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Italo V. Monteleone M.D.

1930 - 2012

Italo V. Monteleone M.D. obituary, 1930-2012, Wilmington, DE

BORN

1930

DIED

2012

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Wilmington, Delaware

Italo Monteleone Obituary

Italo V. Monteleone, M.D.

Italo V. Monteleone, M.D. of Wilmington, DE passed away on December 14, 2012 at Seasons Hospice and Palliative Care with his family by his side.

Dr. Monteleone was born in Taranto, Italy, to the late Adolfo Villafiorita-Monteleone, a Navy officer, and the late Elvira Mancino Villafiorita-Monteleone, a professor. As the son of a Navy officer, the family moved several times in Italy, settling in Sarno, Sargedna, Pola (now Pula, Croatia), and Taranto. As a teenager during World War II, he lost his older brother Nicola and sister Latina to illness; his father was a casualty of the war. After his father's death, the family returned to Taranto where he graduated from the Classic Lyceum. He graduated in 1956 from the University of Naples, school of Medicine and Surgery. In 1957 he married his long-time love, Cettina Vanda Orlando, after an eight-year courtship. The two immigrated to the United States later that year on a sponsorship from St. Francis Hospital in Jersey City, NJ.

Following his internship at St. Francis Hospital, Dr. Monteleone and his family moved to Marlboro, NJ, where he worked for the NJ State Hospital and specialized in Psychiatry. While in Marlboro, he and his wife became U.S. citizens in 1963. He was appointed associate professor at the Inter Disciplinary Research Center of Rutgers University in New Brunswick, N.J., where he conducted research in Neuropsychopharmacology in the United State and Europe, and published medical papers with his professor, Dr. John Wittenborn, and other associates in U.S.A, Italy, and Turkey. He later worked for the Veterans Administration Hospital in Coatesville, PA, and obtained his specialty in Neurology at Thomas Jefferson University in Philadelphia, PA. He served as staff neurologist at the Veterans Administration Hospital in Lyon, NJ, before accepting an offer as Chief of Neurology for the Department of Mental Health for the State of Delaware in New Castle, DE. A few years later, Dr. M, as he was affectionately known by his patients and co-workers, went into private practice. He had offices in Wilmington and Dover. He became the Chief of Neurology at St. Francis Hospital in Wilmington, DE, was an associate at the Wilmington Medical Center, and consulted at various hospitals in Delaware. He retired from active practice at age 65.

Dr. Monteleone was an active member of St. Anthony of Padua Church, and served as the Grand Marshal in the procession for St. Anthony's Festival in the late 70s. He also was active at his daughters' high school, Padua Academy. In 1996, Dr. Monteleone was among the investees of the Equestrian Order of the Holy Sepulchre of Jerusalem and became a delegate of the knighthood for the dioceses of Wilmington, until he resigned for health reason.

He loved travel and cruising and with his family. He traveled the world with his wife, visiting locations in Europe, the Americas, Asia, and the Middle East. He regularly returned to Italy to visit family and, when time permitted, stayed for a few months. His hobbies included traveling, sculpting landscaping, arts and crafts, and train modeling (evident in the extensive village that he built and designed around eight H.O. model trains running through his basement). He also enjoyed working on his computer, making videos from his travel photos, creating his own greeting cards, and keeping in touch with family and friends through Skype and Facebook. He became a gourmet chef by building upon the cooking skills tha:t he picked up as a child after taking on household responsibilities when his mother returned to work after his father's death. Although nothing was too complicated to attempt, his favorite meals always revolved around pasta and a nice glass of wine.

Dr. Monteleone is survived by his wife, Cettina Vanda Orlando Villafiorita-Monteleone; two daughters, Elvira Caruso and Joanne Donnelly; his sons-in-law, Dominic Caruso and Rick Donnelly; three granddaughters, Elyse Donnelly, Erica Donnelly, and Sarah Clark (husband Jake); two great-grandchildren, Jacob and Evelyn; three brothers in Italy, Vincenzo (wife Giusi) from Genova, and Mario (wife Ave) and Adolfo (wife Marisa) from Taranto; and many cousins, in-laws, nephews, and nieces.

