David Wagner Neuman, beloved husband, father, grandfather, and friend, passed away peacefully on December 22, 2025, just three days before his 90th birthday. Born on December 25, 1935, in
Brooklyn, New York, David's life was a gift to all who knew him-a life marked by love, laughter, and unwavering devotion to family.
Adopted at birth by Lena Wagner Neuman and Louis Neuman, David grew up in Brooklyn before his family moved to Albuquerque, New Mexico during his teenage years. There, he thrived both academically and athletically, playing football and earning acceptance to the University of Oklahoma. However, when his father unexpectedly passed away, David returned to Albuquerque to care for his mother-a decision that reflected his deep sense of responsibility and love. He attended the University of New Mexico, where he earned a degree in business, before he and his mother eventually returned to New York.
David's athletic talent led him to play professional football for the Montreal Alouettes, and he was even drafted by the Chicago Bears-a remarkable achievement that spoke to his determination and skill. Ultimately, David transitioned into a successful business career, beginning with a position selling Kaywoodie pipes. Later, he moved his family to Phoenix, where he co-owned a grocery store called Carlitos Market. His entrepreneurial spirit continued as he launched his own business, The Ice Man, delivering commercial ice to restaurants, bars, construction sites, and numerous events-a venture that became a cornerstone of his professional life.
On June 18, 1960, David married the love of his life, Isabel Finke, after a whirlwind romance that began with a blind date. In true Dave Neuman fashion, he proposed on their second date, and Isabel said yes without hesitation. Their marriage of 65 years was a testament to enduring love and partnership, filled with shared adventures, mutual respect, and countless cherished memories.
Together, David and Isabel raised three daughters-Randi Levin, Leslie Spillman, and Andrea Malkin-instilling in them the values of kindness, integrity, and resilience. Though an only child, David built a family that became his greatest joy, including seven grandchildren: Adam, Jessica, Jacob, Grant, Shaine, Morgan, and Amanda, and a son-in-law, Arthur Malkin. Each of them carries forward his legacy of love and strength.
David was admired for his integrity, generosity, and quick wit. He had a remarkable sense of humor and was known for his memorable sayings, including:
"What time does the balloon go up?"
"If you throw enough against the wall, something will stick,"
and his playful question, "Who did your hair today?"
He was also renowned for his humorous take on Jewish prayers, often joking during Kol Nidre and Avinu Malkeinu:
"Avinu Malkeinu, who stole the bananas."
These moments of levity brought joy to family and friends and will be fondly remembered for generations.
Beyond his professional and athletic accomplishments, David found joy in simple pleasures-family gatherings, storytelling, and offering guidance to those who sought his wisdom.
He is survived by Isabel, his devoted wife; his daughters Randi, Leslie, and Andrea; his son-in-law Arthur; and his seven grandchildren, who will forever hold him in their hearts. His legacy is one of compassion, resilience, humor, and love-a life well lived and deeply treasured.
A service will be held to celebrate David's extraordinary life. In lieu of flowers, the family encourages you to dance La Vida Loca in his memory. Published by The Daily Memphian on Dec. 23, 2025.