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Louise Calderone
September 29, 2025
I always had a better day when Patty came into my office. I am so sad to hear this news. My thoughts and prayers to Doug and their daughters and family.
Christine Holloway
September 27, 2025
One did not need to know Patty well to see how creative, generous, and fun-loving she was. My deepest condolences go out to the Wallace family.
Mike Peddle
September 27, 2025
I am deeply saddened to hear of Patty's passing. She was a true light in my and other people's lives. I am grateful that she was a part of my life at NIU. May fond memories keep her alive in your hearts.
Megan St Peters
September 26, 2025
Your family is precious - Patty was such a ray of sunshine!! I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray the love of your family and friends carry you through this time of sorrow..
Melanie Voll
September 24, 2025
My heart aches learning of her passing. I have so many wonderful memories of her and our shared days as Cooker servers. Her wit unmatched and her laughter infectious. When she invited me around her grad school friends, I felt like I had the best big sister ever! My favorite memory might be the trip to Chicago with 30+ grad students who didn't belong in a hotel that nice! My sincere condolences to Doug and her children.
Peggy LeMieux
September 24, 2025
I´m so sorry. Patty and Doug led a group of kids (including my daughter, Katrina) in a cooperative imaginative journey that was so interesting! I loved walking with Patty. Her warmth and good humor were so uplifting. A bright light who was so easy to feel comfortable around. Hugs to family.

Kristen Myers
September 24, 2025
I miss her beyond measure. If you didn´t love her, then you didn´t know her.
Mary Varouh
September 20, 2025
So very saddened to hear of Patty's passing.
It's been years since we worked together at the Cooker, yet I still have so many vivid memories of her humor, wit, kindness and loyalty.
Condolences to her family and those who loved her.
Mary
Leslie Miller Lang
September 20, 2025
Broken hearted to hear of Patty´s passing. We shared so many fun times in the 90´s working at Cooker. Patty was well-loved by everyone there. Funny, kind, smart; just a wonderful person. I´m so very sorry, Doug, Maeve, Maya, and Kelly.
Carly (Flaherty) Suierveld
September 19, 2025
I love that photo, ah! Her natural beauty. I always loved being around my cousin Patty, she was so kind and warm and funny. As adults we enjoyed talking psychology, and even though her knowledge was light years beyond mine, I never had to feel it while we were talking. She was likely the smartest person in the room at any given moment, and also the kindest. I have a very special memory of her babysitting me while I was in from Pittsburgh; I was 10. I know this because we saw The Lion King, which came out in `94. I had seen it four times. With Patty was the fourth. It was so, so nice. Beautiful person, inside and out. Blessed to be her cousin. Tons of love to Doug, Maeve, Maya, Kelly, Aunt Nanny, and everyone who loved her.
Jennifer Corbin
September 19, 2025
I got to know Patty when we were both involved in parent organizations while our kids were in middle school and high school. She was one of the kindest people I ever met. My deepest condolences to Doug and the girls, and all who loved her.
Ortega Family
September 17, 2025
Our deepest condolences to Maya and family on the passing of your mother.Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and your dad. Ortega Family
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