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Marsha Lister Obituary

NEWPORT NEWS - Marsha Whitley Lister, 52, died unexpectedly Tuesday, Feb. 28, 2006. Born in Toledo, Ohio, she had resided on the Peninsula for the past 37 years. She was a 1972 graduate of Denbigh High School. She worked as an administrative assistant at the Newport News Shipbuilding and was a member of Asbury United Methodist Church. Marsha was preceded in death by her father, Phillip Vass Whitley, and her brother, John Yeargin Whitley. She is survived by her mother, Elizabeth 'Lib' Whitley; her daughter, Teresa 'Rae' Lister and her fiancé, Paul 'PJ' Jackson Jr., of Newport News; and her grandchild, D'Andre Jackson. The family will receive friends from 6:30 to 8 p.m. Friday, March 3, at the Weymouth Funeral Home. A memorial service will be held at 2 p.m. Saturday, March 4, at Asbury United Methodist Church by the Rev. Robert Taylor. A reception in the church fellowship hall will follow the service. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Cancer Society, Breast Cancer Research, 11835 Canon Blvd., Suite A-102, Newport News, VA 23606, or the American Heart Association, P.O. Box 5216, Glen Allen, VA 23058.

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Published by Daily Press on Mar. 3, 2006.

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Debbie Mongar

March 8, 2006

To the family, my thoughts, and prayers are with you at this sad time. I have known Marsha for quiet awhile. I saw her at the 30 year reunion about 3 years ago, her humor and laughter hadn't changed at all. So many lifes were brightened by her friendship. She will always be remembered.

Terri Knight

March 6, 2006

Marsha was one of a kind and will truly be missed by all who knew her.

Nan Jennings

March 4, 2006

My condolences to Marsha's mom, daughter and grandson - she spoke of you often and proudly during the years I knew her at Newport News Shipbuilding. She was excellent at what she undertook and always left you with a smile. I know she will be missed deeply by all. It was a pleasure to have known her.

Beverly Hoercher

March 3, 2006

Marsha will be strongly missed. She was and still is my best friend and has been for over 33 years. She was loved by everyone that knew her. Marsha had a very special way about her that made people adore her. She will be in our hearts and thought forever. God will take good care of her until we all meet with her again.

We love you Marsha!

Debbie Coutts Robins

March 3, 2006

May God bring peace and comfort to Marsha's family during this difficult time. She will always be remembered with affection and a smile by her friends. Even those of us who haven't seen her in years feel the loss.

Diane & Scott Kincaid

March 3, 2006

Mrs."Mom" Whitley, Rae, & "Little Man"

We would like to extend our heartfelt sympathies to Marsha's family, she is so darn proud of each of you. I first met Marsha soon after I started to work for the Shipyard. I have always marveled not only at her bright red hair and shoes of the rainbow, but also of her wit, and her sincerity. She has taught me so much in such a short time. I cannot express just how much she will be missed as well as how much we will miss her cheesecakes and carrot cake!!!! She should have patented them. She was always there with the answers and so quick with her humor. She certainly had no strangers. She is a remarkable woman to all and is so very proud of her "Little Man". May she be at peace and you know she will be watching over each of us . Thank you Marsha & I will never take off my pink bracelet. You will always be in our hearts and we know you will be there always for us.

Kati Haise

March 3, 2006

Teresa, D'Andre, and Mrs. Whitley,

I just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and I am sincerely sorry for your loss. I feel horrible that I can't come up there to be with you this weekend. Your mother,grandmother,daughter will definitely be missed by me and everyone she came in contact with. Just remember the good times and know that she will be waiting for you on the other side but for now she wouldn't want you guys to be down. So remember she's watching over you and like she did in life wants you to be happy. I love you all!

Jennelle Copley

March 3, 2006

I wanted to send my condolences to the family. Sorry for your loss but always know that she is right there when you pray and she will always be in your minds. She was a wonderful woman and will be greatly missed.

