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Estover Ruffin Obituary

On November 2, 2021, God called home our beloved angel on earth, Estover Wyatt Ruffin, 86, and she left and went to heaven. She was born April 16, 1935 in Surry, Va. She graduated from L. P. Jackson High School as valedictorian. She was a homemaker who found great joy in raising her children and devoted her entire life to them. She was quiet but also strong and determined. She was truly a sweet and gentle woman and had a loving smile. Her beautiful soul was reflected in her personality. She was a nurturing, caring, and compassionate mother, grandmother, and great grandmother. She felt motivated to help her family in any way that she could. She made it easy for all who knew her to honor and love her. She meant so much to her family. She provided love, understanding, and wisdom, along with solid foundation and a safe place to fall when necessary. She will be treasured forever. Words can not describe how much she will be missed. She was content with being at home, getting phone calls and visits from loved ones and friends. She also enjoyed going out to eat and shopping. She loved to drink her Pepsi. She was a fan of Smokey Robinson, Lionel Richie, and gospel singer Marvin Winans.

Sometimes she used to say " I just want peace and quiet myself". Now she is at peace. We thank God we had her. Her spirit will always guide her family. Estover was predeceased by her parents, James Wyatt and Mollie Newby Wyatt, her brothers, James, Emment, Newton, and Joseph and her sisters Mozelle, Lucille, and Dorothy, two grandsons, Troy and Floyd and one granddaughter Priscilla. She leaves behind one sister, Margie Robinson, six children, five daughters Queen McDonald (James), Jarra Johnson, Carolyn Ruffin, Teresa West (Floyd), Lorena Blow (William); one son, Marvin Ruffin (Yasmeen), 13 grandchildren, 33 great grandchildren, 3 great great grandchildren, host of nieces and nephews.

Viewing will be on Monday, November 8, 2021 from 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm.

Homegoing service will be on November 9, 2021 at 12:00pm at Cooke Bros. Funeral Chapel. 1601 27th Street Newport News, Virginia 23607.

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Published by Daily Press from Nov. 5 to Nov. 7, 2021.

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Anthony Hardrock Jackson

November 8, 2021

Sincere Condolences to the entire Ruffin Family.It always saddens the heart when we loose someone close.I remember growing up on 12th St when we had all of the neighbors that always looked out for each and everyone as if we were family..God Bless

JosieTaylor

November 7, 2021

My Sympathy goes to the Family and her Daughter Lorena is a like a Sister to me every time I saw Mrs. Ruffin she always had a beautiful smile she was just a pleasant sweet Lady God has another Angel From my Family to yours Love you all

Sonny & Arkeme Hill

November 7, 2021

Queen & Family,
We were so sorry to hear of the passing of your Mother. She & my Aunt Audrey graduated together and have always been lifelong friends but just never saw each other nearly enough. May God Bless you and your family and forever keep you in his care.

Carolyn Ruffin

November 7, 2021

Mom, we will always love you. Thank you for raising us, job well done. Rest In Peace now.

Brenda Shaw

November 6, 2021

Sending heartfelt sympathy to the family. I have known Ms. Ruffin for over five decades and she always was a sweet person. Heaven has gained another angel. You All

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