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J. Thomas "Tom" Green Jr.

J. Thomas "Tom" Green Jr. obituary, Newark, DE

J. Green Obituary

J. Thomas Green, Jr. "Tom"

Born in Wilmington, DE in 1937, Tom was the son of the late John T. and Matilda C. (Hassler) Green. After graduating in 1956 from Wilmington High School, Tom joined the military proudly serving his country in the Coast Guard Reserves. His time at sea provided cherished memories, most notably crossing the Arctic Circle in 1958. Perhaps an equally proud moment was when his grandson, Specialist John T. Green IV, presented him with an American Flag which was flown in the Defense of Freedom over the Coalition compound, Kandahar Province, Afghanistan honoring Tom's service to our fine country.

Tom worked for DuPont before he began his apprenticeship with RJ Peoples Painting Contractor. From there he worked for the Wilmington School Board and then began his own business as a paper hanger and painting contractor. Tom built a successful business and was a sought-after contractor known for his attention to detail and integrity. He retired in 2006.

Tom was a member of St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Parish and a 3rd Degree Knight in the Knights of Columbus, St. Michael Chapter. He was a former member of the Prince of Piedmont Lodge and an avid swimmer. Tom was happiest when near the water. From lifeguarding the beach of Cape May Point, NJ and fishing on the Sassafras River to swimming in the family pool and summers on the Delaware beaches, he created lasting memories with and for his family.

He is survived by the love of his life and wife of 54 years, Sandra M. (Delloso) Green; his three children and their spouses, John Thomas III and Alisa, Sandra and Pete Williamson, Cindy and Jeff Weir; seven grandchildren, Peter, John, Tyler, Alyssa, Robert, Coleson, and Rebecca; and a great-granddaughter, Sophia Marie. Tom is also survived by his sisters, Patricia McClafferty and Alice Myers; his brothers, George, Lawrence, Leonard, and David Green; and numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends. He was predeceased by his sisters, Mary Ann Uffelman and Matilda Gallagher.

The family wishes to acknowledge the support of friends and family who filled Tom's final days with love. Special appreciation is extended to the doctors and staff of Helen F. Graham Cancer Center and VITAS Hospice Care.

A Memorial Mass will be celebrated on Wednesday, October 30 at 11:00 am at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Church, 345 Bear-Christiana Road, Bear where friends are invited to visitation after 9:00 am. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to Helen F. Graham Cancer Center - Special Needs Fund, 4701 Ogletown Stanton Road, Newark, DE 19713 or VITAS Hospice Care, 100 Commerce Drive, Suite 302, Newark, DE 19713.

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Published by The News Journal from Oct. 28 to Oct. 29, 2013.

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Peggy and Joe Calarco

November 18, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Karen Cebenka

November 2, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. What a kind man. I worked with him at Giorgi Kitchen's so long ago. He always had a positive attitude and a smile.

God Bless,

November 1, 2013

Our family would like to express our deepest gratitude to all our extended families and friends, co-workers, Vitas hospice , Helen Graham Cancer Center, Father Roger and so many dear people, too numerous to mention for all the food, flowers, visits, and most of all the love and support you have shown to us. Words cannot express our appreciation for your kindness during this difficult time. We are truly blessed to have so many friends and loved ones. Please keep us in your hearts and prayers. Enjoy each day with your loved ones. Love and many blessings. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts. Sandy Green and family

Cindy Weir

November 1, 2013

We thank everyone for your kind words about dad. Reading the posts have brought comfort to us in these last few days. Continue to remember dad and honor him by living a life of purpose.

November 1, 2013

Dear Sandy and Cindy and family,
We have such wonderful memories of Tom- besides his painting- we gained soup recipes, laughs, stories and music- all in a days work. He truly made each day count! We felt blessed to have known him. Truly sorry for your loss. The Sterin Family

October 30, 2013

Simply a wonderful funeral service for a man that would have been very proud of his families efforts. We will certainly have fond memories of Tom, but, we also will miss him. He brought much joy and happiness to the Cathcart's

Audrey Jacobs (Smith )

October 30, 2013

Sandy, my deepest thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family for Tom's loss. Many good memories of talking with you and Tom. R.I.P. Tom.

Sandra Wagner

October 30, 2013

Sandy and family your are all in my thoughts and prayers at this time. If you need anything please let me know.

