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Debra Elswick Obituary

NEWPORT NEWS - Debra "Debbie" Elaine Elswick, 56, passed away peacefully Friday, December 21, 2012 at home with her family by her side. She was a native of Harrisonburg and had been a peninsula resident for over 50 years. She retired from Alcoa-Howmet after 35 years service as an X-ray Technician. Debbie enjoyed camping and going out to eat. Those left to cherish her memory are her husband of 38 years, Stephen M. Elswick; her daughter Stephanie M. Elswick of Newport News; her son Stephen K. Elswick and his wife Kandis; her grandson Cameron Elswick; her sister Sandra K. Freeman; her brother Jeffery Spitzer; and a special friend Karen Bowles all of Hampton. A Memorial Service will be held on Friday, December 28, 2012, at 6:30 p.m. in the W. J. Smith & Son Funeral Home. The family will receive friends following the service. Please leave condolences at www.wjsmithandsonfh.com Arrangements by W. J. Smith & Son Funeral Home.

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Published by Daily Press on Dec. 26, 2012.

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Connie Clement

December 20, 2020

Hi Debra Elaine, I think of you often my friend. You are in my dreams from time to time, I guess you stopped by for a visit. We lost you way to soon, you are Loved and you are missed always in my heart. Til we see each other again ! God Bless

Sue Jernigan

January 2, 2013

May the Lord bless all who loved Debra. Our loss is Heaven's gain. I pray for the family and friends during this time.

December 30, 2012

Sorry to hear of your lose.Prayers are being sent to your family

Gail Beimler Adams

December 28, 2012

It is especially difficult to lose someone close to you that you love.

My deepest sympathy to Steve and family.May you all find comfort in the memories that you cherish.

I will alway's remember Debbie as a fun-loving person. We had lots of fun back in the day! R.I.P My friend

Sharon Johnson

December 28, 2012

Debbie will be truly missed. She was a wonderful friend with such a kind heart. Rest in peace my friend.

Deborah Absher

December 28, 2012

"Debbie after seeing and talking to you over the years you will be missed. My prayers are with you and your family." Debbie Absher

December 28, 2012

Grief can be so hard during the holidays, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one this holiday season.

Lonette Tibbs

December 28, 2012

I remember Debra when we worked in the wax dept.She always made me smile..she was always so happy.. she will be missed and my prayers are with the family and knowing Debra she will always be watching down on her family and smiling at them cause she doesn't have anymore pain.. love and prays, lonette Tibbs

Barbara Hensley

December 27, 2012

My heart feels such sorrow in this loss. I pray for all the family members to be touched by the Lord's hand and find some peace and comfort.

Karen Burgess

December 27, 2012

We have lost another beautiful soul in the wax department. Debbie you will be missed. To the family so sorry for your loss and my prayers for you at this difficult time. RIP Debbie no more pain.

Karen Burgess

December 27, 2012

We have lost another beautiful soul in the wax department. Debbie your presence will be missed. My prayers go out to the family for comfort at this difficult time. RIP Debbie no more pain.

Maria Owens

December 27, 2012

Stephanie thinking of you during this most difficult time. My God wrap you in his arms and hold you close, I will keep you in my prayers.

Connie Clement

December 27, 2012

I was so very sorry to hear about Debbie, she was a Dear Friend, we worked together for many years, we had some good times together with lots of laughter. I know she will be missed by all that knew and LOVED her, she was a sweet person. Take comfort knowing she is suffering no longer and she is in Gods hands now! My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Judy and Jim Hodges

December 26, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Amy Moore

December 26, 2012

Debbie -I was thinking today about how it didnt take much to make you happy or laugh..I know you will be watching over all of us from heaven like your watching a never ending soap opera.Laughing and smiling because between all of us you know there is never a dull moment.Your spirit will be here for the ups & downs and even though We can't see you we know you will be in our hearts and thoughts every day.There will never be a time that goes by we wont have something that reminds us of you that cant make us smile..I made the best batch of the gravy you taught me how to make on Christmas.( still not anywhere near as good as yours) Wendy made the pasta salad she learned how to make from you and Steph said she made the green beans just like you made them.. If it wont for you the only thing Wendy & I would know how to make is soup & grill cheese sandwiches because you know thats all mom knows how to make.(ha-ha) Jacob had a stocking that you got him last Christmas and handed it to my mom and said that he thinks you would of wanted her to have it.It was so sweet.. Cameron has been saying a lot of sweet things too that makes our hearts melt..We all miss you so much already--- Love you, Amy

ROBIN DAVIS

December 26, 2012

Debbie I will miss you.My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.I will always feel your presence at the X-Ray area.RIP

Vickie & Chuck Kidd

December 26, 2012

Kaye and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for all.

December 26, 2012

I miss you so much already. Thank you for always welcoming me into your home and making me feel like family. Very sad to go home from lunch today for the first time and not see you there. But I know you're watching over us. I could go on and on. I don't know if you can head this from Heaven but I hope you know how much you mean to me. Love, Carrie

Catherine Wendland

December 26, 2012

Kay and family,

May God bless each of you in this time of sorrow. There are no words to be spoken to heal the pain in your hearts. May you find comfort in the support of family and friends. Debbie will live on in our hearts and wonderful memories created from years passed. She is your guardian angel and will be watching over you everyday. Your angel is now at peace and has gone home to the peaceful land and now rest in the greatest hands of all. We love you Debbie and will miss you always.

Antionette & Andre McCarter

December 26, 2012

Stephanie, our hearts and prayers goes out to you and your family. May God give you peace and heal your hearts in this time of need.

slick and margie gray

December 26, 2012

my wife and i have known debbie for over 20 years. she was a co worker of ours at howmet.we will miss her.

December 26, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this tme.

Belinda and Family

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