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Chelsea Dertz
February 18, 2007
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Richardson and Patrick,
I realized the other day that I have known Alex since we were three years old. We didn’t become friends until we rode the bus together, but it’s weird to think back and realize I’ve known him almost my entire life. When my dad passed away Alex became more than a friend, but a like brother to me. He watched out for me, and sometimes I didn’t even know it. Recently I found out that when my boyfriend and I started dating Alex told him that he better not hurt me. Those few words brought me to tears. Like the song ‘A Good Man’ says, to me he was always a “brother, neighbor and a friend. He was a good man.” He is loved and missed by all.
Mary Dertz
February 11, 2007
Dear Pat, Carol and Patrick,
I know the pain is unbearable. I promise you that one day, you will be able to remember Alex with a smile, not just tears. What an incredibly talented, handsome, funny, well loved young man he was! It breaks my heart to know the unbelievable sadness you are going through. I am so grateful to you for being there for us after Mike's passing. Please let us be there for you: no matter what you need. Alex will always be in our hearts, as will you. Remember, you have a whole town that loves you and will never forget your wonderful son.
Kevin Reynolds
February 6, 2007
Alex, you will always be the man i looked up to. On the football field, i wanted to be like you, tough and not taking anything from nobody. I saw you as a role model for myself. I will always remember you A Rich, you are a part of me, and part of who i am as a person. This entire season is for you bro!
1-21-2007 ALWAYS
#34 FOR LIFE
I LOVE YOU MAN AND ALWAYS WILL
Casey Morgan
February 5, 2007
Not only was Alex a great friend of mine but he was a star athlete, an amazing boyfriend, an incredible son, and an all around special person. We miss you so much AJR. It's not the same down here without you.
Prayers to the Richardson family.
I miss you bossy boy. See you soon.
Love-Case Moe
The Sanchez Family
February 5, 2007
Dear Richardson family,
Though I've never officially met Alex, I think of him often as I do your family. My son Brandon knew Alex and told me that he was always a nice guy, very funny and a great football player. He also said he was the one in the weight room always encouraging the players to work harder and to do their best. My husband and I recall the often announced "#34, Alex Richardson" at the Varsity FB games!
Just reading the all these entries tells us so much about a young man who has touched many lives.
May every one of these wonderful memories and thoughts bring peace to your family.
How very proud you must be of him!
God be with you.
Cindy Gibson
January 30, 2007
Pat, Carol and Patrick
My heart was saddened to hear of Alex John's passing. At this time let the words of family and friends help compfort you and keep each other close in your heart. My prayers are with all of you and may memories bring you joy and peace in the days to come. I think of you all often although we are miles away.
KATHY JACOBO
January 28, 2007
OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.WE ARE SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.
Kathy Jacobo
January 28, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you and your family even though I don't know you guys. I lost my only sibling and I know how it feels.My sons teacher Ms.Sutton her daughter is dating your other son. Just try to hang in there and if you ever need anything you can email me. May god be with you at your times of sorrow.
Edie Wendricks
January 26, 2007
Dear Richardson family,
My son is Derek Kaye who played on Alex's football team.I am sure we have seen each other in the bleacher, but have never really met. I can not begin to understand the pain and sorrow you must feel.This sadness has touched the entire community.Know that if you need anything, there are hundreds of people wanting to help. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Alex will never be forgotten.
Tony and Lisa Morgan
January 26, 2007
Dear Carol, Pat and Patrick,
Words can not express our sorrow for your family! I know we will always remember Alex and that great happy smile! You are in our thoughts and prayers!
Tony and Lisa
Matt Mike and Jacob Morgan
Ray, Ronda, Raymond and Lindsey Allen
January 26, 2007
Richardson Family,
Our hearts go out to you and your family. Although we cannot imagine your loss, we will pray and wish for your strength. May God be looking over you all.
January 26, 2007
Dear Richardson Family,
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with your family and for Alex. God bless you.
Anonomous
annonymus
January 26, 2007
Richardson Family,
My son was one of Alex's many friends from school. After reading all of these wonderful tributes to Alex, it became very clear to me, how blessed he was to have you all for his family. Without you he could not have touched so many lives in such a positive way. He carried many pieces of each of you within himself. What a gift he had for making people laugh. Many other lives are a little brighter because of Alex.
Alex's life was also blessed in a very special way. His entire life was about having fun and doing what he loved. Spending time with friends and family, playing sports, being adventurous, but mostly living his life to the fullest. Not many of us are able to accomplish this even with the gift of time.
Without a doubt, it is not fair that Alex was taken from you far too soon, but is is also obvious that he made a difference in this world for the better.
