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Ernest Scheyhing Obituary

Jan. 6, 1938 - March 11, 2022 Ernest Richard Scheyhing (Ernie) was born on Sherlock Holmes' birthday in Springfield, Massachusetts to Eugenie (Schnell) Scheyhing and Ernst Heinrich Scheyhing. He died on March 11 from kidney failure. Ernie had one sister, Ruth, eight years older than he. Despite their age gap, they were very close, both sharing a love for readingespecially mysteries. Ernie graduated from Springfield's Technical High School at the age of 16 and entered Yale on a full scholarship. He received his undergraduate, Master's and Doctorate degrees in engineering from Yale. While a graduate student, Ernie married his first wife, Sue Crowder. They moved to California where Ernie joined The Aerospace Corporation in 1965 as a structural engineer, devoting much of his career to the development of space launch vehicles. With Sue, Ernie had two children, a son Curt (an engineer) and a daughter Susan (a teacher and librarian). They were married for 12 years and remained steadfast partners in parenting. Ten years after Sue and Ernie were divorced, he met Terry Ferguson at an Aerospace Christmas party. Sounds corny, but it was love at first sight, and eight months later, they were married. Six years after that, Ernie and Terry welcomed a child now Ryan (a clinical researcher/data manager). Ernie and Terry would have celebrated 40 years of marriage this August. Ernie reluctantly retired at the age of 75, just shy of his 50 year anniversary at Aerospace Corporation. He was plagued with serious health issues for many years but maintained his sense of humor, his love of nature, travel, and classical music, his passion for a good whodunnit, and his (slight) obsession with the nature of coincidences. Ernie was a devoted and loving husband, father, and grandfather (Opa). Ernie is survived by his wife, Terry, his sons Curt (Kelly) and Ryan (Veronica), and his daughter Susan Gordon (Wayne). He is also survived by four grandchildren, Matthew and Emily Gordon, and Elizabeth and Kimberly Scheyhing; two sisters-in-law (Patti Preston and Janet Ferguson); cousins Helga Buckley and Inge Fleischer; nieces Diane Christensen and Debbie Christensen; nephews Don Jr and Andrew Christensen, and brother-in-law Don (Sr) Christensen. Ernie loved all animals, wild and domestic, and had a special soft spot for dogs. His boyhood dream of having a canine companion was realized when he welcomed two abandoned dogs into the family. First, Sam and then Sweetie. More recently, he became Opa to his neighbors' dogs who were frequent visitors in his home (you know who you are, Toby and Diego)! Honoring Ernie's wishes, there will be no funeral service. Donations in his memory may be made to Engineers Without Borders.

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Published by Daily Breeze on Mar. 16, 2022.

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Terry

March 10, 2025

Tomorrow will be three years since I lost you. I miss you so much, my love.

Terry

February 27, 2024

It's been almost two years. I miss you so much, sweetheart.

Len Winner

May 29, 2022

All my sympathy to Terry and family.
Ernie and I played handball for years and both worked for Aerospace.
Ernie was always good humored, gentlemanly and bright. He soldiered on playing despite periodic back problems.
I was very saddened to learn of his passing in the company newspaper.

Dwight Abbott

March 26, 2022

I had the pleasure of working with Ernie at Aerospace Corporation for many years. Ernie was a diligent worker that was everyone´s friend. His sense of humor, friendly manner and professional abilities were widely recognized. A friend that will not be forgotten.

Susan E Cutler, PhD

March 18, 2022

Our sincere condolences to you all. Keeping you in our hearts.

Inge & Dave Fleisher

March 17, 2022

In loving memory of Ernie.

Penny Urell

March 16, 2022

A beautiful tribute. May he rest in peace.

Lisa (Gordon) Bajorek

March 16, 2022

My thoughts are with the entire family on this day. I am so very sorry for the loss you are all feeling, but know that Ernie is at peace and a very proud husband, father, and grandfather. His light shines on all now and forever.

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