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BHAI, John Dav age 33, of Dayton, Ohio was born on April 30, 1977 and passed away on January 20, 2011. John was a graduate of Centerville High School and co-owner of Brixx Ice Company Restaurant in Dayton. John is survived by his father Harrish Bhai of Colorado Springs, CO, one brother, Christopher Bhai of Dayton, Karin Gurokovich of Calhan, CO, his girlfriend Ashley Hitchcock, Dayton and his maternal grandmother, Joan Cooper, Blue Creek, OH,. Niece and nephew, Alexa and Matthew Gurokovich of Calhan, CO. He also leaves to mourn a host of aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. John was preceded in death by his mother Shirley Bhai, his maternal grandfather, Bruce Cooper, paternal grandparents Tirath Das Bhai And Parvati Bhai. John was a loving son and brother who enjoyed the outdoors and had traveled all over the world before returning home to fulfill his dream of being co-owner of Brixx with his brother Christopher. He enjoyed watching sports with family and friends and was a life long fan of the Cincinnati Reds. A Memorial Service will be held at 7pm on Wednesday, January 26th 2011 at Schlientz & Moore Funeral Home 820 Miamisburg-Centerville Road (St. Rt. 725). Prior to the memorial service a visitation will be held to receive friends and family beginning at 5pm, all are welcome to attend. John will be forever missed by all who knew him. A complete life-story and online condolences are available at Schlientzandmoore.com
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Harish Bhai
September 24, 2011
John was our youngest child and he lived a very short life .He was born in Dayton at Kettering hospital in the early morning of April 30.1977, his mother and I were so proud . He travelled and lived in many states all over the country and of course to India and Europe . He loved to ski and seemed very happy with his girl friend.
I loved him with all my heart and I miss him every day . He think of him every time I see foot ball game or base ball game and even watching Simpson's or see his picture . I can;t believe that he is gone and it is still fogey. I still don't understand why he had to go so early .He had his whole life in front of him and I would have helped him any way I could regardless including with my own life if needed .He is with his mom now and she will take care of him now who loved him very much .He is buried next to his mom and I will be next when I go . I love you John and will miss you till we meet again .
Love and always ,
Dad
Erin Sullivan
March 11, 2011
John, You were my first boyfriend. So sweet and charming. It has been years, but I can still remember how much fun we had and your smile and laugh. Thank you for being part of my life.
Erin Sullivan
March 11, 2011
John, You were my first boyfriend. So sweet and charming. It has been years, but I can still remember how much fun we had and your smile and laugh. Thank you for being part of my life.
Ryan Terry
January 28, 2011
I not only had the chance to work with john for many years but also to call him a good friend. So, to my friend John: You have left us way too soon in life and for that I am saddened deeply. You were not only a great friend to me, of which I have been laughing for days thinking of hundreds of moments with you over the years. You were also a great mentor for me, giving me advice that I cared about and acted upon in life during years in my life that a lot of difficult decisions had to be made. I know for hundreds of people around the country you made a large impact in others lives and that will truly be an amazing legacy to leave behind in your all to short time here with us. I wish with all my heart I could have said these words to you one last time. Unfortunately we do not have that opportunity but I will toast a redbull to you (already have) and am thankful for the time I was able to spend with you in life. You were a great friend, man, mentor in life to me and so many others. Love you bro!
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Boo
January 27, 2011
I worked with my John Bhai at T.G.I. Friday's he touched many people's hearts. He always had the "arm" to put around you in your time of need. His heart was bigger than the world as was his smile. His friends here in Colorado will be having a John Bhai tribute this tuesday. We will raise our glasses to a man that was our "BIG RED MACHINE"...I love you, John Bhai
Amanda Gamble
January 27, 2011
The Spike, Horseshoe Lake, Box Lunches, Lynx Pizza, The Crow’s Nest, Half Baked, Northern Lights, Cold As Rice, Kings Island, Indian Food, Chris’ Hot Dogs, Hamburger King, Alaska, Alabama, Ohio, Georgia, Colorado, Florida, Tennessee, Canada, Liard Hot Springs, Denali Highway, Six Flags, Loveland, Red Rocks, Garden of the Gods, The Perch, Cloverdale, Wonder Lake, Talkeetna, McCarthy, the fire pit, Green Independent Trucks hat. Just the tip of the glacier, Portage to be exact, of the memories I have. Your spirit will always live through everyone who knew you. To quote Elton, "Long Live John Bhai."