I can not begin to tell you how deeply saddened I am about Alex's passing. I only hope that you will find some comfort in knowing that you are in my heart, thoughts and most of all prayers. I pray that one day soon your sorrow will not be so heavy and that you will find happiness and peace once again.
May you find the strength and comfort from our community during this difficult time.
Krista Zeffield
January 26, 2007
Alex, I never had the chance to tell you how truly amazing i thought you were! You were always there for me and always knew how to make me smile. Everything from you're adorable smile to you're big heart will be missed. I love and miss you so much! You're forever in my heart. #34 R.I.P
Steve Frusolone
January 26, 2007
Richardson Family,
As everyone else has expressed, our hearts and prayers go out to you. Your strength last night was an inspiration to all of us. May additional strength come to you through the outpouring of support in our wonderful community. God Bless All of You.
Bob Gurchak
January 26, 2007
Dear Richardson Family,
While I didn't know Alex that well, I will always remember his smile and his larger-than-life personality. Your family will be in the thoughts and prayers of my family and I.
Respectfully,
Coach Gurchak & Family (Bob, Cindy, Jon, Ben and Jessica)
anonymous
January 26, 2007
To the Richardson Family,
We were heartbroken to hear about Alex's tragic Passing.
Please know that our family is praying for Alex and you.
Brian Katona
January 26, 2007
To The Richardson Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. Although we can't even imagine what you must be going through, you have the support of the entire community. From reading and hearing the comments of others around town your family should feel so proud of the impact that Alex had on so many people at such a young age. He truly touched so many lives and will be deeply missed. We are so sorry for your loss. The Katona Family. Brian, Laura, Katy, Michael
Rhonnie Bogenschutz
January 26, 2007
Carol and Family - No one can express the sadness we all feel. In time, the pain will ease some and the wonderful memories will live on forever. May you all find peace and comfort together.
Dena Hein
January 26, 2007
No words can fully express how deeply sorry we are for your loss. You are in our thougths and prayers.
Sincerely, Chris, Dena, Scott and Kevin Hein
Sally Busse
January 26, 2007
Dear Carol, Pat and Patrick,
The pictures show the smiles, the laughter, the energy, the love that Alex gave and received. We are so sorry for your loss.
January 26, 2007
The Richardson's
My son was one of Alex's many friends from school. After reading all these wonderful tributes about Alex, I could not help but think how blessed he was to have you as his family. Without the three of you in his life, he would not have been able to touch so many other people, in such a positive way. He carried many pieces of each of you within him. What a wonderful gift he had to be able to make so many people laugh. Many lives have been made brighter because of Alex and that must make you very proud of him.
Alex's life was also blessed in a special way, because his entire life was about having fun and doing what he loved. Spending time with friends and family, sports and being adventurous, Not many of us can say that. Without a doubt, it is not fair that Alex was taken from you far too soon, but it is obvious that he made a difference. He made this world a better place.
I can not begin to tell you how deeply saddened I am for your loss. I hope that you can find some comfort in knowing that each of you are in my heart, thoughts and most of all prayers. I pray that one day soon your sorrow will not be as heavy and that you will once again find happiness and peace
Kyle Shanahan
January 25, 2007
Alex, you made little league an enjoyable experience. Bases loaded and your calling for a hit batter. I will never be able to play baseball without thinking about you catching for me. I will miss you but never forget you.
Pat and Carol,
Our deepest condolences during this tragic time. Find comfort in knowing he is with you always.
sharon krue
January 25, 2007
To the Richardson Family,
My daughter is a student at middle school south, I just learned of your loss today. I in no way know what you are going thru. Although my parents lost my brother when he was 23, it has been 21 years, I was only 20. I do know how hard it was for my parents. I did not know your son, but I can somewhat understand your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you, as my prayers for your son.
Scott, Sharon & Taylor Krue
Shannon Masini
January 25, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. Words can't express the sorrow and heartache that is felt for your loss. After reading all of the wonderful memories that others have with Alex, I believe that his legacy will live on through people he has touched. Please know that you have hundreds of people who are praying for your family.
