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David Nicholas Vogan

David Nicholas Vogan obituary, Norfolk, VA

David Vogan Obituary

David Nicholas Vogan, beloved brother and friend, passed from this life on September 23, 2023. Born in Norfolk, Virginia on December 17, 1951. David was the son of the late Dr. Charles E. and Frieda O. Vogan.

David's early years, growing up in Riverview, were full of culture and adventure. His musically gifted parents frequently took their children to concerts and entertained musicians in the home. Family vacations were enjoyed every year, and David was actively involved in his home church, Royster Memorial Presbyterian.

A move to Lakewood led to further adventures with friends through sports, Boy Scout activities, and rafting on the river.

David was a 1970 graduate of Granby High School. During his high school years, he participated in the storied Granby wrestling program and achieved the level of Eagle Scout. A cello student of Janet Kriner, David was the recipient of the Hermitage Foundation award and Bland music scholarship.

David went on to attend the College of William and Mary where he earned a B.A. in Art History. From there, he went on to a four year program in Architecture at the University of Minnesota which he completed in 1979.

David returned to Williamsburg where he worked at various architecture firms. During these years, he served as the architect on the Architectural Review Board, sang in the choir of Bruton Parish, and played cello in a string quartet working with musicians who became cherished friends.

One of David's most rewarding experiences was teaching architectural design at Hampton University. From there, he went on to work at Langley Air Force Base where he managed and oversaw housing renovations.

An offer from the engineering firm, Parsons Brinkerhoff, took David to Washington D.C. where he spent the next twenty years. This position offered extensive travel opportunities throughout the United States as well as Asia. David loved Washington for all that it offered as an international city. He explored every museum, attended concerts, films and plays, frequented embassy parties and concerts, and enjoyed meeting people from all over the world.

David was one of a kind and anyone who really knew him would describe him as such. He was fiercely independent, fearless, and always in pursuit of "seeing what else is out there". He loved travel and particularly enjoyed time in Eastern Europe and Russia following the Cold War. David enjoyed the company of people from other cultures, visiting in their homes and seeking understanding. His aspiration was to be a "citizen of the world".

David lived modestly by choice, but was generous. He was kind and gracious and has been described as not having a "mean bone in his body".

A lover of animals and nature, he was also passionate about historic preservation, sustainability of the planet, humanizing politics, and social justice. He had a wonderful sense of humor and enjoyed offbeat antics such as hopping a freight train from Minneapolis to California in celebration of completing graduate school.

The endless stream of friends, from near and far, for whom it was important to visit during the last few weeks of his life, as well as outstanding care from Amedisys Hospice, was deeply gratifying to him and very impressive to those who witnessed it. Particularly touching was a visit from four fellow Eagle Scout friends, two of whom came from out of state.

In addition to his parents, David was preceded in death by his brother-in-law, Joe G. Boone III. Left to cherish his memory are his brother Charles E. (Chip) Vogan Jr. and his wife, Barbara, sister, Judy Vogan Boone, nephew, William V. Vogan, special family friend, Jack Levick, and many cherished friends.

A celebration of his life will be held on Saturday , October 14 at 3:00 PM at H. D. Oliver chapel, 1501 Colonial Ave., Norfolk, followed by a reception at the parish house of St. Paul's Episcopal Church, 201 St. Paul's Boulevard, Norfolk.

Memorial donations can be made to the National Trust for Historic Preservation, The Humane Society of the United States, or a charity of your choice. Online condolences may be shared with the family at www.hdoliver.com

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Published by Daily Press on Oct. 8, 2023.

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Bill Kitterman

September 20, 2024

Dave and I shared an apartment at William & Mary. My wife had a crush on him. Among his many talents, Dave played the cello. During some of his years, he had long dark hair and a beard. I can still see Dave, like it was yesterday, dressed up in his tuxedo, long hair and beard, carrying his cased cello to his car, headed off to a concert! I will miss Dave Vogan!!

Thomas (T.W.) and Amy Day

October 8, 2023

Our sincere condolences to you Chip and to Barbara for the loss of your brother and brother-in-law. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this time of sorrow. While we never met David it sounds as if he had a great handle on life and touched the lives of so many people. May the Lord especially be with you during this time of loss.

Malcolm W. "Chip" Hill, Jr.

October 1, 2023

From 1960 to 1968 in Lakewood, David was my next-door neighbor and very good friend. We did a lot together. We camped out in his back yard, wrestled, played football, boated, crabbed and swam up and down the Lafayette River. When we were in Jr. High School, our wrestling hero was Joe Boone. Neither of us knew that Joe would one day be married to David's wife, Judy. I have nothing but fond memories of my long-ago friendship with David Vogan. I look forward to walking over heaven with him some fine day. ~ Chip Hill, Highland County, Va.

Anne Williams

October 1, 2023

Although I knew he was ill, I am nonetheless shocked today to read of David's passing. I met him only once--at dinner with his sister, Judy, and brother-in-law Joe. He was such a kind person and such a gentleman. I know how much his family loved him and what a void will be left in their lives. I'm so sorry I didn't know that he was living his last days. We are never ready to say good'bye to our loved ones no matter what the cirumstance. I hope you will call me, Judy, when you can. Please know my prayers are with you and the Vogan family.

Anne Williams, Williamsburg

James Thompson

October 1, 2023

To: The Vogan Family, Sincerest condolences on the passing of your dearest brother David Nicholas, What a gracious and intelligent gentleman! His contributions certainly made the world a much better place, James & April Thompson, (Old Granby High School Alumni) Hendersonville, North Carolina

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Helga Torda

September 30, 2023

Met David years ago in the DC area. We shared a respect for life, nature and the animal kingdom. Shall
miss our long conversations with a kind and sensitive friend.

Maria-Luise Holthoff

September 28, 2023

Since I have met David in Minneapolis I have always cherished our special friendship which has included meeting in Europe and visiting with him in Williamsburg and Washington DC.
I have lived long conversations on the phone, listening to his voice, enjoying his humor, his calmness and his empathy.
For me he is one of the few persons I have met with `stars in the eyes`.
Frequently he told me ` I am enjoying the ride`.

Lynn (Etheridge) Liles

September 26, 2023

I'm so thankful for the many memories of David through elementary, junior high, and high school. He was always kind, gentle, considerate, and willing to help others. He was quite the preservationist and archivist, what a great steward he was! At every reunion or mini reunion he always showed up with pictures of days gone by, and stories with details that many of us had forgotten. We will miss you dear friend!

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