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William Barlow Obituary

William Kyle Barlow was born on March 13, 1936 on Oak Crest farm in Isle of Wight County. He passed away from pancreatic cancer on September 21, 2022 at his Smithfield home of over five decades on the banks of the Pagan River. Bill, or "Billy K" to some, wanted to do good in the world and led a life committed to doing just that in his community and for his family. Raised during the Great Depression and World War II, Bill loved sharing with his grandchildren stories of growing up on the farm. The importance of education was instilled by his parents at an early age and he passed it on throughout his life. Bill graduated from Smithfield High School where he was a captain of the football, basketball, and baseball teams. He excelled at Virginia Tech, earning a degree in Agricultural Economics, serving as the Regimental Commander of the Corps of Cadets and as President of the Class of 1958. Throughout his life Bill stayed connected to Tech, watching football games, attending local Hokie meetings, and visiting Blacksburg when possible. He was President of the Board of the Virginia Tech Alumni Association and received the Distinguished Alumni Award. After graduation Bill served for four years as an intelligence officer in the U.S. Air Force, including a tour in Taiwan during a particularly tense time in the Cold War. Bill earned his law degree from the University of Virginia Law School in 1965 and returned to Smithfield to practice law for over 55 years. His practice was wide-ranging and focused on helping local people. He also volunteered legal services for the Isle of Wight County Rescue Squad and other community organizations. Bill served as board member and chair of the Walter Cecil Rawls Regional Library, on the Board of Obici Hospital, and as a founding member of the Citizens for Better Public Schools in Isle of Wight County, a local group organized to build support for public schools during the early 1970s when local schools remained largely segregated. Bill was active in Rotary and Ruritan and loved coaching youth t-ball and baseball spending many hours organizing practice drills and game strategy. In 1991, Bill won a seat in the Virginia House of Delegates, the first and oldest continuing lawmaking body in the Western Hemisphere. He represented the 64th District for 20 years, winning 10 elections. While district lines changed, he always represented parts of Isle of Wight, Surry, Franklin, and Southampton and also at times represented Prince George, Williamsburg, James City, Charles City, and Henrico. Supporting public education was his top priority and he enjoyed meeting people and building relationships across the communities he served. Bill was a lifelong member of Smithfield Baptist Church where he taught Sunday School, was a church Trustee, served on the Board of Deacons and as its chair, and served as Church Moderator for many years. Bill was predeceased by parents, Gordon Eugene Barlow and Gladys Holleman Barlow; brother, Gordon Eugene Barlow, Jr.; and son, Kyle Jefferson Barlow. He will be missed greatly by his surviving family: wife, Taylor Rowell Barlow of Surry; daughter, Amy Barlow Britt and son-in-law, William Everett Britt of Smithfield; son, Todd Rowell Barlow and daughter-in-law, Maggie Keating Barlow of Raleigh, NC; sisters, Hannah Barlow Bain of Wakefield and Sarah Barlow Wright of Smithfield; brother, Joseph H. Barlow, Sr. and wife Lynn of Suffolk; five grandchildren, Kathryn Britt, Everett Britt, Thomas Barlow, Henry Barlow, and Charles Barlow; and six nieces and nephews. Memorial contributions may be made to the Education Foundation for Isle of Wight Public Schools, 820 W Main Street, Smithfield, VA 23430 or to the Isle of Wight Christian Outreach Program, P.O. Box 253, Smithfield, VA 23430 or iowcop.net. On Saturday, September 24th at 1:00 pm, there will be a graveside service at Ivy Hill Cemetery in Smithfield followed by a 2:00 pm visitation and reception at Smithfield Baptist Church Family Life Center. Little's Funeral Home is handling arrangements. Online condolences may be registered at www.littlesfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Daily Press on Sep. 23, 2022.

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Cecelia G. Wilson

December 26, 2022

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and Mr. Barlow today and always.

Becky Dale

October 27, 2022

So sorry for your loss. Praying you are comforted by the love and support of family and friends and treasured memories you will carry until you meet in Paradise.

Linda & Roscoe Reynolds

October 4, 2022

Taylor,
Linda and I only learned of Bill's death a few minutes ago. We send to your family and you our sympathy. We both have missed being with Bill and you.