Ronald Paglia
January 25, 2007
Dear Mr. and Mrs Richardson,
My son Mitchell Paglia played with Alex this past season. All of the tributes are WONDERFUL! However there is one thing that I have not seen addressed. You see my father passed in 1978. As I made my way to the hospital floor to say good bye I ran into the Priest that gave my father Last Rites. I said "Father what now"? He said " Son pray to your father". You see Mr. and Mrs Richardson Alex has GODS ear! Please Pray to Alex. He will help your Family get through this very hard time that you, and yours are going through. God Bless, and our families prayers are with All of You
Love The Paglia Family,
Pam, Ron, and Mitchell
Rich, MaryPat, Laura and Alex
January 25, 2007
Alex,
no mater how each of us remember you whether as a son, grandson, brother, nephew, cousin, friend, boyfriend, classmate, teammate, player, or student. We will always remember you flying around the bases or down the football field like the wind. You were amazing to watch fly. Although we wish you were still here with your feet on the ground we know you're in a better place flying in a different way now. You were here for only a short time, but we will think of you and miss you for a lifetime...remembering who you were and wondering who you might have become. Our minds will think of you and our hearts will ache for you lovingly and often.
Love,
Rich, MaryPat, Laura and Alex Rosenkrantz
January 25, 2007
Pat, Carol and Patrick,
Words can not adequately express our sorrow for you, just know we are praying for Alex and you entire family.
Michelle Vazquez
January 25, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Niel and Carol Cloe
January 25, 2007
To the Richardson Family,
We did not have the pleasure of knowing your son Alex, but our granddaughter spoke so very highly of Alex.
May it comfort you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.
Michele Richardson
January 25, 2007
Uncle Pat, Aunt Carol, and Patrick,
I cannot say in words anything that will ease the weight of this experience on your hearts. Please know that when I think of Alex he is smiling brightly and I know his time here was blessed. You are all in my thoughts.
Catie Bakota
January 25, 2007
Alex was truely an amazing person. He made the huggest impact on this school when he left us. we'll never forget you. you'll always be in our hearts and prayers. Your never going to be forgotten, we have a rememberance of you everyday whether it be walking by your locker or just having a certain class. Most important i'll miss having you has my friend you we're always there to give advice and comfort anyone.
My prayers go out to the Richardson family.
Rest in Peace Alex.
We miss you & love you.
Lori Neely
January 25, 2007
Pat, Carol, and Patrick,
Though our family did not know Alex well, our hearts and thoughts are with you during this difficult time. "May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief."
We are sorry for your loss,
Lori, Greg, Cameron, and Carson Neely
Laura Gonzalez
January 25, 2007
Carol & Family,
My heart bleeds for the pain you will have to endure. I could not be more sorry for your loss. Stay strong & find strength in the memories.
(old student)
January 25, 2007
ALEX - YOU ARE A GREAT FRIEND, SOMEONE WHO WOULD MAKE EVERYONE LAUGH WITH ALL YOUR SILLY WAYS AND YOUR BRIGHT SMILE. YOU WILL TRULY BE MISSED FOREVER AND ALWAYS. MAY GOD KEEP YOU IN HIS CARE - UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN MY FRIEND.
Laura Rosenkrantz
January 24, 2007
To The Richardson family,
Alex was a friend of mine who has left me with so many wonderful memories that i will never be able to forget.He was truly an amazingly gifted, talented, driven, humorous kid that everyone knew and loved. We could always count on Alex to give us a laugh or two. He will always be remembered but never ever forgotten. I'll miss him always. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. -rest in everlasting peace alex-
Laura Rosenkrantz
Parker Brown
January 24, 2007
I am deeply saddened that I did not get a chance to formally be friends with Alex. I would see him in the hallways everday between periods and his smile would bring up the day for me. He was a prime example of a friend and athleticism at GCHS. Best wishes to the family and friends who lost one of Grayslake's best.
Amanda Richardson
January 24, 2007
Alex's unexpected passing has left me in a state of shock. He was taken before his time but has left his mark in our families hearts. Uncle Pat, Aunt Carol, and Patrick...I hope you will find strength in each other and that we all are reminded that tomorrow is never promised. Our fond memories of Alex will bring us peace until we see him again.
Leyna Squillaci
January 24, 2007
I met Alex last year, when we took chemisty together. Although I did not know him that well, he was always someone who made me laugh during class. He will be truly missed. Rest in Peace Alex.
Kelly Schmidt
January 24, 2007
Pat, Carol & Patrick,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this painful time. Alex was a spirited and passionate boy with many friends in the community, including our sons. He has left a footprint in all our lives and will be sorely missed.
The Schmidt Family,
Kurt, Kelly, Matt & Kurt
Anonymous
January 24, 2007
I did not know Alex, but he was a friend of one of my best friends. I am so sorry for your loss, I lost a two friends of mine last year, Tommy to cancer, and Ryan in a tragic car accident. You're in my thoughts and prayers, he'll truly be missed.
