who had a sparkle in his eyes that showed how much he loved you and his family!
A true angel~~
Hugs and love,

Judi

January 23, 2017

Joan and family:Sorry to hear about your loss.Tom was a very good friend of mine and I'm going to miss him also,we worked together for all those years in the FD and we grew up together.May God rest his soul and he sleep in HEAVEN.
Joe S
Florida

Donna Linnen

January 23, 2017

My deepest sympathies to your family Joan; may God comfort you at this time. Hold dear all the memories; love to all.
Donna

January 23, 2017

What a wondweful guy and co worker. Tommy you will be greatly missed and I was honored to know and work with you.
Rest my friend.

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