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Jay W. Worrall Jr.

1916 - 2010

Jay Wesley Worrall Jr., died Tuesday, March 16, 2010, at the University of Virginia Medical Center, as a result of a fall near his home. He was 94 years old and had been a resident of Charlottesville and Albemarle County for the past 44 years.

Jay was born in Media, Pennsylvania, and attended Marple High School, where his father was a teacher and principal. He graduated from Haverford College in 1937. During World War II he served in the Army Signal Corps in the United States. He met Carolyn Randal while at Officers Candidate School in St. Louis, Missouri, in 1942. She was a secretary in an office there; her chair was broken and he offered to repair it. They were married in August of that year and remained so for 67 years until his death.

Jay left active duty at the end of the war and worked as marketing manager for a manufacturing company in Reading, Pennsylvania. There he settled with his growing family and joined the Religious Society of Friends at Reading Meeting. He was called back into the military for the Korean War and sent to Asmara, Eritrea, in Africa where there was a small United States Army base. He remained as an active duty officer, serving in the United States and Europe until his retirement in 1966. A contributing factor for his relatively early retirement was his and his family's highly visible participation in the civil rights movement in Petersburg, Virginia, an activity which many of his superior officers were hostile to.

He arrived in Charlottesville that year to work in the United States Community Action Organization Region 10 Office later in 1966. When the office moved to Philadelphia several years later, he decided to remain in the area, first heading the Charlottesville-Albemarle CAO and later founding Offender Aid and Restoration (OAR), an organization dedicated to assisting offenders in local jails to reenter society after their release. Initially established with four offices in Virginia, the organization spread to other states as a model for offender rehabilitation.

Jay Worrall Jr. dedicated his life to civil rights, social justice, peace and other concerns relating to the most disadvantaged in our society. After retiring for a second time as Director of OAR-USA he wrote The Friendly Virginians: America's First Quakers - Iberian Publishing, 1994, regarded as the most comprehensive history of the Quakers in Virginia from colonial to modern times.

In addition to his wife, Carolyn, he is survived by five children, Jay III, James, Emilie Worrall, Sarah O' Reilly, and Laura Tennison; 10 grandchildren and six great-grandchildren (and counting).

A memorial service will be held at the Tandem Friends School on Tandem Lane, Charlottesville, 1 p.m. Saturday, March 27, 2010.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to OAR, Jefferson Area, 434-296-2441.


This obituary was originally published in the Daily Progress.
Published by Daily Progress on Mar. 19, 2010.

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Courtney Brown

March 27, 2010

"MR. WORRALL WAS A GREAT MAN FOR THE LITTLE TIME I GOT TO KNOW HIM, I TOOK CARE OF HIS WIFE ON WEEKENDS AND EVERYTIME HE WALKED INTO THE ROOM HER FACE WOULD LIGHT UP WITH JOY. . I WILL MISS HIS GREAT SMILE WHEN I'M WITH CAROLYN. THEY HAD A SPECIAL BOND AND YOU COULD BE AROUND THEM FOR 2 SECONDS AND FEEL THE LOVE. THE WORRALL FAMILY PLEASE STAY STRONG.

david eberhardt

March 25, 2010

After civil rights icon, Walter Carter and peace movement hero, Father Phil Berrigan, Jay was a mentor of mine as I set up the Baltimore Chapter of O.A.R. Like his neighbor on the hill, Thomas J, Jay was a founder, a founding father- a man who brought the idea of volunteerism in criminal justice to fruition.
"I think continually on those who are truly great"- poet Stephen Spender
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March 24, 2010

Emilie, my condolences to you and your family. I have fond memories of a Scrabble tournament at your parents' home many years ago. Your father gave me the winner's grand prize ($1) and your mother served wonderful homemade pie! Debbie Davenport

Ken Coughlin

March 23, 2010

What a good, sweet man we have lost. I first met Jay and Carolyn as a teenager in the late 60s through the Charlottesville Friends Meeting, and I have fond memories of afternoon parties out at their Keswick farm. Jay seemed always to have time for you, to be interested in you. In the social struggles of the day he was like a tall, unbending oak.

Jessica McCoy

March 20, 2010

I remember meeting Jay in 2000 when I joined the Charlottesville Friends Meeting, and remember him as a weighty, wise, warm and caring person. He will be greatly missed.

I am holding the Worrall's, their extended family and friends in the Light.

Stephanie Mullaney Lee

March 20, 2010

I remember first meeting Jay and Carolyn when we moved to Charlottesville. Some of our things were stored in an outbuilding at your house- I'm assuming my parents had moved some things ahead of time and you had offered to keep them until our official move. Here was this couple with this great big yard who seemed so old (sorry- I was 6!!!), but who had so much energy! I remember feeling very comfortable in their presence.

Another memory is of an OAR Christmas party (with Elephant Gift Exchange). My sister ended up with the big purple bunny that I so wanted! I was so disappointed, but wouldn't be for long. I was taken to the attic and offered a doll's high chair which I still have.

As I got older, I began to understand and appreciate all that this extraordinary couple did for others, especially those whom society often neglects.

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May your memories comfort you.

Stephanie Witcher

March 19, 2010

Laura, Sarah, Emilee, I am sorry for your loss. Through our association as teens, I met your dad and he left me with the impression of someone who through his work truly cared about his services to our society. What a legacy! You remain in my thoughts and prayers through your time of grief. Stephanie Witcher

Rey & Gimmer Barry

March 19, 2010

Condolences to the family of this wonderful, extraordinary man.

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