Elton Parks
January 27, 2011
I worked with John in Denali National Park. He was a friendly and outgoing person with alot of friends in Alaska who are very saddened by his death. We will certainly have a nice memorial for John at the Gold Spike Saloon where he once bartended. He will be very much missed by his many friends in Alaska but we will always enjoy the memories of the kind spirit that John was and indeed still is. Long Live John Bhai! I'm sure he's in a good place right now enjoying a nice cold one and looking forward to a banner year from his beloved Cincinnati Reds.
Audrie. Ouellette
January 27, 2011
I worked with John at Friday's he was a true class act. My thoughts are with your family. May his soul be receptive to our prayers.
Mike & Marianne Emmons
January 26, 2011
Chris, Juli and Family - our thoughts and prayers are with you. May John rest in peace.
Eric Van Allen
January 26, 2011
Meg Bedard
January 25, 2011
Chris, I didn't know how else to convey my deepest sympathy to you. You and your family are in my prayers. May your brother rest in peace...and be in the arms of your loving Mother, without pain or suffering. Wishing you peace, prayers and love at this difficult time and always.
Amanda Klapstein
January 25, 2011
Love to you from Alaska.
John and Kathy Joyce
January 25, 2011
John we have so many wonderful memories of you and our son John.When you became friends in 8th grade along with Eric you three were inseperable. We always felt you were part of our family, a gentle sweet soul who we will miss terribly. You are now in a better place with your mother who is waiting for your with open arms. Harrish, Chris, Karin there are no words at this time that can ease your heavy hearts. We keep you in our thoughts and prayers. May God be with you during this trying time.
Atamjit Singh
January 25, 2011
Harish,Chris,Karen and children our deepest sympathies to the Bhai family for the loss of dear John. I wish I can say something to lessen your pain but there are no words . We pray that God will help you bear the loss. May John rest in peace.
Atamjit,Holanda,Sher,Peter ,Sohni and Sabrina.
Jennifer Dingus
January 25, 2011
John, you are loved.
Jan Speece
January 25, 2011
Chris, Juli, Karen and Mr Bhai, May God wrap His arms around you and let you keep the good memories of John in your heart. My love and sympathy to you all.
Candace O'Leary
January 25, 2011
To hear this news breaks my heart...What a wonderful, talented, and intelligent man. John will be missed by all that ever met him...and to his family my deepest sympathy goes out to you all. My fondest memory of John was watching him play and sing a Bob Marley song at Brixx after close on Ryan Judy's guitar. John, you will always be in my heart...
Angie Honza
January 25, 2011
John, I had the pleasure of working with you at TGIFridays in Colorado. You are an AMAZING person and I'm very happy we developed a friendship. I have always looked up to you, and will keep the memories in my heart. We had some good times, that's for sure! Your smile goes on forever, and your laugh will be heard for miles. I'm sorry I never made it out to Dayton to work for you!! It would have been awesome! Miss you, buddy!!!
Bob Deibel and Family
January 25, 2011
I had the pleasure to be introduced to Bhai through a mutual friend. I cant believe I'm writting this! He will be missed beyond words! May god bless Bhai, his family and friends throughout this tough time..
Nicole Harvey
January 24, 2011
My dearest JohnJohn, you are a GREAT man who truly enriched my life. You will remain in my heart everyday as you continue to inspire me. Thank you for being my friend.
Darshan Wadhwa
January 24, 2011
John, We met you when three of you were teenagers. We were visiting you all after so many years of friendship with your dad. I have great memories of you. We will miss you so much. Our deepest condolences to our Dear brother Harry Bhai and family.
