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Frank Stilwell Obituary

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STILWELL, Frank B. III age 50, formerly of Kettering passed away Thursday Oct 24, 2007 at his home in Arlington, Virginia. He was a 1975 graduate of Fairmont East High School. Frank earned his Political Science degree from Wright State University and his Law degree from Georgetown University School of Law Washington, DC. He was a member of the First United Methodist Church and the Virginia, Maryland and D.C. Bar Associations. He worked as a government attorney for the FCC in Washington DC, and was a Ham Radio enthusiast. Survivors include his parents Frank B. and Doris Stilwell; three nephews William, Christopher and Nicholas Bechler. He was preceded in death by his sister Patricia Bechler in 1999. Friends may call from 5-7 pm Friday at Routsong Funeral Home, 2100 E Stroop Rd., Kettering, where funeral services will be held 10:00 am Saturday. The burial will follow in the Woodland Cemetery. Condolences and remembrances may be sent to the family by visiting www.routsong.com.

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Published by Dayton Daily News on Oct. 31, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
for Frank Stilwell

14 Entries

Edward Krauland

November 12, 2007

Dear Family Members of Frank:

I learned last week of Frank's passing, and so I write to extend my deepest condolences to you, and to his many friends. Early in his legal career, Frank was an attorney with our law firm, Steptoe & Johnson, in Washington, D.C. I had the pleasure to work with him when he was here, and it was immediately apparent that Frank was a remarkably talented young lawyer and a special human being. He contributed significantly to the cases on which he worked, and strengthened the personal and professional camaraderie of our law firm. Frank left a lasting impression on us all. In addition to his many accomplishments, I cannot think of a finer tribute to any human being than that Frank made a difference in this world, and touched so many people with his his kindness and his determination. I, and those of us at Steptoe & Johnson that had the good fortune to know Frank, will miss him dearly but remember him always.

Sincerely,

Edward J. Krauland

JOYCE SEEFLUTH

November 11, 2007

DEAR DEE & FRANK,
FRED & I WERE BOTH VERY SAD TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS. MAY PEACE & WONDERFUL MEMORIES OF FRANK JR. FILL YOUR HEARTS AT THIS TIME OF SORROW.
LOVE JOYCE & FRED

Erika Zwissler

November 7, 2007

Dear Mr. & Mrs. Stilwell,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of mourning. Bill talked about Frank and his spirit often. I (Erika) met Fank only once when we first came from Germany in 1982. I was amazed to learn of his acomplishments.I am sure he was and will continue to be an inspiration to many people.
Sincerely Bill Zwissler & Family

jJane Burns

November 6, 2007

With our deepest sorrow on the loss of your son ,we all cared for him very much,well remember him in our prayers for ever.
love from
Jane & Sam Burns & Family
Barbara Zwissler .Bill Zwissler
& Family, Charles Zwissler & Family, Raymond Zwissler Jr. & Family

Sandy Chamblee

November 6, 2007

I met Frank during his time as an attorney with the law firm of Steptoe & Johnson, here in Washington, DC. He was a bright, hard-working man with a great sense of humor and positive attitude toward life. He will truly be missed.

Kenneth Jordan

November 6, 2007

I remember Frank as a brother of the Phi Kappa Tau Fraternity at Wright State. I had been an advisor of the Chapter when I first met Frank. We had been working on a braille edition of the Fraternity's Constitution but I don't recall if we finished that project. Frank worked for Judge John Weld Peck of the U.S. Sixth Circuit Court of Appeals when he lived in Cincinnati. My office is in the Federal Building right across the street from the U.S. Courthouse and I would sometimes meet Frank for lunch. I enjoyed his stories of some of the cases he was working on. He was a fine fellow. I enjoyed talking fraternity matters with him. He was a level-headed man and I will miss catching up with him. "The silver cord is loosed; the golden bowl is broken." In Phi, Kappa and Tau, we will meet again one day in Chapter Eternal.

Steve Swope

November 3, 2007

I met Frank when we were students at Oak Creek Elementary. I recall that he had a great love for baseball. Although he wasn't able to run the bases, we still managed to find a way for him to join us on the playground diamond. Later, in junior high, I discovered that he had created an intricate fantasy baseball game based upon statistical analysis of past teams. Quite an accomplishment for a 14-year-old kid!
As Dave Baumann mentioned earlier in the guest book, many of us became reacquainted with Frank through our high school reunions and subsequent email activity. I'm glad to have had the opportunity to know him. I'm sorry I'll not be on hand to share memories with you this week, but I'll be thinking of you and of Frank nonetheless.

sincerely,

Martin Arbagi

November 2, 2007

Although over thirty years have elapsed, I still recall Mr. Stilwell as one of my finest students. He overcame his disability with no apparent effort. I was pleased when he went on to Georgetown University's School of Law, as I had done my own undergraduate work at that institution. On behalf of the Wright State University faculty, I extend sincerest condolences to Frank's family at this moment of grief.

Martin Arbagi, Professor Emeritus of History

Joe, Lori and Family Zwissler

October 31, 2007

Dear Mr.and Mrs. Stilwell,

We were so sadden with the news of Frank's passing. What a super person he was. He inspired almost everone who knew him and he accomplished so much in life with his handicap that few could ever mimic. In elementary school he was my best friend and probably trusted me more then I deserved. He taught me a great deal about how to deal with my imperfections by just witnessing his successes. I pray that God has a special place for such a wonderful individual as Frank, and I pray for you and your family in this time of mourning. Frank will be missed! I am so greatful that got to know your amazing son.

Sincerely,
Joe Zwissler and Family

Dave Baumann

October 31, 2007

My condolences to Frank's loved ones,

I first met Frank in 7th grade at JFK Jr High School. I remember we elected him president of our class that year. He was such a likeable person. As the years went by, and I was in classes with him, my respect and admiration for him grew.
I last saw him at our 25th high school reunion in 2000. I had the pleasure to spend some time talking with him that night. Many times, since then, he shared e-mails on our high school e-group
He was truly one of the most remarkable people I have ever met in my life. I am grateful to have had the opportunity to have known him.

May you find comfort in the knowledge that he touched the lives of so many of us.

Sincerely,

Ruthann WD8BMK (Weaver) Stambaugh

October 31, 2007

Dear Stilwell Family,
We have lost a great friend in Frank, but so many happy memories of him remain. I will always remember a group of us canoeing and Frank and crew (myself included) fell into Hueston Lake, our hamfest adventures, and last but not least, his Anita Ward "Ring My Bell" imitation. Frank was a very passionate, inspiring person. Our prayers are with you during this time.

Don Bond

October 31, 2007

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Frank. I only knew him for a short time, but he was a very nice person....

Don

JoAnne (Birnbaum) West

October 31, 2007

I remember Frank most from junior high. He was amazing. He had such a love for baseball. He had dreams and pursued them. He was such a role model for never quitting. Frank will be missed. I want to extend my condolences.

Janet Stinson

October 31, 2007

Dear Dee and Frank,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Barbara called Virginia yesterday. PSWC
cares and prays for you as do Jim and Virginia,and Red and I.
Love, Janet
Love, Janet

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