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Thomas Banks Obituary
He is predeceased by his parents, his brother Carroll Warren Banks and his sister, Diane Banks Sturtevant. He subsequently entered into a domestic partnership with Linda Spruill until her demise at the hands of a brain tumor. He is survived by his nephew, Andrew Sturtevant of Saco, Maine, his supportive former spouse, Carolyn Machaj Banks and their two children, Stephanie Marie Banks McGurty (Kevin) of Virginia Beach and Eric Williams Banks (Meena) of Houston, Texas. Additionally, he has a loving granddaughter, Cassidy McGurty with whom he shares a special bond.
The family will receive friends on Friday, January 19, 2024 form 6-8 PM in Amory Funeral Home.
Toward the end of his fight, he learned the depth and pureness of unconditional love from his close friends and family.
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Retired Major Larry Nisley
July 6, 2024
I met Tom in the 1990's when I was a detective with Hampton Police. We worked on a couple of cases together. He was a cool person and levelheaded Agent for USPS. It was a pleasure to have worked with him. I lost track of him until I showed up at LGC and there he was working as Range officer. Surely, he will be missed.
Paul Fuqua
February 11, 2024
Tom and I shared an affection for Chevrolets. He entrusted me with the sale of his Virginia Beach home and representation of him when he bought the Seaford home. We enjoyed one another´s company and shared significant laughter. I will miss him.
Paul Fuqua
Berkshire Hathaway
Chesapeake, Virginia
Mike Gump
February 4, 2024
Tom was a classmate of mine in Postal Inspector training. He was a good person and associate for many years. May he rest in peace.
Ralph N Truitt
February 3, 2024
I met Tom through work in 1970. We became friends with Tom & Carolyn and even babysat Stephanie so the parents could have a night out. Who could forget the move from their apartment in an elevator building to Aston? Never forget Doug Ostwalt, Tom and me looking for fugitives in bars in West Philadelphia. I moved to Jefferson City, MO so we lost touch but I'll always remember Tom and his Datsun 240Z.
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John & Marie Gancel
January 23, 2024
Our condolences to the family. Tom joined our VCL car club over 20 years ago. He was always ready to help with that great smile beaming. He will be missed. John & Marie
Dwight Jenkins
January 19, 2024
My thoughts are with family and friends during this time of reflection.
Mickey and Toni McChesney
January 17, 2024
We were so sorry to hear about Tom´s passing. Our condolences to his family.
Mickey and Toni McChesney
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