Visitation will be at the CHARLES P. ARCARO FUNERAL HOME, 2309 Lancaster Ave. in Wilmington, on Monday evening, December 17 from 6:30-8:30 pm, and again on Tuesday morning, December 18 from 9:30-10:30 am. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated at St. Anthony of Padua Catholic Church, 9th and DuPont Sts. in Wilmington, on Tuesday morning, December 18 at 11 am. Entombment will follow at Cathedral Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, make donations to the American Cancer Society, 92 Reads Way, New Castle, DE 19720.

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Published by The News Journal from Dec. 16 to Dec. 17, 2012.

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Susan Ciconte

December 23, 2012

To the Monteleone family, and especially Elvira and Joanne: my sincerest condolences offered to you. Your father was an exceptional man and a great asset to the local medical community. I'm always thinking of you, in my heart, prayers, and thoughts.

Lisa Giliberto Mathena

December 20, 2012

I am sad to hear of the passing of Doctor Monteleone. Unital dinners were never the same without the Monteleone family! Doctor Monteleone was always bigger than life! He will be missed. My thoughts and sympathies go out to Mrs. Monteleone, Elva and Joanna during this difficult time.

Donato & Linda Pellegrini

December 18, 2012

Our heartfelt condolences to the Monteleone family as you grieve the loss of your dear one.

December 18, 2012

Dr. M was one of the best bosses I ever had, the kindness and understanding was a trait he carried through out his life. I will always cherish the memories.
Love, Toni Reed

Gianna, Anna e Pier Cescon

December 18, 2012

Addoloratissimi abbracciamo la cara Famiglia Monteleone nella preghiera e nel ricordo di Italo, saggio amico fraterno ed amato padrino di Pier.

December 17, 2012

Dear Vanda,Elva and joanna, I am sos sorry to hear of DRM's death. My thuoghts and prayers are with you.
Much love.
Deb Buchler

Lorraine and Ron Saracini

December 17, 2012

Dear Elvira, We are deeply saddened...we remember the way your father loved to tell his jokes and stories, sitting at the kitchen table in Beach Haven West. He was always upbeat and positive, his smiling face tells it all. Lorraine and Ron

Aleta Salerno

December 16, 2012

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Joe Pelaia

December 16, 2012

Dr. Monteleone was a very special person. He taught me what true courage is. To the family my heart felt sympathy go out to you

Nino Battista Sr.

December 16, 2012

Dr. Monteleone was a great person. He will be missed.

Marge George-Pompilii

December 16, 2012

Dear Elva, Joann and your Mom. Dr. M was a very special doctor and person. It was a pleasure working and knowing him. God Bless.

anita gery

December 16, 2012

Dr M was such a great dr and person. I was very blessed to work with him. He touched many lives. Love and prayers.

Geoff Gayle

December 16, 2012

Peace to you all. Italo clearly leaves a strong legacy.

Maria Money

December 15, 2012

Sorry for your loss. His niece Diana is a dear friend of ours in North Carolina. She thought the world of her uncle. Thinking of your family tonight.

Rosalie Gill

December 15, 2012

Dear Mrs. Monteleone, Elva, and Joanne,
Our deepest condolences to you on this sad occasion. We'll truly miss Dr. M and his sense of humor.
Our love,
Rosalie and Jason

Susan DArrow

December 15, 2012

Dear Elva,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!
Susan

Josephine Pelaia-Fish

December 15, 2012

Dear Vanda, Elva, Joann and Family,

The boys and I are very sorry for your tremendous loss. Dr. Monteleone will always be remembered fondly. We will remember his kindness and wonderful sense of humor.

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