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Carol Stevens Obituary

Carol Mary (Chesser) Stevens, 62, of Charlottesville, Va. entered into rest surrounded by family on November 21, 2017 after suffering a sudden stroke. The daughter of the late Robert and Kathleen (Whalen) Chesser, she was born January 5, 1955 in Newburgh, N.Y. She was known for her never-ending patience, easy-going nature, love of family, exuberance for games, generosity, and unwavering faith in God. She possessed a contagious smile and laugh that filled the room with joy. Throughout her life she maintained a sweet and simple demeanor that won the trust and hearts of many, who even now are being changed by her witness of constant nurturing love and faith. Even in death, she has given of herself through organ and tissue donation. Carol is survived by her loving husband of 40 years, Gary; sons, Robert E. Stevens of N.C., and Paul S. Stevens (Bettina) of Va.; daughter, Cary Ellen Brown (Joshua) of N.C.; grandchildren, Luke, Lilah, Jordan, Sebastian, Olivia, Conner, and Cormac; brother Robert Chesser (Susan) of N.Y.; sisters, Sharon Monaco (Larry) of Fla., Kathleen Sullivan (Patrick), Mary Ellen Holmes (Tim), Nancy Wickham (Frank) and Margaret Chesser; brother-in-law J.C. Stevens (Juliet) and sister-in-law Charlene Pasquale (Chris) all of N.Y.; aunts Bernadette Dennis and Estelle Whalen; and numerous cousins, nephews, nieces and godchildren. She was an incredible wife, mother, Nana, daughter, sister and friend: spreading life wherever she went with an unending supply of love, a quiet strength and a willingness to help wherever needed. She was very active in her community through Marriage Encounter, Family Camp, Cursillo, Tired Mothers,Long Beach Island LLC, and was an avid supporter of right to life for unborn babies.Her gifts were unmatched, and her life will never be forgotten. There will be a Mass of Christian Burial at 12:15 p.m. on Monday, November 27, 2017 at Church of the Incarnation located at 1465 Incarnation Dr, Charlottesville, VA 22901. The family will begin receiving visitors at 11:30 a.m. Please join us in praying for the repose of Carol's soul and consolation of her family and friends. A celebratory luncheon will follow in the church hall. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Carol's memory to Family Camp at Camp Koinonia, P.O. Box 58, Spencerport, NY 14559 or to Pregnancy Centers of Central Virginia, 1416 Greenbrier Place, Charlottesville, VA 22901. The family is deeply grateful for the outpouring of love, prayers, and support during this difficult time. Condolences may be made to the family at www.hillandwood.com.

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Published by Daily Progress on Nov. 25, 2017.

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Joey & Randy Conlon

November 20, 2019

Gary, cant believe Carol has been gone 2 yrs. I continue to pray for you daily. Hope you are finding ways to move forward with her spirit by your side.

JoEllen Malara

December 9, 2017

Carol was a beautiful genuine Christian Woman who left an indelible mark on everyone's hearts. Love and prayers to all who are grieving her loss.

November 26, 2017

Please accept my condolences. Please know that the God of comfort feels your pain and sorrow. He actually provides something better to look forward to. Jeremiah 29:11 specifically tells us God wants to give us a peaceful "future and hope." He promises in the near future all the pain and sorrow you are experiencing about your loss will be gone and we will be able to enjoy perfect life with all our loved ones.*

Robin McKinstrie

November 26, 2017

Dear Gary and family... words cannot express how sad we feel... we are praying your faith brings you comfort and a sense of peace in a most unexplainable way but very real to you...... we really enjoyed our conversation at Regina's house with you and Carol just while ago.... it was wonderful to hear how crazy in love she was with your grandchildren.... we are so sorry for your loss...
With love.... Robin & Joe

Joey & Randy Conlon

November 26, 2017

We were shocked and saddened to learn of Carols's passing. What a sweetheart she was! Thoughts and prayers are with you Gary and your entire family. May loving memories help to comfort you.

Betsy Broadway

November 26, 2017

Sending my love, prayers, and condolences to the family. May God's love comfort you and bring you peace during this time of grief.

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