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BALTIMORE, MARYLAND - Patrick Anthony Gainer, beloved husband and father, passed away in Baltimore, Maryland on November 28, 2015 at the age of 88. Loving, pious, generous to a fault, humorous, brilliant and talented, Patrick was a retired NASA engineer who loved to recall his work in designing star charts for and with the Mercury astronauts. In addition to his work at NASA, he was oboist for the Peninsula Symphony, Norfolk Symphony, Virginia Symphony and Governor's Palace Orchestra of Colonial Williamsburg. He was an accomplished photographer and photographic researcher. He published several articles about photography, and was a contributing editor for Photo Techniques magazine. He was born in Morgantown, West Virginia, on July 14, 1927, the son of Patrick Ward Gainer, renowned folklorist and West Virginia University English professor, and Antoinette Kizinski. He served in the US Army from 1945 to 1947, was a graduate of West Virginia University, and worked for NASA Langley in Hampton, Virginia from 1952 to 1982. He is survived by five of his six children, 10 grandchildren and 6 great-grandchildren, including son Patrick, daughters Mary Calame, Alice Standin, Frances Davey, and Christine Barton, brothers Michael and Thomas Gainer, and sister Miriam Goder. Preceding him in death was his beloved wife Rosemary Layman Gainer, with whom he long wished to be reunited. God willing, it is so. A memorial in his honor will be held by family members in the Spring, when his ashes will be interred in Good Shepherd Cemetery, in Tanner, WV. Donations in his honor may be made to the Good Shepherd Catholic Church, 701 Mineral Rd, Glenville, WV 26351, or to West Virginia Public Radio, both of which gave him much joy when he relocated to West Virginia upon his retirement.

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Published by Daily Press on Dec. 1, 2015.

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November 26, 2016

I am sorry for your loss. I did not know Patrick, but I am related to a man who knew his wife's father, Guy Layman, very well. A Civil War Veteran by the name of John Furner, who is my second great-grandfather. My understanding is that Guy and John were very close in Salem/Clarksburg, WV. Guy wrote about John. I would like to learn more about Guy Layman if there is anyone who is familiar with him. Again, sorry for your loss.
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Shannon Riley Smith

January 3, 2016

Dear Patrick and Family,
I did not know your father but have fond memories of your mother, Rosemary, and of all of you children from days long ago. Your dad was obviously a brilliant and talented man and loved deeply by his family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Shannon Riley Smith

Betty and Ron Collins

December 23, 2015

Dear Pat, Erin and family,

We are so sorry to hear of the passing of your father/grandfather. May God bless you
all with His peace.

T Griffin

December 7, 2015

So sorry to hear about your loss. You know that God and Jesus are in the best position to comfort us when we lose a loved one in death.

A Former Student

December 4, 2015

God Bless You Mr. Gainer . May your family be comforted by memories of your beautiful oboe playing, your quick wit and your kindness . You accepted me as a student many, many years ago under the strict criteria that I audition for and be accepted into the Peninsula Youth Orchestra . You wanted and demanded perfection from your students. Thank you for such excellent lessons in playing, but also dedication , commitment and the honor of studying under one of the greatest oboe players on the Peninsula. Heaven has gained another superb musician, however Mr. Gainer is very special.....he's an oboist ! My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Vickie Smith

December 3, 2015

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Though I did not know your father well, I can remember that he was a great photographer and recall that he had a dark room in the house in Newport News. I think he may have been the photographer of a wonderful black and white photo of a cat in a windowsill that I remember well. Maybe it was that very old cat, Matilda. It makes me cry to think of how much you all must miss him. I will pray for your healing and comfort.
Sincerely, Vickie Smith

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