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CARTER KETTNER Obituary

Carter Kettner of Huntley Visitation for Carter Kettner, 6, will be from 4 to 8 p.m. Sunday, at DeFiore-Jorgensen Funeral Home, 10763 Dundee Road, Huntley. A funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Monday, at St. Mary Catholic Church, 10307 Dundee Road, Huntley, Burial will be in St. Mary Cemetery. Carter died peacefully on Wednesday, May 12, 2010. He earned his Angel Wings at home, lying in bed between his Mom and Dad. Carter loved singing, movies and riding his John Deere tractor. His thoughtfulness and appreciation towards others was unfounded. He was a perfect gentleman, and met every girl with a kiss on the lips. His illness didn't make him the boy he was; cancer was just something that happened to him. He continued to live every day, trusting his mommy and daddy. He loved his crazy brother Bowen, and he laughed though his antics, calling him a beast and a freak. He loved his hospitals, doctors and nurses, and did everything that was ever asked of him. Carter was perfection in a son. He was the meaning of HOPE. The tortoise crossed the finish line, and then spread his wings and flew up to Heaven. He is at play with his brain tumor friends, who's souls were also too strong for their bodies. Carter is survived by his loving parents, Joe and Cinnamon Kettner and his brother, Bowen, all of Huntley; and grandparents, Joe and Carol Scanio (Landa) of Melrose Park, Steve and Barbara Tyler (Poreda) of Streamwood, and Jim and Joan Kettner (Moskal) of Matteson. He is also survived by his aunts and uncles, Frank and Carla Scanio, Laurie Kettner, Bill Kettner and Kristine Kettner; and his cousins, Paige, Angelo, Meadow, Phoenyx, Tanis, Siena, Jordan and Jazmin. For information, phone 847-515-8772 or on line condolences may be left for the family at www.defiorejorgensen.com. Learn more about Carter and his courageous journey at www.carterkettner.org.

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Published by Daily Herald on May 14, 2010.

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Pete Berwick

September 6, 2010

Carter, you were and will always be a real man..tougher and braver than i could only dream to be.

July 27, 2010

Debbie Whitlaw

July 27, 2010

I miss you Carter Kettner.....

Laura Diel

July 22, 2010

Carter is an angel among us all, flying high, never forgotten.

Michelle Rivera

May 31, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you and your family. I never met Carter. I heard about him through a friend who lives in Huntley. I think of him every day and I think of Bowen. I have three boys of my own.I cannot imagine explaining something like that to any of them. I will pray for you and I know Carter will be guiding his brother in his own way. May he giggle and play until he sees you again.

allison hinze

May 26, 2010

i love you carter i will always love you

Joe Kettner

May 20, 2010

Howard Shapiro

May 18, 2010

My condolences to you and your family at this very rough time in your lives. I work with Renee Walker and she told me so many amazing stories about Carter. He was wise beyond his years and made a difference in so many peoples lives. May his memory always be a shining star in yours.

Laura, Shane, Sarah Christenson

May 17, 2010

Sarah has prayed for Carter in her evening prayers since we heard of Carter's battle, and we will continue to pray for you Cinnamon, Joe, and Bowen in the months to come. We are thinking of you and praying for you.

Krista Schmidtke

May 17, 2010

Dear Cin & Joe,
Be blessed knowing how much joy Carter brought to so many around him, especially to his lil' brother, Bowen, who looked up to him. Carter is no longer suffering. He is not throwing one nor two but 3 strikes you're out at the ole ballgame! His courage, unconditional love and patience will be a lesson to us all. You have tremendous strength and your family unit is unparalleled. Know how much you are in our thoughts and hearts. Know how much you are loved.
"Angel of God, my guardian dear
To whom God's love commits me here;
Ever this day be at my side,
To light and guard, to rule and guide."
Thank you, Carter, for what you did in so little time. A superhero, indeed.
God's blessings to all of you,
Krista (Schmidtke) xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Jon Buralli

May 17, 2010

My family and I extend our condolences on the loss of Carter and we are truly inspired by the HOPE that Carter has provided to so many people in their every day lives. I enjoyed reading the updates, although many of them brought me to tears - I always felt the positive that Carter was trying to convey. God Bless Carter Kettner and thanks for letting us have him if only for a little while. Carter you will be missed tremendously.

Sincerely,

The Buralli Family

Robin Bawoll

May 17, 2010

I did not know Carter but work with Cindy and she told me about this wonderful boy. My condolences to you and your family and to this little angel

Anthony & Kimberly Carlini

May 17, 2010

Cinnamon and Joe, we are very sorry for your loss. Your families are in our thoughts and prayers.

