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William Howard Rough (1939-2024) of Charlottesville, died suddenly on May 27, 2024, at the age of 84.

Born in Washington, DC, to Howard F. Rough and Helen M. Rough, two adventurous pilots, he grew up in Arlington, VA and Paris, France. He attended the Landon School, in Bethesda, MD, where his love of theater began as president of his high school drama club. He received his Bachelor's degree from Princeton University and a Masters in International Education at Columbia University.

In 1965, he married Joan Zabski, whom he had met in Killington, VT. Together, they had two children, Mark William Rough and Lisa Joan Rough, with whom he shared his love of literature and folk music.

He taught for a number of years at St. Johnsbury Academy in St. Johnsbury, VT, before co-founding the Peacham School, an Alternative Highschool in Peacham, VT. His drama teaching was a primary creative outlet as he discovered how deeply he could reach kids through "exploring what it is to be someone else."

He moved with his family to Lexington, VA in 1969, where he taught at the then Southern Seminary Junior College. They later moved to Charlottesville, where he pursued an MFA at University of Virginia. While there, he co-authored, "STEP RIGHT UP: the Adventure of Circus in America", with friend, circus historian, and colleague, LaVahn Hoh.

Over the years he has acted and directed primarily at Live Arts, but also at Piedmont Virginia Community College, and other local theater groups. He served as the president of the National Secondary School Theater Association, which later became the American Alliance for Theater and Education.

Following in the spirit of his parents, he and Joan traveled extensively, including multiple trips to Ireland where he fell in love with Irish traditional music. He played tin whistle, ukulele, and sang at many local music sessions.

He is survived by his wife, Joan; his son, Mark and daughter-in-law, Jane McCarty, of Ivy, VA; and Lisa Rough Broglin and her wife, Deena Broglin, of Black Mountain, NC; his grandchildren, Zoe Rough-Broglin, Noah Rough-Broglin, Dustin McCarty, Trisha McCarty; and a great-granddaughter, Ava Patterson.

There will be a Celebration of His Life at the Colonnades in early August. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Live Arts or the Sheldrick Wildlife Trust, a haven for elephants and rhinos in Nairobi, Kenya, an organization he was strongly passionate about and supported.

Condolences may be sent to the family at www.hillandwood.com.

Published by Daily Progress from Jun. 6 to Jun. 8, 2024.

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Peggy Galloway

June 25, 2024

I felt honored and blessed to be part of Reader's Circle with Bill, even briefly and will miss his generous spirit. He was a wonderful reader and obviously a dedicated lover of the theater.

Janet Miller

June 20, 2024

So sorry to hear of Bill´s passing. I have such fond memories of you both. I send all good thoughts and warm hugs to you, Joan. Janet Miller

Bill Harris

June 11, 2024

Dear Joan and Family -
Although we lost touch long ago, Bill has never been far away from mind. As a drama student of his at St. Johnsbury Academy, I along with so many others were touched in ways that are with us today. His spirit, humor, encouragements and admonishments were always spot on.

Sincere condolences to the family.

Steve Tharp

June 9, 2024

I was very saddened to learn of Bill`s passing. I had a great honor and pleasure of knowing him as a friend and working with him on various theater projects over the past 30 years. He will be sorely missed.

kay slaughter

June 8, 2024

joan , i am so sorry about bill´s death. although i have not seen either of you in recent years, I've long been aware of his contributions to theater and yours to visual arts.
Reading the obit, i realized bill and i, who are the same age, lived in Arlington during the same time. i wish i had had an opportunity to compare notes.
fondly, kay slaughter

Larry S Krucoff

June 7, 2024

Dear Joan,
I knew Bill as a schoolmate and later as the glue that kept our Landon class of '57 together. He was the best of us. Larry Krucoff

Gail Raymaker

June 7, 2024

Dear Joan and Family
We just learned of Bill's death and were so saddened. He was a "great guy". We remember meeting him at the Irish sessions where Gail played hammered dulcimer and Jerry enjoyed the whole scene...especially the humor and kindness of Bill. Our son Nick saw him in a play at Heritage and later met Bill to congratulate him. Again Bill was kind and enthusiastic about theatre. Nick ended up a theatre major at William and Mary and later received an MFA in acting at Columbia. All of us send you our sincere condolences.

Stephanie González

June 6, 2024

I am so sorry to hear the loss of Bill. My love and thoughts are with you all. Peace be with you all.

Bill Davis

June 6, 2024

Sorry, Bill, we never had that lunch we talked about doing for 20 years!
Was very fond of Bill! His warm hearted direction of "Ah, Wilderness!" at Live Arts will never be forgotten...

Barbara Germershausen

June 6, 2024

Bill was a kind, generous, thoughtful, and fun-loving character. I will miss his smile, his laughter, and those warm bear hugs, but most of all I will miss the twinkle in his eyes. Rest in peace, Bill. My condolences to the family.

Jim Witkower

June 6, 2024

Bill was my massage client for years. We, many times, shared similar and dissimilar points of view, on a range of topics. Bill was a precious man. Likable, easy to talk to, and we also shared a love of the Theatre. You are missed!!!

Demi Runkle

June 6, 2024

Dearest Joan,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences for the loss of your wonderful husband. Bill was a special human being!

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