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Elizabeth O'Donnell formerly of Barrington Services for Elizabeth "Bette" O'Donnell (nee Capen), 78, of Sarasota, Fla., will begin with prayers at 10:30 a.m. Tuesday, at the Kisselburg-Wauconda Funeral Home, 235 N. Main St., Wauconda, and proceed to Transfiguration Church, 348 W. Mill St., Wauconda, for services at 11 a.m. Interment will be private. Visitation will be from 5 to 9 p.m. today, at the funeral home. Born Jan. 13, 1927, in West Orange, N.J., she passed away Friday, May 27, 2005, at Good Shepherd Hospital in Barrington. Elizabeth enjoyed many activities in her life including golf, riding horses and gardening. She was a member of Biltmore Country Club and later in life enjoyed golfing in Florida. In addition, her love for horses was very strong. A regular member of the Midwest American Saddlebred Horse Association and Illinois Pleasure Horse Association, she won many trophies, ribbons and year-end awards. Bette was a member and past president of the Hawthorn Women's Club, a member of St. Paul's Church in Barrington and Transfiguration Parish in Wauconda, and a Cub Scout Den Mother in North Barrington. Bette enjoyed the lake at Green Pond, N.J. as a teenager and young adult, and then returned as a mother to introduce her children to the lake, swimming, sailing and motorboating. She was the beloved wife of Timothy O'Donnell and the late Kenneth H. Bergquist Sr.; loving mother of Karen (Tom) Schnite, Holly (Jim) Bauernsmith, Peter (Judy) Bergquist and the late Kenny H. Bergquist Jr.; cherished grandmother of Charles, Peter J., Cory, Ian and Kris; and dear sister of Ruth Hartman. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions to the Monarch Hospice and Palliative Care, Inc., 1350 Remington Rd., Suite S, Schaumburg, IL 60173 are appreciated. For information, 847-526-2115.

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Published by Daily Herald from May 28 to May 30, 2005.

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Richard Eberli

May 31, 2005

Dear Peter, Holly,and Karen,



My thoughts are with you with the loss of your wonderful mother. It has been a long time since Barrington, but I will always rember Betty foundly as one of the great mothers to grow up with.

Some of my fondest memories were when your mom invited me over for lunch or dinner and we sat around the table giggling and laughling hardly able to eat our meals. How fun it was. We will all miss Betty!

Susan Ranieri

May 30, 2005

Dear Tim: It has been a long time but I always remembered you and Betty. I remember your beautiful wedding and I remember how warm and friendly you both were to Steve and myself. I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless you with His love and peace.



Sincerely, Susan Ranieri

Bette in her early 20's

May 30, 2005

Bette riding Flaiming Heirs at Oakview Stables

Karen Schnite

May 30, 2005

This is a picture of Mom the last time she rode a horse. The horse was Flaming Heirs, who passed away earlier this year.

Bette circa 1933

May 28, 2005

Rita Eberli

May 28, 2005

Bette was the best firend that my late mother (Alma Eberli) had. During my mothers illness and death nearly 20 years ago Bette took me under her wing, sharing her love, kindness and desparately needed advise all of these years. I will miss her deeply as I know her real family will. What a gift she was.

Bette Bergquist O'Donnell at Siesta Key Jan 04

May 28, 2005

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