Barry and Pat Hood

October 3, 2022

One of the Virginia redistricting results placed us in Bill's district despite the fact that we lived on the other side of the James River and in a slightly more urban area. We were very pleased with the representation Bill gave our district and his thoughtful efforts to benefit the entire state. We're sure his Legislative efforts took much time away from his home and family. We want his family to know that as former constituents, we appreciated his work and were saddened by his passing. We hope dedicated people like Bill emerge to represent constituents today. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family today.

Karen

October 2, 2022

Our deepest sympathy
Rest In Peace my dear friend
You are always loved

Freddie Chapman

September 30, 2022

Taylor, I have already stated my feelings about Billy K! Due to recent medical problems, I could not be at Ivy Hill (which I so regret). Would like to just chat when you have a chance! Love and condolences to you and family.

Freddie Chaoman

September 30, 2022

One of the best

Lisa Rogers

September 29, 2022

Delegate Barlow, thank you for your selfless lifelong service to others. Your statesmanship, wisdom, kindness and gentle nature will be missed. Our prayers go out to his family who loved and supported him during his days, weeks and years away while serving so many.

Mary Minor

September 28, 2022

Bill Barlow was a grntleman who served with us with grace and integrity. My sympathy to Taylor and the family

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Don Dinse

September 28, 2022

Virginia Delegate Bill Barlow maintained a 100% Voting Record for Virginia First Responders since the first year he took political office. He was a True Proven Friend of ours. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

Denise N Tynes

September 28, 2022

I will always remember Attoney / Delegate William “Billy K.” Barlow as a very highly regarded gentleman in our community, who lived a life of the uppermost integrity.

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Henry Boyd

September 27, 2022

Wish more local attorneys would give their time and knowledge to the community as Bill did.

Leslie Byrne

September 26, 2022

Sorry to read of Bill´s passing. He was a thoughtful and kind man. Anyone would be lucky to work with him or call him a friend. I was fortunate to do both. Former Congresswoman Leslie Byrne

Chris Bridge

September 25, 2022

I was so sad to read about Bill's passing. I knew him in Richmond, where I was a lobbyist for a local government and he was the Delegate from Isle of Wight. A true gentleman and effective legislator, he was one of most thoughtful, intelligent and responsible people I ever met at the Capitol. We are sadly and desperately in need of more like him today in the legislative process. I valued the time I was able to work with him on legislative issues. RIP.

Gary & Marianne Mills

September 24, 2022

Such a kind & generous man; I babysat for their children and saw Delegate Barlow in Richmond when my husband was up for reappointment. He not only remembered me but came over to give me a hug. He will always be remembered for his devotion to his family, faith and his community. Our prayers go out to the family.

Pat Kessler

September 24, 2022

My sincere sympathy in your family's loss of Billy K. May God grant you peace in the days ahead. I saw him many times when I worked for the Commonwealth Attorney. My Elwin also died of pancreatic cancer.

Michael Willard

September 24, 2022

It is a temperate, beautiful day here in our "river kissed town". Eddie K at 93 says sometimes, “I think we might live in the garden spot of the world”, having been born, raised and lived here, just as Billy K was. It is right then that we spend this day at this place, our home, to remember a life well lived: dedicated to place and people, family and friends, and to service to our church and community. What an honor to call Billy K our friend. For the family and friends left behind, we will know sorrow and grief for a time, but know that Glory is his and His. We are with you. Mike, Karen, Bert "bj", and Eddie K.

Glenda and Richard Daughtrey

September 24, 2022

Sending prayers and fond thoughts to you, Taylor and family, during this difficult time. Billy K was such a kind man and gave so much to so many. He always had a smile and accomplished so much in his life to be proud of, touched so many and loved being a proud Hokie!! He will be greatly missed but always remembered with love and a smile.

Joseph Spratley Jr. & Joseph A. Spratley III

September 23, 2022

Condolences and deepest sympathies to the Barlow family. Lawyer Barlow was a very kind man and would always assist us in any legal matter that we had. Mr. Barlow was very thorough and passionate about his work. He will be truly missed in this community.

Iris Peden

September 23, 2022

So sorry to hear of the passing of Mr. Barlow. What a wonderful example of such a great man, He will be greatly missed by all! Thinking of you Taylor and all your family.

