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Robert DOWNER Obituary


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DOWNER, M.D., Robert N. Age 69, passed away January 11, 2014, peacefully and surrounded by his family at Hospice of Dayton, after many years of complications from juvenile diabetes. Robert was preceded in death by his parents John and Mary Downer. He is survived by his loving wife and caregiver of many years, Grace. Also survived by his two children, Martha (Fred) Downer-Assaf and John (Mary-Jo) Downer; eight grandchildren; Catherine, Claire, Hank, Jack, Luke, Mick, Sam and Tommy; Sister, Patricia Lisi; Mother-in-Law, Eleonora Ricca; Sister-in-Law, Lucy Ricca; and other relatives in Florida and New York State. Born March 31, 1944 in Newburgh, New York, Robert graduated from Valley Central High School in Montgomery, N.Y. in 1962 and from Union College in Schenectady, N.Y. in 1966 with a Bachelor of Science degree. He then graduated from Tulane University School of Medicine in New Orleans, Louisiana in 1970 with a Doctor of Medicine degree. After obtaining his medical degree Doctor Downer moved to Cincinnati and completed specialty training at the University of Cincinnati Department of Otolaryngology and Neck Surgery. Doctor Downer practiced in Dayton Ohio in his specialty, including Facial Plastic Surgery and Pediatric Otolaryngology. He was on the staff of Good Samaritan Hospital, Kettering Memorial Hospital and Children's Medical Center. He was also Chief of Staff at Children's 1982-1983. He was a member of the Montgomery County Medical Society, Ohio State Medical Society and was board certified by the American Board of Otolaryngology and Head and Neck Surgery. Doctor Downer retired in 1995 from the practice of medicine and enjoyed golfing, theater, sports and traveling. Along with his wife Grace, he was a member of the Country Club of the North in Beavercreek. Dr. Downer will be deeply missed and remain in our hearts forever. The family extends a deep felt thank you to all the doctors and nurses who cared for him at Miami Valley Hospital Medical ICU. A special thanks to Dr. John R. Boyle, Dr. James Murphy, Dr. Nicholas Christoff, and Dr. Hari Polenakovik. Family will receive friends Wednesday January 15, 5pm to 7pm at Routsong Funeral home, 2100 E. Stroop Rd., Kettering. Mass of Christian Burial will be held Thursday January 16, 10 am, at St. Joseph Church, 411 East Second St, Dayton with Fr. Ken Pleiman officiating. Private Burial will follow at Calvary Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, friends may make memorial contributions to the "Dr. Robert N. Downer '66 & Martha E. Downer '90 Scholarship". The scholarship benefits students with financial need studying science. Gifts should be mailed to the following address: Union College, 807 Union St., Schenectady, NY 12308. Attn: Bo Geel. Condolences may be sent to the family by visiting www.routsong.com

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Published by Dayton Daily News from Jan. 12 to Jan. 15, 2014.

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January 19, 2014

Dear Martha and John,
We send condolences to you, your families, and to Ellen as you look back lovingly and hold tightly your memories of Bob.
Sarah Pavlofsky and Phyllis Allen

Georgia Monroe Baker

January 18, 2014

Rest in Peace Bob.Sincere condolences to family and friends.

Kim Downer Du Bois

January 17, 2014

RIP Bobby, (cousin)your in great company, and have the best people in the world to welcome you. Have a great reunion. Prayers and thoughts to your family.

Good Samaritan Hospital Nurses

January 16, 2014

We remember Dr. Downer as a kind and skillful surgeon. He taught us how to care for his complex surgical patients. May he rest in peace.

young

January 15, 2014

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

January 14, 2014

So sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed seeing Bob. He handled his medical suffering with such dignity, I am sorry there wasn't more we could do for him. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

R.T. Laughlin

January 13, 2014

May your hearts continue to be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together.

Jan & Randy Baker

January 12, 2014

Our sincere and heartfelt sympathy.

January 12, 2014

Our deepest sympathies on the passing of Dr. Downer. In the early 80's he was a very special doctor to our daughter, Jennifer. This was the period that Cabbage Patch dolls just came out. When he found out I couldn't find one for Jennifer - Dr. Downer and his wife brought one to our house as a present. We still have that doll. We had lost touch over the years, but we always thought of him as a very special person.

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