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MARTIN J. DETMER

1928 - 2017

MARTIN J. DETMER obituary, 1928-2017, GLEN ELLYN, IL

BORN

1928

DIED

2017

MARTIN DETMER Obituary

Martin J. Detmer, age 89, died early morning on Wednesday, October 11, 2017 at his Glen Ellyn home surrounded by his family. Marty, the youngest of five boys, was born in Chicago on March 15, 1928 to Howard F. and Florence Cook Detmer. He married the love of his life, Jan-Ann Turner Detmer, in 1951 and together had five children. A 1946 graduate of Highland Park High School and Williams College class of 1950, Marty also received his MBA from the University of Chicago and served his country during the Korean War. Recruited out of college by Inland Steel, Marty was a loyal employee of 38 years ending his tenure as President of the Container division. He then became a partner in the west suburban commercial real estate firm, Phillips Martin. He served his community as a teacher and director of the CCD program at St. Petronille, as Chairman of the Board of Marianjoy Rehabilitation in Wheaton and as an adjunct business professor and the Chairman at St. Xavier University in Chicago. In addition, he served on the board of Bradner Central Co. While his professional and service accomplishments were many, they paled compared to his impact as a husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather. He was a kind, thoughtful man with a "practically perfect" disposition, and an engaging sense of humor. Marty is survived by his wife Jan-Ann Turner Detmer, his daughter Mary Detmer Goodspeed and sons James (Katherine), Martin J. Detmer Jr., and David (Jean). There are also 15 grandchildren and 4 great-grand children that will always remember Pops' glass half-full attitude. His daughter Ann, granddaughter Maeve, son-in-law Norwick Goodspeed, and daughter-in-law Julie Evans Detmer predeceased him. A Mass of the Resurrection was celebrated at noon on Saturday, October 14th, at St. Petronille Catholic Church, 420 Glenwood Ave., Glen Ellyn, IL. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Northwestern Medicine Home Care Physicians who provided the highest quality and most dignified care for Martin in his last years: Northwestern Medicine Home Care Physicians, 1800 N. Main St., Suite 219 Wheaton, IL 60187. A job well done, a life well lived.

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Published by Daily Herald from Oct. 12 to Oct. 15, 2017.

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Colleen Martin

October 16, 2017

RIP, Mr. Detmer...To know him was to love him. He leaves us all with his great example of goodness and kindness, family and faith.My love, thoughts and prayers to all the Detmers. Colleen McKay Martin

Diane Molinari Morefield

October 15, 2017

Mrs. Detmer and family, I always remember what a wonderful, friendly man Mr. Detmer was when we were growing up in Glen Ellyn. I always had so much respect for the entire Detmer family and still do! He left an amazing legacy in your great big family that will carry on for generations through all of you. My deepest sympathies, Diane Molinari Morefield

October 14, 2017

I am very sorry for your loss. I just wanted to share a comforting scripture. Hosea 13:14. Take care.

Laurie Marshall

October 13, 2017

Jan I'm so sorry for your loss what a wonderful man and how lucky you were to have him all those years. I missed seeing you in the last couple of years I hope now you know he's at peace and we can maybe get together for lunch. Thanks for letting me have the opportunity of knowing and loving the two of you. Laurie Marshall

Guy Morelli

October 13, 2017

We send our sincere sympathies to the entire Detmer family. Out thought are with you all.Guy and Janice Morelli

October 12, 2017

We loved Marty Detmer! Who didn't? Such a force of kindness, compassion and love. He was a funny, fun, smart man who loved his family, especially his wife, with complete gusto. We will miss him, but we will never forget him. Love and hugs and cheers for a special soul.xoxo The Malloy Family

JOANNE & JACK HAFNER

October 12, 2017

JanAnn and Family,

Joanne joins me in sending our best wishes and condolences. Even though we have not been in contact for over 34 years I have always considered Marty as one of my closest friends during my 29 years at the Container Division. He always had a smile and he made working with him a pleasure. Marty will certainly be in our prayers.

Joanne & Jack

Dan Cawley

October 12, 2017

So sorry to hear of Marty's passing. He was a foundational example in my early business life and has carved a permanent place in my heart. So thoughtful, respectful and funny. Loved his self deprecating humor. I look forward to seeing Marty in the next life. My deepest sympathies for his wonderful family and the many many friends this man attracted over his life.

Alice Wirtz

October 12, 2017

To the members of the Detmer family: I remember so very well when Marty was dating my good friend Jan-Ann. They were wonderful times that they had together in the early 1950's. I send my most thoughtful prayers, condolences and love to you all. May all your wonderful memories of the times you spent together help you through these difficult times. Blessings, Alice Pirie Wirtz (Ittie)

Suzanne & Harold Prichard

October 12, 2017

Jan Ann and Family;

Marty was such a sweet and loving man. Sue and I are so fortunate that we had a wonderful and long relationship with Marty and his family. Marty will always be in our thoughts and prayers.

October 12, 2017

Hello Jan-Ann and Detmer famiy;

I so well remember the days when Marty was dating Jan-Ann. Such a lovely couple who enjoyed such fun together. My blessings, sympathies, and love go out to you all. Your many happy memories together will certainly help you through these difficult times. An old dear friend who will never forget you, Alice Pirie Wirtz (Ittie)

Matthew Detmer

October 12, 2017

Hi Detmer family
It is Matthew Detmer I just herd the news and uncle Marty was a wonderful guy be brought me wonderful joy when we went to visit and talking to him when I was with my grandfather gramp in California for one of those events. I will miss him tons and he will always be in my heart what a great guy to talk to and have fun.

October 12, 2017

We express our condolences to the Detmer family during their time of grief. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, The Lee Hartman family/Houston, Tx.

Karna Bouton

October 12, 2017

We had some fun times with Marty and his family.
He was highly regarded as a member of the Bradner Central Board.

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