John Wandling

September 23, 2022

Bill was the real deal. I liked him a lot. Helped me with Real Eastate and with my brief political career. My condolences to the family.

Steven Butler

September 23, 2022

A good man I had pleasure doing business with, my father thought the world of Mr Barlow he have and will be missed

Dorothy Councill

September 23, 2022

Dear Taylor and family;
Jim and I send our deepest sympathy at Billy K's passing. He and Paul formed a strong alliance for the right and true in the General Assembly. They just don't make them like that anymore. Sending love and many fond memories.
Bambi and Jim Councill

Kendra Menefee Croshaw

September 23, 2022

Dear Maggie and Todd, I was saddened to hear of the passing of Bill. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Most sincerely, Kendra Menefee Croshaw

Vince Behm

September 23, 2022

I too served will Billy K in the House of Delegates, true Virginia Gentleman. He will be missed.

Brita Mizelle

September 22, 2022

My deepest sympathies to his family. He was a kind man with a sense of humor. I will miss seeing his smile.

Nancy Cutchin

September 22, 2022

Taylor, I am so sorry to hear of Bill’s passing. Prayers for you and your family. Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. ❤

Sabrina and Billy Rhodes

September 22, 2022

Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. He was such a special and thoughtful person and will be missed. Sincerely, Sabrina and Billy Rhodes

Brandon White

September 22, 2022

Sorry to see Mr Barlow has transitioned. He was truly and aide with any legal matter I had as an Agent. He and my Dad were very fond of each other as well.
Rest well Mrs. Barlow.

Brandon White

Linda Von Boone-Randolph

September 22, 2022

My condolences to the family. Mr. Barlow was a decent and caring gentleman.

Deloise & Kennith Gwaltney

September 22, 2022

Our sincere condolences to the Barlow family. Mr. Barlow, as well as his wife, has been a well known fixture throughout Isle of Wight County and will be truly missed. Praying your strength and comfort at his time.

Judy Davis

September 22, 2022

My condolences to the Barlow family, he was a well loved person. He was my family's lawyer for years. He will truly be missed.

Delegate Watts

September 22, 2022

I served with Bill in the House of Delegates, sitting next to him on the floor for many years: Such an honorable man ... dedicated and decent to his core. I know his life of service made a difference -- Delegate Vivian Watts

Becky & Wayne Pond

September 22, 2022

We have had the pleasure of living next door to Bill and Taylor for 2 decades. There are no better neighbors!! We are sad for such a huge loss to his family and the community. Our deepest condolences to Taylor and his whole family.

Cindy & Charles Huffman

September 22, 2022

Although living so far away I always felt a closeness to all my Barlow relatives. Billy K was always so sweet to me when I would come to Virginia with my Grandmother. A very special soul who is already greatly missed.

Bernie Henderson

September 22, 2022

It was my honor to serve in Virginia's government with Bill and to be the Henrico Democratic Committee Chair when he represented Henrico. He was a joy to work with and such a wonderful gentleman that I felt like I was bragging when I told someone he was my friend. Bill epitomized servant leadership with humility, dignity, diligence and compassion. Virginia is a much better place because of Bill Barlow's statesmanship.

Margaret Jones

September 22, 2022

My family always thought a lot of the entire Barlow family. My sincere condolences to all of his family. May God continue to bless you all.

Annamaria Pencola

September 22, 2022

I will truly miss Mr. Barlow. He was a great influence and inspiration in my life. His kindness and character were an example to every human being. The world should have more people like him.

Kirk and Amy Ring

September 22, 2022

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Timothy Lipp

September 21, 2022

Billy K was as good a man as I have ever known. Was an honor to know him as his pastor and friend. Until we meet again! Prayers for the family and friends.

Bob Stephenson

September 21, 2022

One of the most upstanding gentleman I have ever known.

Sharon&Elmer Jones

September 21, 2022

Our prayers and thoughts for all the family and friends

Dianne Walker

September 21, 2022

I am so deeply sorry to hear of Billy K's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with Taylor and all of the family.

Carolyn Harrup

September 21, 2022

I am so sorry to read of Billy K.'s passing! My love, thoughts and prayers are with Taylor and the Barlow family.

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