Bobby Traske
January 24, 2007
Alex we miss you man, not a moment goes by when we football guys dont think about ya, its hard without you around man. You were one of a kind, you were a great football player and we miss you so much, to us you were a mentor, a teammate, and most of all a friend. No other words can describe how we feel and how much we miss you. Hopefully we will meet again someday, untill then man. Next football season is for you though and everytime we put on our pads, everytime we have practice, and especially every time we step out on that field every friday night and touch a football, it is gonna be for you, we wont let you down. So long man
Traske
Leyna Squillaci
January 24, 2007
I met Alex last year when we had Chemistry Class together. He always had everyone laughing. He will truly be missed by everyone. Rest in Peace Alex.
To his Family: my thoughts and prayers are with you in this tough time.
Matt Zich
January 24, 2007
To the Richardson family,
My family and I are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. The memories that Alex has left me with will never be forgotten. During our kindergarden days, when he claimed himself to be Alexpickleson Upsidedown was the begining of fun times ahead. He will be remembered forever!
Alex, words can't explain what we feel for you. Think about you all the time. Hope we meet again one day! Rest In Peace!
Matt
Kimberly Harmon
January 24, 2007
I am so very sorry and saddened to hear of the loss of Alex. My son Blake was a close friend of Patrick in grade school and fondly remembered sleepovers at your home, and of course, little brother Alex. Alex emailed his best wishes to Blake when he was in a coma and it meant so much to us. Blake told me Alex was really a great kid. My heart breaks for you. Your family is my thoughts and prayers.
Kimberly Harmon
Allison Kickhofel
January 24, 2007
Uncle Pat, Aunt Carol, and Patrick,
Words cannot express our feelings of loss and sadness when we think of Alex. I truly wish I could be there with you during these hard momments. My heart is with you.
To Alex, someone I wish I could have spent more time with, you will always be in my heart. I love you.
Ron Garbett
January 24, 2007
Alex,
your smile could be seen blocks away. I always knew it was you when I
would come down a street with my son.
You had your troubles and you had your fun. I am just deeply hurt that
I will not be able to see the god given talent run. I hope to see you
in the next life and watch you play for them up there. But until then
you will live in our hearts and souls down here.You were one kid I always liked to
see, the smile,the bright eyes,the undeniable smirky grin.
Do well in your next place Go ALEX Go.
Pat and Carol,
our hearts and shoulders are there for you only say the words and we
all will be there.
In Loving Memory #34 must we never forget.
Coach Garbett
Ryan Williams
January 24, 2007
Alex was a wonderful person to us all.
Go ahead and cry and get angry at God for his doing,
Alex was just another teenage boy trying to live an adventurous life.
We all know that parents aren't supposed to bury their children, but we are supposed to bury our parents.
Why did Alex have to leave us, I mean we will all one day rejoice with him in heaven, but why did God have to take one of our friends now and cut his life so short.
Everyday gone by we will miss him even more,
But we know that he is in a better place soaring free with God.
There will be no more pain in his life now, and he will live eternally in the heavens.
And during these times of loosing a loved one, we should all just be together and pray for him.
But if there was one thing Alex's would've wanted for us, that would be just to go on with our lives, and he wants us all to know that he will always be with us... in spirit.
ALEX, YOU WERE A GREAT PERSON, GREAT FRIEND, AND YOU WERE LOVED BY US ALL...WE WILL NEVER FORGET YOU.
R.I.P BUDDY.
Bonnie and George Hellickson
January 24, 2007
We only knew your son through our godson, but his smile and energy was apparent to everyone. May you live with the joy of having him in your lives. God bless you all.
Kelly North
January 24, 2007
Alex was an amazing person with amazing character, he was very friendly and tried to make friends with everyone. He was a star athlete and a hardworker. He always knew how to make me laugh and had a goal to make people happy. He will forever be in my heart as well as everyone elses, we miss you alex and will always keep you in our thoughts and prayers
Holly
January 24, 2007
Sadly I did not know Alex but my nephew went to school with him. My son, Eric, was 18 when he died in a car accident and I know of the pain that your family will have to deal with. My surviving son and I talk about Eric a lot, keeping him close in our hearts. Your love for Alex will never end and I hope you will feel him close to you. Please know that others will remember Alex and be thinking of you during this difficult time.
Jo & Paul Stahoviak
January 24, 2007
Pat, Carol and Patrick,
At this very difficult time, may you draw comfort from cherished memories that will live on forever in your hearts and the caring and compassion of family and friends who are hear for you now. We will be saying a prayer for your family.