Darshan and Pinky Wadhwa, Houston, TX
Seth and Anita Dewart and Dev Wadhwa
Amy Gordon
January 24, 2011
May the Lord bless you and keep you in eternity with Him
Kyle Bergsman
January 23, 2011
You were such a great guy and friend gone way too soon...will miss you!
Cheri Simmons
January 23, 2011
John was one of the smartest and the most compassionate men I have ever had the pleasure to work for. He had a unique wit and sense of humor about him...and that laugh, who could forget that laugh! Thank you for being just who you are and teaching us all a little something about ourselves. You will truly be missed and Brixx will never be the same without you, but a wonderful reminder of you. Rest in Peace my friend...until we meet again
Alex (Smasher) Harker
January 23, 2011
John. You are such and amazing person and friend. I am sorry we never go to start our Hall and Oates cover band. We would have made it big. But seriously. I am truly happy to have known you. You were always picking me up when I was down at work. You were a blast to work for, and always making me laugh. Hilarious!!!! Always there when I needed to talk to someone. I will miss our interesting conversations. I definitely miss playing guitar with you man. That meant more to me than you will ever know. I could go on for days. You are in my thoughts. My deepest sympathy to Chris, and the Bhai family. Also to Ashley, an incredibly strong girl, and amazing friend. I love you and miss you more than words can ever express. Thank you for being a part of my life.
Katie Rice
January 23, 2011
John, all I have to say is it's 10:29 on 102.9. I will never forget you, such a great person. Rest in peace.
Tara (Joyce) St. Louis
January 23, 2011
John- as a dear friend of my brother's, I have always considered you family. I remember you being at our house in high school and the three of you, John and Eric were inseperable. Your friendship stood the test of time, even when you traveled and lived across the country you and John were able to stay in touch and your friendship knew no boundaries. You have always been such a gentle soul. I am truly blessed to have had you in my life. I remember how you struggled with the tragic and sudden death of your mother. I am certain that you have been united with her and will continue to now enjoy eternal happiness by her side. I offer my deepest condolences to your father, along with your sister Karin and brother Chris. May they be comforted by knowing that you are now at peace.
Tara (Joyce) St. Louis
January 23, 2011
John- as one of my brother's dearest friends I have always considered you part of our family. You and John were best friends through high school and even after living clear across the country from one another your friendship knew no boundaries. You have always been such a sweet and gentle soul. I am so blessed to have had you in my life. I know how much your whole family struggled with the early and tragic death of your mother. I am certain that you are reunited with her now and will have eternal happiness. My deepest condolences to your family, brother Chris, sister Karin and your wonderful father Harry. May you rest in peace and may those who love you so dearly be comforted.
chris lowe
January 23, 2011
John was a great boss and even better man, he will be deeply missed
Jen Leatherbury
January 23, 2011
Bhai you are one of the most generous souls I have ever met, and you've brought such happiness to so many people around you. Like most, I can still hear your amazing laugh, and am happy for the time I was able to spend with you here. Rest in Peace Buddy.
Tara Ross (Mowrey)
January 23, 2011
John Bhai..what a wonderful person that I was fortunate to know in this life. Went to Brixx after many years of not seeing Bhai and once I saw his smiling face, I felt like I was 16 again reliving the good 'ol days. You will be missed. Love you!
Korri
January 23, 2011
John, you were always the life of the party...quietly. You made your way around a room, talking to everyone and leaving an impression. I feel blessed to have had the opportunity to get to know you. There is no doubt you will be kept alive by those who will share their memories of you forever. You will be missed.
Sue Van Allen
January 23, 2011
John, I have loved you most of your life and I will miss you all of the rest of my life. I enjoyed seeing you and Eric grow up in my kitchen, where you always stopped before you two took off with John Joyce to be kids. I especially remember seeing how happy and excited you were as you visited your family when we were all togehter in India a few years ago. You grew up to be a bright, gentle, caring man. I will always remember how you sweetly said each time we met; "Hi, Mrs.Van Allen" and offered a big hug. I also remember how much you loved and missed your mother and our conversations about her. Be with her now.