Joe & Lisa

May 17, 2010

Although we have never met, we have heard about Carter's couragous battle and we are truly inspired by him. Our prayers are with you and your entire family during this difficult time. May the cherished memories comfort you with warmth in your time of sorrow.
May God bless you all

Julie Linden

May 17, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. No parent should have to go through this, and we can only imagine how you must feel. You are (and have been for a long time)in our thoughts and prayers

May 15, 2010

I'm so sorry for your loss, Carter fought bravely . He is an inspiration to everyone fighting this terrible illness. ..... Cassandra Demus(Rockford,IL)

Marcy Specht

May 15, 2010

Cinnamon, Joe, Bowen and the entire Kettner family......there are no words to describe what you are going through. I only met Carter once and he was so strong and he kept being strong for as long as he could. You are the strongest parents that I have ever had the chance to meet. Your superhero is flying in heaven now. My thoughts are with you and the entire Kettner family

Marcy and Artie Specht

Brandi Pittman

May 15, 2010

I'm so sorry for your loss, I lost my mother to cancer recently, and I am at a loss of words as to what to say. Just know that my prayers are with you, and I hope you can find comfort.

Teresa Izrael

May 14, 2010

There are no words. I am so sorry for your loss. Carter was an amazing little boy with a heart of gold. Although I never had the priviledge of meeting him, I feel as though I've known him his whole life. Thank you for sharing his journey with all of us. Heaven is very lucky to have him. He will be missed by all.
Your family is truly amazing! Hang in there. Carter is looking out after all of you:(

Cheryl Walker

May 14, 2010

My name is Cheryl Walker and my grandaughter Taylor is dating Jeremy Barker. Taylor has spoken so often of Carter that I felt I knew this little guy. She loved how he always made everyone smile and his laugh was so special to her. She cherishes the kisses from him and prayed often for good health for Carter. He is with God now and I feel blessed to know that he touched so many lives with his super sized heart and beautiful smile!

Lisa

May 14, 2010

My ex Husband and a bunch of his friends/co workers rode for Carters charity, a few weeks back, and passing that little boy by his house, my ex said there were many bikers wiping away tears! Carter touched the lives of many who did not know him!! May he rest in Peace! Thoughts and Prayers to you all!

Kevin McCarthy

May 14, 2010

Cin and Joe, so so sorry for your loss. I think he had the opportunity to show a lot of people what life is really about. I know that you guys will never forget him, but neither will thousands of others who were lucky enough to know and love him. That is the true reflection of a successful and happy life. - Kevin McCarthy

May 14, 2010

Godspeed, little man. Sweet dreams, little man.

Jordan Knight

May 14, 2010

I am sorry for you loss. I never met Carter but I believe that he was a angel in human form. He will forever remembered. Sincerly, Jordan Knight

Jennifer Christenson

May 14, 2010

The Kettner family has my heartfelt condolences. I have never met you or your son, Carter, but I also live in Heritage and have heard your story. Remember the legacy your son has left in his short time on Earth. He showed a lot of people what was really important in life. May God give you strength during this difficult time.

May 14, 2010

he is on gods lap as we speak ,he is a angel you see him again soon

Nicole Franke

May 14, 2010

My heart goes out to this family. I cannot imagine the heartache and sorrow you all must be experiencing at this time. Know that Carter has touched so many lives and has been an inspiration to everyone who knew him or even just knew his story. May God bless you all.

Rosie Santana

May 14, 2010

Dear Mr & Mrs Kettner,
My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. Although we have never met before, my co-worker Tracy Kirby told me about your son and gave updates on Carter. I was very sad to hear of his passing but he is in a better place now, no more pain or suffering. He's making alot of new friends and watching over his family & friends. Your son Carter has touched alot of strangers hearts and will be missed by many, but never forgoten. God Bless you Carter.

May 14, 2010

Carter,
you earned your wings little guy.You will be well taken care of on the otherside just like you were here.God bless your family, and Thank you for sharing your son with us all. He brought the true meaning of life to alot of people's eyes.Your always in our Prayers.

Liza Crawford

Joe, Carter & Bowen

Susan Knaack

May 14, 2010

David Berkley

May 14, 2010

My Condolences to your and your family

Amy Leddy

May 14, 2010

Our thoughts are with you all. We are thankful for having know Carter. He touched many lives in his short time. God bless, love, the Leddys.

Lynne Grove

May 14, 2010

We are all so sorry to hear of Carter's passing. I can't even imagine the feeling of such a great loss, but at least you can take comfort in knowing he is free of pain and is now watching over you with all the Angels.

Lisa Tintner

May 14, 2010

Rest In Peace Little Buddy... We love you.

May 14, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Take comfort in knowing that he is no longer having pain and suffering. He is now an angel flying like a true SUPERHERO! He was blessed to have you as his parents and Bowen as his brother. God Bless all of you!Kristine S.

Debbie Todd

May 14, 2010

May God bless this family, and hold this little boy in his arms for all eternity. He will be missed. I wish peace to all those he held close to his heart.

maureen abrasevic

May 14, 2010

Rest in Peace Super Hero! You now have the power to spread your wings and fly high! We will miss you! xoxo
Love Always,
The Abrasevic's

Linda Bleise

May 14, 2010

What a sweet little angel. A brand new star in the sky tonight watching all of you. He is in gods' hands now. What a journey he had and a brave little soldier he was. God bless all of you!

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