Our Deepest Sympathy
January 24, 2007
No bond is greater than between parent and child. I did not know Alex or the family, I just wanted to let you know I am so sorry about your loss. May you find comfort in your memories and find the strength to make it through a very difficult and painful time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Christina Wickersheim
January 24, 2007
Pat and Carol:
I am sorry to hear about your loss. While I did not know your son directly, I have learned much about him over the years. My younger cousin was a friend and I cannot tell you how sorry I am about your loss. He had unbelievable potential and will carry on with his strength and pride. You have a community that loves you and will do what they can to support you during this time. Again my deepest sympathies and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Toni Hannemann
January 24, 2007
Its always been Human Nature for a Son or Daughter to burry their parents one day. But for The Richardsons it was a different story. Alex was an AMAZING person. I have so many memories. He cared about everyone. His passion for football was amazing. He will be greatly missed and never forgotten.
Ilove you so much AJR
#34 forever & Always
05/04/90 - 01/21/07
A day well all never forget.
loveyou Alex John Richardson
Toni Hannemann
<3
Eddie Hernandez
January 24, 2007
YO alex how you doin up there? i hope you're doin well. i know we've had our diffrences in the past but im glad we got over it. you were a great kid and always had a big smile. everytime i needed you, you were there. i feel so bad that when you were in trouble i wasnt there. All our good times during winter break were awsome. i only wish we could have don it for many years to come... we all miss you alex may you rest in peace...watch over us during footbal...love you bro
Marko Matic
January 24, 2007
Alex you were one crazy kid and the one of the best kids i meet when i moved to grayslake. You were one of my first friends here and i'll never forget you dude. You always made everyone smile. I'll miss you.
Amber Benko
January 24, 2007
Alex was an amazing guy who did nothing but helped many people with their problems. He loved the game of football and football loved him. Its going to be hard to see such an amazing guy leave us all. I love you so much AJR.
R.I.P FOREVER & EVER.
January 21, 2007.
<3 Amber
Julie & Mike, Zack & Dirk Wagner
January 24, 2007
Such a tragic loss. May you find peace in the arms of the Lord and comfort in the memories of Alex. We will remember Alex's wonderful smile & personality from our days at the Colts. God be with your family during this very sad time.
The Wagner Family
Michael Mitchell
January 24, 2007
My thoughts and prayers go to Mr. and Mrs. Richardson. Alex was a great person he loved to have a good time and loved to make all of his friends laugh. Alex taught me a lot more then i ever realized. He was an idol at Grayslake High School that will never be forgotten.
We love you man..
Not goodbye, But see you soon.
January 24, 2007
There is no way to express the pain and sadness in all of us.
Alex, you are and will always be with us in thoughts, prayers, and memories. You were a good friend to our family and a special love to our daughter.
Our condolences go out to all of his Family and friends.
You will never be forgotten and will always be in our hearts.
The Gleason Family
Lisa & Ryan Roberts
January 24, 2007
Pat, Carol and Patrick,
We are so sorry for the loss of Alex. Although we didn't know Alex well, we knew him from the wonderful stories you told of him. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Our hearts go out to you.
Chris & Diana Wells
January 24, 2007
Our deepest sympathies go out to you Pat, Carol and Patrick.
May your memories comfort you and help you through this most difficult time.
God bless.
Mike Ailport
January 24, 2007
Alex was one of the crazyest kids i knew and he will be missed by every one
R.I.P AJR
Vince Herrera
January 24, 2007
This ones for you alex u loved the game of football and played every minute like it was your last. i love you man and you were a good friend and next football season is for you alex and youll always be in my heart.
Love Vince,
R.I.P ALEX #34
Stefan Falbo
January 24, 2007
alex i didnt know you well....but i new you enough..you were a great kid in school, and just in general.. you were an amazing athlete especially at football.. Alex you will be missed by everyone..
R.I.P we miss you
Stefan
Derek Kaye
January 24, 2007
Alex was a crazy, insane, invicible kid, he got away with everything and anything.. i just didnt understand, along with the rest of the town, how he didnt get out of this one..
R.I.P Alex John Richardson
We miss you and love you man <3
Stefan Falbo
January 24, 2007
alex i didnt know you well....but i new you enough..you were a great kid in school, and just in general.. you were an amazing athlete especially at football.. Alex you will be missed by everyone..
R.I.P we miss you
Renee Sparks
January 24, 2007
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. I am a Aunt of one of Alex's friends. They played football together.We will be praying for your family. We will pray for your family to find strength in the days to come.
Jeri Foster
January 24, 2007
Pat and Carol,
Words cannot express the sadness in our hearts. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.
Much love,
Jim, Jeri, Seth, Morgan, & Dylan Foster
Steve Dannenberg
January 24, 2007
My heartfelt condolences go out to the Family and friends of Alex. I had the great pleasure of being one of his coaches when he played for the Colts. He was a truly great and gifted boy and will be missed by all.
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