I offer my sincere condolences to your father, Mr.Bhai,and your brother and sister, Chris and Karen and all of the other family members and friends whom you loved and who love you. They will also miss you all of their lives.
Sue Van Allen
January 23, 2011
John,I have loved you most of your life and I will miss you all of the rest of my life. I enjoyed seeing you and Eric grow up in my kitchen, where you always stopped before you two took off with John Joyce to be kids. I especially remember seeing you and Eric together as you and he visited your family when we were all together in India a few years ago. You grew up to be a bright, gentle,caring man. I wll always remember how you sweetly said each time we met: Hi, Mrs.Van Allen and offered a hug. I remember how much you loved your mother. Be with her now. I offer my sincere condolences to your father, Mr. Bhai, your brother and sister, Chris and Karen and all of those many other family members and friends whom you loved and who love you. They will also miss you all of their lives.
Sue Van Allen
Jenna (Carey) Sallee
January 23, 2011
Rest in peace Bhai..u are missed by so many and will not be forgotten...Xoxo
Sometimes it's ok to look back while moving forward
rodney Sly
January 23, 2011
After a hard day I could always walk in the door at Brixx and feel something. What I felt was warmth! From the REGULARS who all sat in the same seat every day to the staff that waited on us. Just when I could think that I exhaled my long day John would come around the corner with that BIG smile and the FIRM hand shake asking "How's it going Sly?" From there I knew I was where I needed to be, Brixx! John will extremely be missed by us all and Chris We Love you Bro and we will crutch you through. Sly
Monica Bartley
January 23, 2011
John - Your smile and laugh are etched in my heart forever. This is a tragedy...you are loved by so many people and will be remembered by everyone.
Carla Musgrove
January 23, 2011
John you were a ray of sunshine in mine and so many lives. You had the ablility to bring a smile to my face during some of my darkest moments. You will be so very missed. Rest In Power my friend. I send love and light to your family and friends.
Ella Lehman
January 23, 2011
John was one of the kindest,most caring person I have ever met. I can still hear his amazing laugh. He was a great friend to everyone. My husband and I asked him to be our sons godfather. We couldn't think of a more loving person to take on that role. He will be greatly missed. But I will always cherish the time we had with him. Our thoughts are with his family during this hard time. We love you John wherever you are! Enjoy your new journey.
Ella
Jill (Vari) Garrett
January 23, 2011
"Bhai" was a great person who had an ability to make people smile just by watching him.... He had a laugh that I will never forget. His spirit lives on with us and I will cherish all the good times we had. Rest in Peace John. You are greatly missed by so many!
Vincent Spalla
January 23, 2011
John Bhai was a great friend. John loved the rich history here in Dayton and looked forward to a bright future. I respected his opinion and sought his advice. John, his brother Chris and Eric Van Allen are great inpiration for young entrepreneurs in the Dayton area. John believed in Dayton, he loved his friends, his staff at Brixx and all of his patrons. John was a great host and knew how to make people smile. I will miss my buddy John and think of him every day.
The Brinkmans
January 23, 2011
You will be deeply missed John. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
The Brinkmans
January 23, 2011
May you rest in peace John. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Steve Michael
January 23, 2011
John you will be missed. I always thought of you as one of my little brothers.
Jim Bach
January 23, 2011
He will be missed.
Kari Williams
January 23, 2011
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Karrie (Werner) Coggeshall
January 23, 2011
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family, friends and all who knew John. He was a great guy and will truly be missed.
Scott Mullen
January 23, 2011
May you be at peace, John. You will be missed.
tracy sax
January 22, 2011
always a smile and kind word - our prayers are with his family, friends and co workers ? Tracy Sax
Greg Ontiveros
January 22, 2011
John, I am going to miss that laugh of yours the most...and, that I heard it so often.
Rebecca Boehm
January 22, 2011
John your family will be in my prayers. We'll miss you. May you rest in peace.
Volkan Akbay
January 22, 2011
My deepest and sincere condolences to John's family. He will be missed and his spirit never forgotten. May he rest in peace.
Chris Lamb
January 22, 2011
John - you will be missed, friend!! Hope you are at peace.
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