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Alice Hill
August 17, 2024
Sending Condolences To Carolyn Nesselroade And Family! Met This Lovely Couple At My Former Dental Practice That I Retired From! Really Missed Them! Bonded With Them From Day 1! May John Rest In Heavenly Peace. Sent With Love!
Tenko Raykov
August 4, 2024
Dear Carolyn,
I was deeply saddened to hear of John's passing. Please accept my heartfelt condolences on his passing away.
He was and remains an indelible part of my professional and all beyond life, and I am proud and privileged to consider myself one of his very many mentees. He remains such a part of my memory as well.
Tenko Raykov
Joy Lose
August 3, 2024
Carolyn I was so sorry to hear about your husband. I worked for him at Penn State and he was always so respectful and caring of everyone ... whether faculty, staff or students. I remember both him and you fondly. I pray for peace and comfort for you.
Christine Windbichler (Paul Baltes' widow)
August 2, 2024
Dearest John, my irreplaceable friend,
Our riveting conversations have come to an end.
Our chats were deep and funny and svelte,
light as cat´s paws Paul´s presence was felt.
We mourn a vast loss; great gain helps us mend.
Bethany Teachman
July 31, 2024
John was a wonderful colleague and inspiring teacher and scholar. When I first started as an assistant professor at UVA, he kindly let me sit in on one of his amazing classes on how to understand the ways individuals change over time. So many of his lessons have stuck with me - so much so, that I cited his ideas while presenting at a clinical psychology conference last week. His kindness and patience, openness to questions, and commitment to supporting junior colleagues meant a lot to so many of us. He will be greatly missed.
Dennis Proffitt
July 31, 2024
John was a model to me for how academics should comport themselves.
When informing past graduate students of John's passing, I wrote, "You all have outstanding quantitative skills, which we owe, in part, to John who built and led our Quantitative Area." Among the many replies that I received, Jon Zadra wrote, "Somehow, at least for me, he transformed statistics from a big scary beast into a manageable, understandable tool." Recalling an office meeting with John to discuss quantitative issues in his research, Jon wrote: "My recollection of that meeting was that he was so mellow and accepting of my lack of knowledge that I was put at ease and was able to pepper him with questions. I think that he and his teaching style were part of why I loved my education at UVa."
Through his teaching and by example, John Nesselroade made us all better scientists and better people.
Gerald L. Clore
July 31, 2024
John was one of my oldest friends. I met him in 1966 when he was a graduate student at Illinois and I was a new Assistant Professor. What a wonderful suprise when I came to UVA to learn that John was a colleague here after his time at Penn State. We were frequent lunch partners, the last time being just a few weeks ago. So, we were friends for nearly 60 years... Thanks John for dozens of memorable lunches and so many wise observations.
Hudson Golino
July 31, 2024
John Nesselroade was not just one of the founding fathers of Quantitative Psychology and a living legend. He was also a dear friend to countless people, a caring and very kind individual, and a very, very funny person.
In 2007, with the passing of Paul Baltes, he wrote a letter to celebrate his life and the LIFE academy that Paul created and shaped. Here's my favorite part of the letter:
"Finally, a few words of advice about life that obviously do not come from a philosopher: "In the future, if life should give you lemons, make lemonade. Then, find someone to whom life has given Jack Daniels- blend your assets and have a party! Paul would approve -as long as you finish that manuscript first. But-hey! Thats life!"
He will be missed by many. His work and legacy will continue to impact our field for generations to come.
Thanks for being a good and supportive friend during these past seven years, John.
Vitae lampada tradunt
Dan Willingham
July 31, 2024
John was a wonderful colleague and an outstanding mentor to me when I started at UVa in 1992. He was unfailingly kind and helpful to me, as I was navigating academia as a rookie professor. I will remember him fondly, and offer condolences to his family.
John Nesselroade
July 31, 2024
My Uncle John was my father’s best friend and life long confidant. They shared an upbringing and perspective that became a language they alone spoke. Uncle John was always the smartest man in the room.
Becky Padgett
July 30, 2024
My sincere condolences to Carolyn, their family and friends. Always enjoyed seeing them, in their Corvette at Colonial Auto Service.! So sorry for your loss. Prayers for wonderful memories of love, comfort, peace, during this time of grief.
Richard M. Lerner
July 30, 2024
In response to my email, friends in John's network replied:
Dear Rich,
Thank you for your beautiful words about John; your description of him is so true, both in terms of his scientific impact, and in terms of his warm humanness. I am so glad I got the chance to know him a little.
Below is a message I shared earlier today on Facebook in the Psychological Dynamics group; I thought you may perhaps find comfort in reading what others are sharing too.
Best,
Ellen
Yesterday, I learned that John Nesselroade unexpectedly passed away the night before. He was 88 years old, and had just celebrated his 65th anniversary with his wife Carolyn earlier this month.
John was a giant in the fields of quantitative and lifespan developmental psychology. Inspired by his PhD supervisor Raymond Cattell, who proposed the P-technique (i.e., the factor analysis of multivariate repeated measures of a single person), John dedicated his career to promoting the study of intraindividual (or within-person) variability, and interindividual differences therein. In doing so, he built longstanding collaborations with Paul Baltes, Peter Molenaar, Jack McArdle, and Steve Boker, among others.
