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Richard Ernest Haughton III

1935 - 2017

Richard Ernest Haughton III obituary, 1935-2017, Newport News, VA

BORN

1935

DIED

2017

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12746 Nettles Drive

Newport News, Virginia

Richard Haughton Obituary

NEWPORT NEWS - On Thursday, April 20, 2017, our beloved Father, Grandfather and Great-Grandfather, the Rock of our family, Richard "Dick" Ernest Haughton III, age 81, was taken Home by his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ to spend eternity. It was the desire of his heart to go to his Heavenly home and also be reunited with the Love of his Life, Carlyn Jeanette Haughton, whom had passed away December 6, 2016. He retired from the Newport News Police Department as a Lieutenant, a job that he enjoyed and reminisced about often, making lifelong friends. He never fully retired, operating Haughton Lawn Care for many years to ensure his children and grandchildren were taken care of. He was a Private Pilot, owning his own plane and later becoming a member of the Tidewater Flying Club. He was known for his generosity and willingness to help anyone, but above all, he was known for his honesty and integrity. He believed in keeping his word and going far and beyond expectations. He did not just talk about how people should act as a Believer in God, he lived it daily, always thinking of others first. He was always fair and saw the good in people, giving them a chance and not judging but encouraging. He had a wonderful sense of humor and felt it was always better to laugh than to cry, a task that became very difficult after the passing of his wife. He was preceded in death by his wife, Carlyn Jeanette Haughton; mother, Dorothy Louise Haughton; father, Richard Ernest Haughton Jr.; sister, Doris Curtis; son, Richard Ernest Haughton IV; and infant daughter, Jennifer Haughton. He leaves behind to cherish his memory daughters, Nanette Roos, Bobbie Sue Giuffre, and Lisa Hayes (Earl); sons, William Charles Haughton (Tiffany) and Steven Haughton; grandchildren, Matthew Hanson (April), Ernest Hanson (Lindsey), Holly Roos, Jeanette Hayes Kingsley (Matthew), John Earl Hayes III, and Crystal Haughton; 11 great-grandchildren; and many other family members he loved greatly. Special thanks to Dr. Elizabeth Harden, Andrea, MiMi, and all of the staff and nurses at Virginia Oncology for their caring devotion during his battle with cancer. A Memorial Service will be held at 12 Noon, Thursday, April 27, 2017 at Weymouth Funeral Home. The family will receive friends one hour prior to the service. Interment will follow in Peninsula Memorial Park. Arrangements are by Weymouth Funeral Home.

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Published by Daily Press on Apr. 23, 2017.

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Richard T Chance

August 27, 2022

Lt. Dick Haughton was my first partner after being assigned to the NNPD Detective Bureau. He was a fine man, gentleman and a cops cop. Lt. Haughton had a lot of influence on new detectives and was a mentor.
God bless his family and RIP Brother.

Lisa

April 20, 2022

Dad, I am missing you and Mom so very much. I am reminded today, that every conversation had so much more meaning than I could have imagined. Thank you for being the Best Dad Ever!

Jeanette Kingsley

September 17, 2018

I love you grandpa and miss you so much. I miss seeing you and grandma. My heart breaks when I think about how much I miss you, grandma, uncle Bill and aunt Nanette. I know you all are in heaven watching over us. I can't wait to see you all again.

Lisa H

May 5, 2018

Dad ,I love and miss you so much.I am very glad you are in Heaven with Mom because it stinks here.

Nan Haughton

January 14, 2018

Thinking about and missing the best father in the world.

Sgt. Jim Curtis, Hampton police department

April 26, 2017

Uncle Dick was like a father to me. He was a man's man and I always tried to be like him. I never knew a more courageous man in my life. Some of my favorite memories are of Uncle Dick and I coaching Billy's baseball team. They don't make men like uncle Dick anymore. I love him and am comforted to know he is with Aunt Jeanette and Billy walking with Jesus. End of Watch Uncle Dick. Job well done.

Carolyn Curry

April 26, 2017

I am very said to hear that a special person like Mr. Haughton has been taken away. May the family find peace and love in comfort I this time.

Mr. Haughton would greet me at the door of Denbigh Christian Church on Sunday morning and tell me how nice it was to see me. I enjoyed seeing his smiling face when I entered the building. The Lord has gained a new smile in his Kingdom.

Tobias Hill

April 25, 2017

Everything said in this obituary is very true and that is very rare. Dick really did live that way, always smiling, always true to his word, always looking out for someone else, even though he had more than enough of his own problems to deal with and no one would have blamed him if he was cranky. But he wasn't. He always tried to laugh and let others laugh with him.

I was very sad to hear he passed. My family did his taxes for almost 60 years. He told me stories about flying pigeons with my great grand father, who died before I was born. In the relatively short time I knew the man, I respected and admired him very much. He was a genuinely good person. You don't meet many people you can say that about, but he was one. My heart goes out to Crystal and the rest of the family. I am very sorry he is gone and will miss his smile and his laughter greatly.

Preston Slaughter

April 24, 2017

RIP Dick

RET Capt NNPD/VPA Chief of Police Mike Brewer

April 24, 2017

LT Haughton was always one of my favorites at NNPD. The comments in his obituary reign true to his character. Although I'm traveling and will not be available to join his friends and family during his homecoming services, you will all remain in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.

April 24, 2017

dick was a really nice man and a better father its been rough road since billys passing but they are together now these two guys were something we had some great times flying planes and playing with model boats and shooting the bull r.i.p. guys you will always be missed your friend keith

Charles Rowe

April 24, 2017

Rest in piece my friend i will all have the memories of flying Radio control with you and billy

Charles Rowe

Linda Robinson

April 23, 2017

As a retired Newport News Police, I can say, Lt. Haughton was a nice and kind man. When I was notified that he had passed, my first response to the caller was, Lt. Haughton was a nice man. The caller responded said, "that's what I'm hearing. To his family, I extend my sympathy.

Lisa Hayes

April 22, 2017

Lisa Hayes

April 22, 2017

Jeanette Kingsley

April 22, 2017

Grandpa and Grandma in 2007

Jeanette Kingsley

April 22, 2017

Jeanette Hayes Kingsley

April 22, 2017

We love you so much grandpa. There will never be anyone else like you. You were always thinking of others first making sure they were taken care of. You are the most loving person. You are the true example of how Jesus wanted us to live each day by being caring, loving, kind, and always willing to help others. I know you are with grandma in heaven, and knowing I will see you again is what helps at this difficult time. We miss you and love you so much.

Dad Mom William Steven

Lisa Hayes

April 22, 2017

Dad and Ernie

Lisa Hayes

April 22, 2017

Lisa Hayes

April 22, 2017

My heart feels broken.The greatest earthly man I have ever known was taken home to be with Jesus. The man who held me tight when I was scared ,taught me to Love with my whole heart, laugh rather than cry, be kind, respectful, honest ,generous and most importantly to always Trust God. I Love You Dad and will see you in Heaven.

Nanette Haughton

April 22, 2017

Our family is no longer whole after the loss of our parents (Our mother passed away last December and my father wanted nothing but to have his loving wife back. They're in Heaven together now along with our brother and their son, Richard Haughton IV -"Billy".

What a glorious day, when we meet on that beautiful shore!

Darlene Abbott (Parker)

April 22, 2017

He was a wonderful man. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers. I always enjoyed coming over to play as a kid. Even though I was his cousin, he treated me like one of his own children. If any of you need anything, please let me know.

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