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for Frances Valensi
Nancy Cody
August 4, 2019
I miss you dear friend and coworker. You are thought of so often and won't ever be forgotten. Thank you for the imprint you've made in this world and in our lives. Prayers for you always.
Nancy
Phyllis Sondergaard
August 12, 2013
There isn't a day that goes by without you in my thoughts. I know you are watching over your children and smiling down on them because you're as proud of them today as you were when you were here. See you when I get there. Keep watching over all of us. Love and miss you! xo
Elizbeth Carroll
August 21, 2012
Terribly sadden to hear of Fran's passing. Fran was a colleague, true to her profession, kind to all who knew her, upbeat and eager to learn more. My prayers to her family whom she loved to talk about and share their accomplishments, a proud mum. So sorry for your loss.
Alan Chien
August 15, 2012
Deepest condolences.Mourn deeply but use Fran's gifts to guide you through these tragic times. She will be there for you!
Gay Griffith
August 15, 2012
To Hannah and the entire Valensi family,
Please accept our sincerest condolences. May your family be spared further sorrow.
Gay Griffith and family.
August 14, 2012
Dear Leah, Jessica, Jacob, Hannah and Family,
Thinking of all of you at this sad time.
My deepest condolences,
Mrs. Seinberg-Hughes
GES
August 14, 2012
Dear Valensi Family,
There are no words to explain how much Fran will be missed. You all know what an AWESOME person she was and will continue to be in your hearts forever. The moment you met Fran you knew you were going to have to keep up with her and we all tried our best.
You are in our thoughts and prayers everyday. May all of the wonderful memories you have help you through this difficult time.
We are so very sorry for your loss.
The Mullally Family
Jennifer Bernard-Jones
August 13, 2012
Jessie and Family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. You have quite an angel watching over you now.
Our deepest condolences,
Jennifer and Chris Jones
Lisa Gally
August 13, 2012
I am so sorry to hear about Fran's passing. She was a wonderful daughter, sister, wife and mother. Her children were her pride and joy. She loved you all with all her heart. I've worked with Fran since you all moved up from LI. I will miss her!
August 13, 2012
Dear Jessica and Family,
I and my family's thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time.
Bill Vititow
August 13, 2012
Dear Jake and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Jake, please let me know if there is anything you need from me. My new room is 108.
Mrs. Watson
Claudia Stone
August 13, 2012
Dear Jessie and Family,
My deepest sympathies and prayers of comfort and peace are wih you all at this time. I am so sorry for your loss.
Peace and blessings,
Mrs. Claudia Stone
Colleen Mickle
August 13, 2012
Dear Valensi Family,
You were so blessed to have such a loving and kind hearted mother. She was so proud of each of you. May your love for each other, that she nurtured, be your support through this very difficult time.
With deepest sympathy and love,
Colleen Mickle
Patricia Gagnon
August 12, 2012
Hannah,
I am so very sad for you and your family and hope that you will find comfort in your cherished memories of your mother. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers for strength and healing during this time and always.
Love,
Mrs. Gagnon
The Morelli Family
August 11, 2012
The Morelli family is deeply saddened with word of Fran's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family during this difficult time.
Beth Plue
August 11, 2012
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I first met Fran during our training for Guilderland Pop Warner, and everytime I saw Fran after that I was greeted with a big smile. She was always outgoing and a wonderful mother and friend. She will be truly missed. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Janet and Jenna
August 11, 2012
Thoughts and prayers for your loss Valensi family ... keep those happy memories.
We will miss your smile Fran and how you lit the room. Rest in peace.
Dollard Family
August 11, 2012
Dear Valensi Family,
We are so sorry to hear of Fran's passing. We'll miss seeing her at the various school and sporting events she would always attend. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
August 11, 2012
Dear Valensi Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. May you find peace and comfort in happy memories.
Tessa Buckey and Family
Melanie Rippon
August 11, 2012
To the Valensi Family:
I was very saddened to hear of your loss. I did not work with Fran directly, but whenever we would see each other at SPH she would say hi and ask me how I was doing. She was one of a kind, and will be sorely missed.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family in this difficult time.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Lisa Elovich
August 10, 2012
Rest in peace Fran. You were an amazing person back in grade school and that same drive has followed you through the years. You will be missed by so many of your old Long Beach friends. My love and prayers are with your family.
