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Thomas Spackman Obituary

Thomas Spackman of West Chester Thomas Spackman, 74, of West Chester, died at home on September 20, 2011. Born in Philadelphia, he was a son of Herbert B. and Kathryn G. Spackman. He graduated from Wilmington Friends School and the University of Delaware College of Agriculture and Natural Resources, where he developed a keen appreciation of the land and an interest in preserving open space. Thomas was intensely interested in local history and enjoyed showing visitors Brandywine Battlefield sites on Thornbury Farm, the family farm where he grew up and which he worked hard to preserve. He served as a supervisor in Thornbury Township and was active in township government for many years, acting as magistrate and as police commissioner. Thomas was a realtor and founder of Spackman Associates, Ltd. He was an active member of the Church of the Loving Shepherd and numerous civic and charitable organizations, serving for many years as a Republican Committeeman and holding membership in The West Chester Rotary Club, Chamber of Commerce and West Chester Lodge #322 F. & A.M., County, State and National Associations of Realtors, Chester County Historical Society and Chester County Art Alliance. He served on the Board of the Chester County S.P.C.A., and was a founding member of Planned Parenthood - West Chester. Thomas joined the Army in 1963 and later served in the Reserves. He is survived by his two children, Randell Herbert Spackman (Kimberly) of West Chester and Dr. Erica Spackman of Augusta, Ga.; and four granddaughters, Morgan, Rebecca, Darby and Madison Spackman and numerous nieces and nephews. He is survived by a sister, Kathryn S. Andersen of Phoenixville and was predeceased by another sister, Amanda S. Gehret of Wilmington, Del. Also surviving are former spouses, Susan B. Spackman of West Grove and Sandra Betner of Philadelphia. Funeral Services will be held at 3 p.m. on Sunday, September 25, 2011 at Church of the Loving Shepherd, 1066 S. New St., West Chester. Visitation will begin at 2 p.m. Interment at Birmingham-Lafayette Cemetery, West Chester. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Church of the Loving Shepherd, 1066 South New Street, West Chester, PA 19382 and/or The Concept School, P.O. Box 54, Westtown, PA 19395. Arrangements by DellaVecchia, Reilly, Smith & Boyd Funeral Home, Inc. 610-696-1181, www.DellaFH.com

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Published by The Daily Local from Sep. 22 to Sep. 23, 2011.

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Judith L. Mills

September 2, 2023

I had no idea Tom had passed and am sorry to be so very late in remembering him to others. Tom was a good friend and confidante for years and we enjoyed discussing his children and the historical significance of his home. We went our separate directions and lost touch. Sad to know he is gone. His knowledge of Chester County and Thornbury Township, Delaware County was quite impressive. Rest in Peace, old friend-Lynn Mills

July 26, 2012

Randell and Erica,
Heartfelt condolences to you and the family on the death of Gentle Tom. It's hard to picture him without a cat on his lap. He was a wonderful friend . Marie Spinelli

Keith S. Smith

November 1, 2011

My prayers go out to Tom's family. I only recently learned of his passing through my November Masonic Lodge newsletter. I will miss him and our every so often history talks. He was a great guy, I loved what he was doing with the family house. His vissionary style will be so missed.

Brenda Stivale

September 29, 2011

My heartflet condolences to Tom's family. Tom was a friend, an inspiration, and a joy to be around, I profundly miss his presence. He was a very valued friend and a source of sunshine. Goodbye, my friend.

September 26, 2011

Tom, you were a pillar of society and unwavering advocate for land and nature conservation. I'm sorry we never got that "diner" together. Your time on this earth was spent more admirably than that of most people...and we will all miss you. Martha Wheaton Robertson

September 25, 2011

Tom, My memory of you is a charming smile and an outgoing and friendly personality. I wish I could be there to say goodbye in person.
God will certainly bless you.
Dr. Norbert Soldon

Philip Austin

September 23, 2011

Tom, you will be missed. I have not seen you since you left WCHS and that was a long time ago. You were a good person then and I know God will look after you. May HE bless you. Dr. Philip L Austin

Gayle Bohman

September 23, 2011

Tom, you will be missed... your infectious smile, your love of the world and all those in it, your friendship and excitement to all that have come into your life are to be charished. You brought a life long lesson of kindness into those that were blessed enough to know you. Rest in Peace, my friend...

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