Blaine & Donna Means

October 29, 2013

Dear Green family,
We had the pleasure of meeting Mr.Greene when Tom was doing some electrical work at my home. He was very friendly, dear and so kind. A gentleman and a gentle man! Our deepest and sincere sympathy for the sorrow you feel at this terrible loss.

Michelle Demmi- Ramsdell

October 29, 2013

Greens, so sorry for your loss. Keeping your family in my prayers.

October 29, 2013

Dear Sandy and Family,
My prayers are with each of you at this time of great sorrow. Heaven has gained a very special Angel to watch over each of you.
Sincerely,
Angie Steele-Tilton

Don Lynch

October 29, 2013

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Johann Capodanno

October 29, 2013

Tom Green is the epitome of what it is to be a husband, father, relative, friend and true Christian. He will always be in my heart.

Ortiz

October 29, 2013

May the comfort of God help you and your family during this difficult time. Sandy you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. If you need anything please know we are here for you.

Love you Dayra and Will Ortiz

October 29, 2013

Green Family, so sorry for your loss. Keeping all of you in our prayers.

The Muzzi Family

Phil, Suzanne & children Apostolico

October 29, 2013

Our hope is that you all remember all the happy memories and the laughter that Tom gave you in a life well lived. I know I will cherish the great childhood memories with Uncle Tom!
Take care Love to all of you!

October 29, 2013

SANDY... my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your entire family. TOM was a long time friend, we may not have seen each other for years, but he always had a smile to remind you of the fine man he was.

Michele Rotholz

October 28, 2013

Sandy I am so sorry and am keeping you in my prayers

Christine Manjerico

October 28, 2013

We are praying for all of you. We will certainly miss him....
Chris, Alexandra, Julian

October 28, 2013

David; Sooo very sorry to hear of your loss. Love you brother. Aaron Z.

Uschi & Klaus Mauder

October 28, 2013

Sandy and family,
Words cannot even begin to express our sorrow, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Tom will be always in our thoughts and forever in our hearts.

Ashley Schorah

October 28, 2013

I'm praying for you Alyssa and your family. I love you guys and am sorry for your loss. I'll be here through it all, whenever you need me. Just know that he's in a better place, watching over all of you with a big smile on his face. My family has been praying and is so sorry.

Cathy Matthews

October 28, 2013

Jeff, Cindy and the entire Green family,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Cathy

Katherine Yerger

October 28, 2013

Sandy, My thoughts, love, and prayers are sent to you and your family. I will always remember Tom's sense of humor and kindness. Love, Bonnie

October 28, 2013

So sorry to be losing another cousin in the Green family. our prayers are with you all. Jane Hassler

October 28, 2013

Sandy and family,

I am sorry for your loss. Mr. Green was such a caring kind hearted man. I will miss his visits to the office and stories about my Dad. I will keep your family in prayer. Teresa Tressler

Robin Christenson

October 28, 2013

Dear All,
Our deepest condolences. We are so sorry we are not there with you! We have wonderful memories of Uncle Tom and all of you!
We love and miss you!
Robin, Johan, Alexander and Arianna

Julia and Debi Mosel

October 28, 2013

You all are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so very sorry for your loss.

October 28, 2013

Thoughts and prayers for the entire Green family. Robin (Bentley) and Bruce Campbell

Mary Agnes & Nick Padovani

October 28, 2013

Cindy & Jeff, We are so very sorry for loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Sue Green

October 28, 2013

I will miss you. My heartfelt condolences to my extended family. Your husband, father, brother, inlaw and friend was a man of intergerty and loyalty. Always there when needed. He will be missed by all that knew him. My love & prayers are with you all.

Paula Gasparro

October 28, 2013

We are so very sorry for your loss, you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Love, Peter & Paula Gasparro

Micheline & Jeff Stone

October 28, 2013

Sending our deepest love and condolences. Tom was a great man and well loved.

Debi and Rick Bentley

October 28, 2013

What a wonderful man!! He was truly an angel on earth and now one in heaven. May God bless you all during this difficult time. As the days go by rely on those wonderful memories to get you through.

Amy McCartan

October 28, 2013

Sending our heartfelt condolences to Tom's family and hoping that the passing of time eases your pain.

The McCartan Family

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