His thought-provoking 1991 publication "The warp and woof of developmental fabric" posed the-then science fiction-like-idea to study short-term (e.g., day-to-day) intraindividual variability and long-term (e.g., annual) intraindividual change through an approach he called the measurement burst design. Nowadays, there is a fast growing body of research that employs such a design, but at the time, it was a bold suggestion and primarily a thought experiment. Such data were very hard to collect before the era of beepers, mobile phones and wearable devices, when researchers had to rely on paper questionnaires and stamped envelopes, hoping participants would regularly return their completed forms. Moreover, the general sentiment at the time was that intraindividual short-term fluctuations were mere noise-a zeitgeist that is hard to believe nowadays, when seeing all the work that is done using ESM, EMA, ILD, etc.. I believe John´s work has been foundational in forging this paradigm shift in psychological research; this Facebook group is one of the many results of the changes this created.
In 2005 I did a postdoc with John at UVa, during which I came to know him not only as a creative thinker and elegant writer, but also as a very kind, thoughtful, and unpretentious person. His attitude has been very inspirational to me. He was the mentor to many-some of who are also in this group, and many who have had much closer and more recent interactions with him than I did. Yet, I am sharing this post as Carolyn indicated she wanted to let people who had some kind of connection to John know about his passing, not only to inform them, but also to reflect on and celebrate his life. From Ellen Hamaker
Thank you for sharing this, Rich. Had you not sent it I perhaps wouldn't have known about John's passing. You wrote a very eloquent statement and it was 100% on target. I would add that following what happened to me at Penn State, John was among the most supportive of my friends and colleagues. He steadfastly stood behind me and provided support and encouragement. From Graham B. Spanier
Dear Rich, Wonderfully said! Thank you for this. From Glen Elder
Hi Rich,
Thank you for sharing this sad news. I am so grateful to you for giving me the opportunity to meet John and the training to understand his contributions to the field. He certainly leaves a strong legacy. Fron Jennifer Agans
Rich-- Sorry to hear of John's passing. I agree wholeheartedly with everything you said. It was a privilege to be at Penn State when he was teaching there. From Bob Larzelere
Very sad. Thanks for letting me know. He was a giant in the field throughout my career. From Michael E. Lamb
Hi Rich, Well this is very sad news indeed. John was a special person and, like you, he certainly influenced my career. One project we did together was an important catalyst for the Victoria Longitudinal Study as I noted in the forward of the book Chris, Roger and I wrote. Even more important he was a great guy. I used to enjoy going to lunch with him and talking about all sorts of stuff. Thank you for letting me know. From David Hultsch
I hear this and it feels like a like a shot to my heart. Everything you say is so on the mark. I also felt John to be a friend, a brilliant intellectual colleague and mentor, and one of the finest people I have ever known. It´s a terrible loss to we who knew him, and to our Developmental community. Fron Bill Overton
Dear Rich: This is a most sad message! Thank you for sharing!
John surely was among the great ones of our discipline! He was also among the great ones as a human being! He will be missed! From Alex and Donata von Eye
Dear Rich, It's very saddening news! John helped me with language editing of my very first peer-reviewed journal article [Boehnke, K. (1984). F- and H-Test Assumptions Revisited. Educational and Psychological Measurement, 44(3), 609-617. Thank you for letting me/us know. From Klaus Boehnke
Richard M. Lerner
July 30, 2024
When I learned of John's passing, I wrote to our shared professional networ
Dear Colleagues. It is with deep sorrow that I write to note the passing of a dear friend, colleague, mentor, and one of history's most accomplished and significant developmental scientists, John Nesselroade.
John was a wise, warm, humorous, creative, generous, kind, humble, and creative and brilliant scholar. His work has shaped and continues to shape theory and research across at least three generations of developmental scientists. His contributions to the life-span developmental perspective, to developmental methodology, and to understanding adult development and aging stand as historically important and, in fact, foundational to what are today the cutting-edges of each of these domains of scholarship.
John´s mentorship positively shaped my career and, quite literally, the careers of hundreds of other colleagues and former students. John, with colleagues such as Peter Molenaar, Nilam Ram, Ellen Hamaker, Steve Boker, and many, many others, championed a person-specific, non-ergodic approach to human development. He also championed integrity, decency, and a belief in the importance of good science and of the need for true community within the concept of a scientific community. He and his family were important part of the lives of all that knew them.
Having John in my life was a special gift. He has been my model as a developmental scientist and as a person for 50 years. His memory will be cherished by everyone who was fortunate enough to share their lives with him.
Warmest regards, Rich Lerner
Dale
July 29, 2024
A brother who was more than just a brother. He was a dear friend who wise and compassionate. I will miss our conversations which invariably resulted in humorous reminiscences of our late teens and early twenties.
Nancy Kent
July 29, 2024
He was a wonderful big brother. I adored him! He was such a kind, gentle man. We already miss him greatly.
Deb Hadley
July 29, 2024
A genuinely good man who accomplished great things. I was lucky to call him Uncle. He will be sorely missed.
Jennie Nesselroade
July 29, 2024
He will be greatly missed
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