August 10, 2012
To the Valensi Family,
With deepest sympathy to all of you. Thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Matthew Bruno and Family
Kim Lawler
August 10, 2012
Dear Valensi family,
I'm so sorry for your loss, she was a great person, I'm lucky enough to have known her. I remember when I first met her and her loving family. Hard to believe she is gone I'm so shocked.. My love goes out to you all.. Danny, patti, Leah, Jessie,jake,and hanna.
Love "your hairdresser" Kim
Molly Clancy
August 10, 2012
Two cups of coffee in hand, and a Princess Bride quote on the way out the door Fran was prepared to take on the world. “Have fun storming the castle. Think it'll work? It would take a miracle.” Miracles were common on my days spent in the Valensi house with Fran leading everyone with her energy, humor, and patience. She was an amazing mother and any one who spent time with Fran surely knew the newest accomplishments of her four children. She was their number one cheerleader and supporter through sports tryouts, music lessons, play auditions, dance recitals, Hebrew school… the list goes on and on. I fondly remember my first experiences of Jewish holidays, lazy movie days and hours of playing Super Nintendo all with Fran cheering us on and welcoming us as family into her home. Dan, Leah, Jessie, Jake, Hannah, Sherry, Patty, and Faith, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I will remember Fran most for her spirit. She took on the world for her family and friends and will continue to shine down on us all.
With love,
Molly Clancy
August 10, 2012
To Dan, Leah, Jess, Jake, Hannah, Sherry, and Aunt Patti
I have so many memories with Fran, it's hard to pick a favorite. I barely remember the first year you moved here, other than Fran and Sherry towering over my preschool self, asking if I would like to stay and play with Jessie and Jake. I never knew accepting that one play date would turn into a timeline of memories from my childhood with the people I now call my second family. As a fifth grader, I spent my early mornings before school with Fran, and whoever else was up for the challenge of getting the very young and stubborn Hannah Banana to bush her hair. In middle school I took drives with Fran, Jess, and Hannah to numerous dance recitals. In-between the few numbers that Fran wasn't helping the girls with makeup and costumes, I got to sit in the audience with her and talk. My favorite part of getting to sit with her was watching her face light up as she saw Jessie or Hannah walk on stage. She was so proud of you guys, and the love she had seeing you both up there was unimaginably infectious. My last memory of my time with Fran was a little over two months ago, one of the few times I ran through the door looking for someone other than the kids. Now in my last year of high school as I start to plan for my future, and a job in the hospital world, I went to Fran. It was there on her bed, she told me, I just had to push through and not worry about the small things, with time, energy and confidence I would get there. Family dinners at your house also hold some of my favorite memories. No matter what time of the day I ran through your door, dinner was the one time I could count on seeing all of you together. Somehow just like the recitals I had the luck of sitting right near Fran. Again, as you guys talked, and Dan and Leah told funny jokes, I saw the unimaginable infectious love she had for all of you. I cannot even begin to express how sorry I am for your loss.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
With all my love,
Caitlin Clancy
always with a smile
nancy
August 10, 2012
thanks for the memories
nancy
August 10, 2012
August 10, 2012
Dear Valensi Family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss..Fran was not just my boss, but my mentor. I am a better person for having known her..She spoke of her family often . It was obvious how much love she had for all of you and how proud she was of all of you.. The world lost an amazing person. May your faith be of comfort to you in the coming days and months ahead.
With Sympathy,
Dawn Baumann
Nancy Cody
August 10, 2012
To the Valensi family and to Sherri,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. I am shocked and saddened to learn of Fran's passing. So young, so full of life, so full of vigor and zest. Whether it be tackling the most difficult of work issues, or keeping up with the children and their activities, Fran portrayed a dedication not matched by many.
I remember first meeting Fran. We formed our bond upon learning that she was a Long Island girl and I was a Brooklyn girl, both transplanted to the Capital Region. Fran and I worked on so many projects together and I always knew I could count on her for her knowledge, her expertise, her dedication and insight, her willingness to share, and her ability to see the whole picture. Always with a smile, always with a laugh and chuckle.
Rest peacefully dear friend and know that you were loved and cherished by so many in your time at St. Peter's. Your loss will be felt for many years to come. I carry with me the memories of our many times working together and especially those regarding Mede.
