Carolyn McInerney McGrath

Carolyn McInerney McGrath
Mrs. Carolyn McInerney McGrath, a long-term Darien resident, passed away peacefully on December 17, 2024, surrounded by her loving family.
Carolyn, aged 83, was the wife of the late F. Gerard (Gerry) McGrath with whom she spent over 40 wonderful years with until he passed in 2013. Carolyn is survived by her son, Mark, and daughter-in-law, Maureen, her son, Kevin and daughter-in-law, Gabby, and her daughter, Maureen. She is also survived by her eleven grandchildren, Julieanne, Amanda, Caitlin, Mia, Vivian, Rowan, Nora, Declan, Conor, Kieran, and Callum, sister, Janet Sargent and brother-in-law, Bruce Sargent, and brother, H. Jay McInerney and sister-in-law, Heidi McInerney, seven nieces and nephews, and many cousins in California and throughout the country. Carolyn was predeceased by her father, Timothy O'Driscoll McInerney, mother, Marguerite Kirby McInerney, brother, Timothy McInerney and sister, Susan McInerney.
Carolyn received her B.A. from Newton College of the Sacred Heart in 1963. Following her graduation, Carolyn worked as a teacher before joining Citibank, where she worked until the birth of her first child. Carolyn and Gerry moved to Darien in 1976 and remained active in the town from that time until her death.
Carolyn was a dedicated wife, sibling, mother, grandmother, and friend. She cared deeply about her family and friends and derived great joy and happiness from spending time with them. Carolyn was always interested in listening and learning about what was new or interesting in their respective lives. Whether it was sitting on a beach, playing bridge, golf, sharing a meal, or just socializing, Carolyn was known for her caring, wit, inquisitive and manner.
Carolyn was dedicated to many charitable and civic causes throughout her life, including serving on the Board of the Museum of Darien (formerly the Darien Historical Society), the Darien Beautification Commission, the Advisory Committee of Notre Dame's College of Arts and Letters with Gerry, the Darien Representative Town Meeting, and Garden Club of Darien. When she was not donating her time and talents to those causes, Carolyn was an active member of Wee Burn Country Club, The University Club, and the Wianno Club. She particularly loved spending time in Cape Cod, which she continued to visit every year to connect with her many college and other friends from around the area.
A Mass of Christian Burial was held at St. Thomas More Church, 374 Middlesex Road, Darien, on December 23, 2024, at 10:30 a.m.., followed by a reception at Wee Burn Country Club. A private burial will be held at Spring Grove Cemetery in Darien.
The family wishes to extend its deep gratitude to the Angela and Denise from Home Care Connectors and the nurses and other professionals at Waveny for their exceptional care and attention to Carolyn.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the charity of your choice.