May God Bless you in this bad time and may god help you through it.

John 11:25,26



11:25 Jesus said to her, "I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live49 even if he dies, 11:26 and the one who lives and believes in me will never die

She will always live on in our thoughts, hearts and prayers. God Bless You!!!

Donna Isaac (Pleasants)

March 3, 2006

My deepest condolences on the sudden passing of an old schoolmate. With sincerest sympathy,



Donna (Pleasants) Isaac

Jim Baughman

March 3, 2006

Prayers to those who have lost a very good mother, daughter, and friend. Marsha will be sorely missed physically, but will always remain in our thoughts and hearts.

Irie West

March 3, 2006

Marsha had many, many friends and never met a stranger. She will never be forgotten in our minds and in our hearts. My thoughts and prayers are with her family during this very tough time. Christ has replaced the dark door of death with the shining gate of life.

Jesus said, "I am the resurrection and the life. He who belives in Me, though he may die, he shall live." John 11:25 God Bless you all.

Judy Polentz

March 3, 2006

I was thinking last night how I would describe Marsha.

This is what I came up with:

M=Magical spirit

A=Awesome personality

R=Radiant

S=Strong

H=Happy

A=Always there for her family

I met Marsha at work and instantly found her to be a remarkable person. Everyone identifies her by that red hair and her shoes. Her personality was just as colorful as her shoes. I think she had every color in the rainbow.

Even though I may not have known her as long as others, she made an impression on me that I will never forget. The times we were together she always spoke about her grandson and how much joy he brought into her life.

I know she is in a place where she can watch over her family and the rest of us as well.

To Marsha - Rest in Peace and Love.

To her family - Know that she is watching over you and will always be just a prayer away.

With deepest sympathy,

Pamie Fox

March 3, 2006

Mrs Whitley, Rae, and Little Man,

Marsha was one of my oldest, and dearest friends. I am so sorry for your loss. Words cannot express how much I will miss her Quick wit,her laughter, a partner in mischief, and most of all a wonderful friend. I Loved her with all my heart. I am only a phone call away, if you need anything.

Carolyn Kirby

March 3, 2006

I am so sorry to hear the tragic news of Marsha's sudden passing. Please know that Marsha's family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers, and I would like to extend my sincere condolences to all during this time of grief. I had not met Marsha actually but have longed enjoyed her sharing of humorous and thought provoking items via email messages to her Denbigh High classmates, including my husband Jim Kirby. We were both shocked and deeply saddened to learn the news last week that Marsha is gone so suddenly and too soon. I will miss her constant presence in the far-ranging community of caring classmates that has grown stronger and richer over the years. You all are terrific people and true friends. Marsha, you live on in everybody's hearts and memories!

Steve Bass

March 3, 2006

Marsha was a very special person and was loved by many. I will miss her laughter and and beautiful smile.My condolences to her family.

Michael Gardner

March 3, 2006

To the family of Marsha, you have my deepest condolences. I haven't seen Marsha in many years. Probably since just after high school. All of the Denbigh kids had a lot of fun back then, and she will be missed by many.

Always keep her in your hearts and minds, and she will always be right there with you.

william samuels

March 3, 2006

The world is not as nice a place as it was a week ago. May God welcome Marsha, and console and Bless her family.



Billy Samuels and Family

Sarasota, Florida

Sue Sillery

March 3, 2006

I will miss Marsha and feel blessed to have known her while at NGNN. I was always impressed by her style, her boundless energy and will never ever forget her quick wit and sense of humor. See you on the other side, Marsha.



Sue Sillery

Patti Baughman

March 3, 2006

"God broke our hearts to prove to us, He only takes the BEST!"

Mary Lou + Shelton Parson

March 3, 2006

Loving memories you will always share and never forget. Our hearts are going out to you and the family. We want you to know ~ we care. You have our deepest sympathy and our love.

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