To Sherri and Danny and Fran's children and family...if there is anything I can do, don't hesitate to call upon me.
Nancy Cody
Markellos'
August 10, 2012
Dear Valensi family,
We are so very sorry and shocked beyond words for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Leah, you are welcome at our home anytime. Don't hesitate.
With Sympathy,
Chris, Kim, Ashley and Katie
Paula Walters
August 10, 2012
Dearest Hannah and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Though I knew your Mom briefly, whenever we talked, she was always so proud of you, and your brothers and sisters. She was such a devoted mother and loving woman. May God bless you and your family, and help you carry your Mom's spirit in your heart always.
Love and Prayers,
Mrs. Walters
Angelina Cox
August 10, 2012
To the Valensi Family I was sadden to hear of the loss of your wife and mother. Your mother really cherished her children and I loved how she cheered you on in all that you accomplished. I remember sharing moments when we were at the High School when our children were in the play Hairspray. We were so proud of how you grew to be talented young women and was looking forward to the future. I was heart broken and will miss your mom smile. I hope and pray that the Lord will comfort your hearts and wrap you with His love and strength. I also, hope that her memory will comfort you and bring a smile when you look back in rememberance. Our Family will keep your family in prayer.
With all our Love,
Angelina, Warren and Angelina
Mark Kepner
August 10, 2012
Danny, Leah, Jessie, Jake, Hannah, Sherry, Patty, Faith, and all Fran's family and friends:
It was my deepest honor to call Fran my friend, mentor and boss for many years at St. Peter's. I am devastated by her passing albeit for her ultimate peace. She was a wonderful person and I can never thank her for all that she did for me over the years... She was so proud of each and everyone of you! I loved hearing the stories every day of what had happened the prior day with all the kids! My heart breaks for all of you! If there is anything I can do please do not hesitate to call me. I know that I am a better person for having the privilege of knowing and being guided by Fran over the years. God bless you and Keep you in the months and years to come!
Love
Mark
Jo-Ann Charland
August 10, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with the family,i remember fran always smiling, It was a pleasure being with you as part of the SPH family
August 10, 2012
To Fran's dearest family, Please accept my condolences. I am unable to attend the funeral as I am on retreat. I will pray that you will be given the strength and courage that you need. We will have a Memorial service for fran in September.
God Blee and guide you.
Sister mavis jewell
Alexis Bell
August 10, 2012
Fran you will be truley missed!!!!
Sandee & Rob Piculell
August 10, 2012
Words cannot possibly express our sorrow. Our hearts are with all of you in your grief. We hope that the outpouring of love and wonderful memories shared by all who knew Fran will bring you comfort. We will never forget her warmth, humor, energy and generosity.
Joyce & Amya Sutton
August 10, 2012
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Joyce Sutton
August 10, 2012
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Gail & Lynne
August 10, 2012
At this time of terrible tragedy a TRUE ANGEL has emerged. She will be missed every day but Fran will forever watch over and guide her family .
Karen Junco
August 10, 2012
I only met Fran a brief time ago when our daughters were cheering for Lil Danes. Being the "new kid on the block", Fran welcomed me with open arms. She was always smiling and ALWAYS talking about her children and their accomplishments. A true Mother in every sense of the word.
My sincere condolences to the family.
Logan Hoffman
August 10, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Alex Francis
August 10, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Cathy Pallozzi
August 10, 2012
To the Valensi Family:
Fran was passionate about her career in Patient Access - please know the Northeast NAHAM Region were blessed to have Fran as a colleague and a friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cathy Pallozzi on behalf of the Northeast NAHAM Conference Committee and Region.
David & Maura Clancy
August 10, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. We have so many fond memories to look back on, so many good times we shared. We will always treasure the time we spent with Fran at family gatherings, New Year's Eve parties, school plays and driveway chats.
Our love to all of you,
Maura & Dave
August 10, 2012
To the Valensi Family,
With deepest sympathy to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficulty time. I enjoyed working with Fran and she will be deeply missed.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Chris Fagan, Secretary
Business Office-St. Peter's Hospital
Pamela Colello
August 10, 2012
You have gone too soon Fran.. In the 7 mos. I have known you, you were all your obit says and more. You were so kind and so appreciated me everyday and told me so, everyday! I will miss you Fran, may you forever RIP. Pam
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