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Douglas Whitman obituary, 1953-2025, Charlottesville, VA

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1953

DIED

2025

UPCOMING SERVICE

Memorial Service

Dec. 14, 2025

4:00 p.m.

University Baptist Church

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Douglas Whitman Obituary

Douglas Lawrence Whitman, age 72, passed away on November 29, 2025, in Charlottesville, Virginia. Born on November 20, 1953, in South Orange, New Jersey, Doug lived a life rich with adventure, creativity, and love.

He is survived by his beloved wife of 46 years, Sallianne Whitman; his sister Mariel Bossert; his brother Mark Whitman; his children Emily Whitman, Josh Whitman and wife Jennifer, Amanda Simmons and husband Blake, Brittany Garvey and husband Frank; and his cherished grandchildren Matilda, Penelope, Maxwell, Cataleya, and Melody. Doug is also survived by nieces Ellen, Laura, and Ginny, and nephew William. He was predeceased by his parents, Margaret and Lawrence Whitman.

Doug's academic journey ultimately led him to Virginia Tech, where he earned a Bachelor's degree in Computer Engineering. Doug worked as an engineer for Comdial in Charlottesville until its closure in 2005. Following this, he began his own business as a residential electrician, where he was known for his expertise, work ethic, and being "really smart."

A true jack of all trades and master of many, Doug was a world traveler, pilot, sailor, cyclist, sheep farmer, donkey trainer, kite enthusiast, photographer, shade-tree mechanic, and vocalist. As a chronic tinkerer, Doug had multiple projects running and new ideas bubbling simultaneously. Still, he made time to help friends, family, and his community when needed. Doug was a phenomenal father and grandfather, always encouraging independence and curiosity through "asking questions."

Doug had a beautiful singing voice and performed with numerous musical groups, including the Virginia Consort, Zephyrus, New Lyric Theater, and Mira. Doug and Sallianne traveled the world together, most notably sailing around the Caribbean Sea and across the Atlantic Ocean on Olive Oyl, their 30' Cape Dory cutter.

In accordance with his wishes, Doug's body was donated to the Virginia Department of Health's State Anatomical Program, a testament to his lifelong love of learning. A memorial service and reception will be held at University Baptist Church in Charlottesville, VA on Sunday, December 14, 2025 at 4 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, Doug's family kindly requests that donations be made in his name to support wonderful causes close to his heart. Contributions can be made to.

Zephyrus, Central Virginia's Early Music Vocal Ensemble at https://zephyrus-va.org/wpdemo/donate.

or to Habitat for Humanity of Greater Charlottesville at https://cvillehabitat.app.neoncrm.com/forms/charlottesville.

Your generosity in honoring Doug's memory is greatly appreciated.

Doug's legacy is one of love, curiosity, and the joy of living life to its fullest. He will be deeply missed by all who knew him.
Published by Daily Progress on Dec. 4, 2025.

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Dec

14

Memorial service

4:00 p.m.

University Baptist Church

Charlottesville, VA

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Allison Dougherty(Garvey)

Yesterday

Doug was a wonderful father-in-law. I will be forever grateful for the kindness and generosity of spirit he showed my son. An amazing family.
Allison Dougherty (Garvey)

Judy Blooms

Yesterday

I'm heartbroken to receive this news! I wish Sallieanne and the family all manner of comfort and solace. With love. Judy

Chuck Gross

Yesterday

A fine engineer & talented friend & coworker. God Bless you Doug.

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